Doobie Doo
Veteran
These aren't benefits or pro marriage reasons, they are just consequences of being irresponsible and single. You can be single and dating and not worry about none of this shyt. Scaring nikkas into marriage is a female tactic.
GMB is a very destructive movement…
- Thread starter CapitalforCapital
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I don’t need to make a real argument. If you move like someone with logic and sense none of the stuff you posted as an issue will factor in. You will mitigate them fully.
Nothing you posted are issues a responsible person will typically deal with.
The Half-Blood FKA Prince
Avada Kedavbreh!
Needs a GRB (go raw brehs) cousin/follow up movement.
Elim Garak
Veteran
All this happens with marriage lol. Many things on that list can be avoided by just being upfront and acting like an adult.
CapitalforCapital
Banned
Logic and sense won’t save you life is unpredictable and dynamic.
Life is but if you are generally prepared and act responsibly most of these things aren’t things you will deal with. And don’t really factor into a reason to be married or not. It’s just being responsible. A lot of people don’t want to sacrifice fun/excitement.
CapitalforCapital
Banned
So married people don’t have fun and exciting lives? Like I said breh I don’t think y’all thought the ideology of this movement through. Marriage doesn’t eliminate risk but it mitigates it.
TreySav
D-Block General
If you complain about a lack of generational wealth, the homicide rates amongst our young men, dwindling black infrastructure, Thot culture, single mothers, or any of the the other problems associated with broken homes; I don’t see how you can take an anti marriage stance. I’m not saying issues associated with marriage shouldn’t be discussed or that you as an individual need to get married, but it takes a community to build a community
And the community ain’t building shyt without the black family. We know what the statistics are on single parent households vs married couples so this shyt ain’t conjecture. Also, married men and women are shown to be more educated and financial stable than single people. All this “we eating out here” or black women with the “we thriving” need to look at statistics cause single women especially are, “we struggling”
You also gotta keep in mind that getting married doesn’t mean problem automatically solved, cause you still have to do all the implied tasks of making yourself marriageable and putting in the effort of finding an equally marriageable person. You also gotta learn to be an effective parent that leaves a legacy and raise heirs capable of picking up where you left off. Marriage alone won’t completely help us resolve the challenges of racism, poverty, other forms of injustice but it’s a much need foundation to dealing with these larger issues successfully
Ever notice white people are always asking “what about our children” when shyt goes wrong? life is a game of pass the baton and way too many folks in our ranks are following up feminism and redpill. White people can afford to have these squabbles because they have the safeguards in place to protect their community. latching on to white people drama and bullshyt is like taking on Elon musk problems without Elon Musk money
And the community ain’t building shyt without the black family. We know what the statistics are on single parent households vs married couples so this shyt ain’t conjecture. Also, married men and women are shown to be more educated and financial stable than single people. All this “we eating out here” or black women with the “we thriving” need to look at statistics cause single women especially are, “we struggling”
You also gotta keep in mind that getting married doesn’t mean problem automatically solved, cause you still have to do all the implied tasks of making yourself marriageable and putting in the effort of finding an equally marriageable person. You also gotta learn to be an effective parent that leaves a legacy and raise heirs capable of picking up where you left off. Marriage alone won’t completely help us resolve the challenges of racism, poverty, other forms of injustice but it’s a much need foundation to dealing with these larger issues successfully
Ever notice white people are always asking “what about our children” when shyt goes wrong? life is a game of pass the baton and way too many folks in our ranks are following up feminism and redpill. White people can afford to have these squabbles because they have the safeguards in place to protect their community. latching on to white people drama and bullshyt is like taking on Elon musk problems without Elon Musk money
You are the person who mitigates the risk you can do that within or outside of marriage. So yes you do assume more risk by being married. The items you are trying to present are not dependent on marriage at all.
KingsOfKings
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Please join the G.O.T.H movement
Get Out The House
These issues are a chicken or the egg situation. It looks to me that marriage is correlated to prosperity, education, and security but marriage isn't going to solve problems. Our society and culture isn't gonna get better just from people getting married.
The types of people who get married are more likely to be goal-oriented, have more foresight. Probably the type of people who have life insurance, a mortgage, etc.
Married couples have thot daughters and a marriage can still result in a broken home. It's easy to be anti-marriage when nikkas getting tore out the frame in family court on a regular basis. People have to move better. Marriage ain't gonna do it. I personally believe that when we're doing better as a whole, more of us will get married as a result. Not the other way around.
OperationNumbNutts
Superstar
Sad but that's a fair statement.
