Go all out on the first date brehs

Chelsea Bridge

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I would turn her down. My time is valuable. Why waste time with a chick who I'm not feeling when I could be chillin with a chick I'm actually feeling.

That's not wasting time. She can turn out to be a cool person that you can be friends with.
 

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What?? That's not an appropriate conversation to have before the date. You never discuss the bill until it comes.

Plus I don't go with expectation of him paying, you guys are the ones that still follow that. We just don't say anything unless we like you enough to want to contribute, lol.
most guys asking a chick on a date don't care about paying because we are asking you out,
 

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Most people are shooting for the stars in the dating game and getting played. That's men and women. That chick is fine, but she's probably chasing a baller who smashes her with no intent of wifing her.

This what happens when you're chasing waterfalls and trying to overachieve in the dating game. If you're a 6 or 7, trying to pursue a 9/10 you're going to have to pay for it one way or another. When women simp, they have to get up sex early and often. When men simp, we have to give up money early and often.

It all evens out at the end of the day..

Personally I feel im a 6/7, maybe a 8 to some woman, but I stay in my range. I'm not trying to pursue a IG model or a dime. I have to be the man and run things. If the chick feels she's better than you, you ain't running shyt.
 

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That's not wasting time. She can turn out to be a cool person that you can be friends with.
If i'm not feeling a chick then i wouldnt go on a "date" with her. If I get the friend vibe with a chick then i'd hit her up like this "hey my friends and I are going to a bar on saturday, you should come through with some of your pretty homegirls." I would holla at some of her friends and let my friends holla at her. Its a waste of time to go on dates with females who I'm not feeling or who arent feeling me.
 

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attractive women got it made. if i was a woman and hungry i'd just get on an online dating site and finesse me a free meal from simps every week.

i'd stay in red lobster inhaling the cheddar biscuits like

patrick-inhale-burgers.gif
 

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Most people are shooting for the stars in the dating game and getting played. That's men and women. That chick is fine, but she's probably chasing a baller who smashes her with no intent of wifing her.

This what happens when you're chasing waterfalls and trying to overachieve in the dating game. If you're a 6 or 7, trying to pursue a 9/10 you're going to have to pay for it one way or another. When women simp, they have to get up sex early and often. When men simp, we have to give up money early and often.

It all evens out at the end of the day..

Personally I feel im a 6/7, maybe a 8 to some woman, but I stay in my range. I'm not trying to pursue a IG model or a dime. I have to be the man and run things. If the chick feels she's better than you, you ain't running shyt.

Damn, that's some real ass spit right there. Too many clowns be on some idealistic "looks/money/status doesn't matter" tip but then bash dudes for simping. If dudes kept it 100 about themselves they wouldn't feel the need to simp. If chicks kept it 100 about themselves, they wouldn't be getting dogged out by men.
 

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attractive women got it made. if i was a woman and hungry i'd just get on an online dating site and finesse me a free meal from simps every week.

i'd stay in red lobster inhaling the cheddar biscuits like

patrick-inhale-burgers.gif

Thats why I dont take chicks out on dinner dates. I usually have chicks come straight to my crib to smash or meet them at a park and then come to my crib. So many girls in Atlanta are going on 3-4 dates a week with guys they have no interest in just to get a free meal.
 

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:mjlol: real nikkas know that for the first few dates, you finesse with super affordable options that are "cultured" enough to not be perceived as cheap -- a museum, an art exhibit, a park with good natural scenery. makes you come off as original and your wallet will thank you
 

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As the leader of #HOH I would have told the waiter to split the bill from the jump. bytches need to kno off the jump this ain't no gravy train
 
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