*GMB With a Loss* WalnutWay _ Black Couple Founded Community Restoration Organization

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How One Couple's Love Story Sparked Change In Their Community, Block By Block

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Sharon and Larry Adams, pictured in January 2016 in the Milwaukee home where their nonprofit, Walnut Way, is based.



Husband and wife Larry and Sharon Adams have spent the past 20 years bringing boarded up homes in their Milwaukee neighborhood back to life.

The love they share for their community grew out of their love for each other. During a StoryCorps interview in October, Larry, now 65, and Sharon, 72, remember how they first met.

It was 1997, and Sharon had just moved back to her childhood home on North 17th Street in Milwaukee's Lindsay Heights neighborhood. But like several other properties in the neighborhood, it needed some work.

Larry, who was working as a contractor, took a job to rewire Sharon's house. One day, as Larry was working, Sharon offered him some tea.

He says he was doing full renovations of five other homes at the time. "I'm smoking two packs of cigarettes a day and didn't have time for none of that," he says. "But out of my mouth came 'Yes.' "

Almost from the start, sparks flew between them. Sharon recalls feeling Larry's gaze, but he avoided direct eye contact.


The two didn't see each other again for another month, when Larry asked Sharon out for ice cream — their first date. "I'm thankful to God every day since," he says.

Over the next year, they moved in together and got married. Larry remembers Sharon telling him about the history of the neighborhood.

"You told me Walnut Street was a place, historically, where African-American entrepreneurs had resided," he says. "And in this area, there were elm trees up and down the block that kissed in the middle of the street."

But deindustrialization that started in the 1980s stalled the rise of many middle-class African-American families in the area. And Sharon was disturbed by the evidence of that deterioration throughout Lindsay Heights.

While celebrating Christmas one year, the couple remembers sitting in the kitchen, looking out at their block. With most of the homes vacant and boarded up, the street was very dark.

In the dark, Larry says Sharon noticed a flash of light. "What's going on with the flickering of those lights?" he remembers her asking. "And it was crack pipes."

Sharon says, "We looked at each other and said, "This is --"

"It's not right," Larry says.

Sharon made a request. "I want you to do that house, please," she recalls asking. "I did say 'please,' right?"

"Absolutely," he says. "Your eyes always say 'please.' "

It was their first joint renovation on the block, but hardly the last. A few years after that first renovation, the couple established Walnut Way, a nonprofit dedicated to revitalizing their Milwaukee neighborhood.

Since then, they've built and restored more than 100 homes.

"The renovation of our own home became secondary to the renovation of our community," Sharon says. "There is such a blessing in the commitment that you and I have for each other. And I get great joy when that commitment manifests itself. Block by block, household by household."

For Larry, it's become more meaningful than his previous work. "I was renovating homes, but to take it deeper, to renovate communities — it's a purposeful life."

Audio produced for Morning Edition by Aisha Turner and Afi Yellow-Duke.

StoryCorps is a national nonprofit that gives people the chance to interview friends and loved ones about their lives. These conversations are archived at the American Folklife Center at the Library of Congress, allowing participants to leave a legacy for future generations. Learn more, including how to interview someone in your life, at StoryCorps.org.
 

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Isn't the concept of GMB that marriages never work out?

#GMB to me is like a man who marries a woman IN THIS AGE where marriages don't mean shyt...:ld:

I like old school strong black marriages back in the day... :ehh: there's a damaging of the idea of marriage now because every female aint even marriage material anymore they out for themselves... alot of men need to realize currently with marriage the way it is... the laws for it, women filing 50% of the time, the courts is against you. shyt is not worth it...:francis:
 
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#GMB to me is like a man who marries a woman IN THIS AGE where marriages don't mean shyt...:ld:

I like old school string black marriages back in the day... :ehh: there's a damaging of the idea of marriage now because every female aint even marriage material anymore they out for themselves... alot of men need to realize currently with marriage the way it is... the laws for it, women filing 50% of the time, the courts is against you. shyt is not worth it...:francis:


Eh, it's a good story that deserved more attention and it only had barely 100 views since I made it early yesterday morning. Didn't want to disrespect it by sticking PAWG in the title lol. If you got any other ideas for a better title I'm all for it.


Otherwise I can just get it out of the way and summon @YaThreadFloppedB! before someone else does :mjlol:
 

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#GMB to me is like a man who marries a woman IN THIS AGE where marriages don't mean shyt...:ld:

I like old school strong black marriages back in the day... :ehh: there's a damaging of the idea of marriage now because every female aint even marriage material anymore they out for themselves... alot of men need to realize currently with marriage the way it is... the laws for it, women filing 50% of the time, the courts is against you. shyt is not worth it...:francis:


They got married in 1997. Aint shyt changed that much since then. The secret to their maritial success is likely age. Studies prove the older you are when you the the knot, the more likely your union will last. She was 52 and he was 47 I believe.


He's a blue-collar. Love that he has the skillset to take on projects like these. My husband cant even install a damn pot rack.
 
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