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If this is a true story dude was douchey!!!! I would have never left with him after he showed up looking like a bum.
 

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why the fukk would you go on a date with someone you know nothing about, its like they didnt have no phone convo just exchanged numbers, sent a few text and went on a date:mindblown:
Are you 12, or have you never gone on a date before? You generally go on the date to find out about a person.
 

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Are you 12, or have you never gone on a date before? You generally go on the date to find out about a person.

Yep, nothing beats face to face. Nothing comes close.

I doubt he was condescending on the phone or so boring/cerebral with questions of quantum mechanics on the phone.

Phone convo can only go so far.
 

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I've never done the blind date thing and I always had some type of convo before going on a date to know what she's into to get a feel
I had a few days of relatively retrospective with a young You can never truly know, people can come off as radically different in person, as opposed to over the phone. I know I come off a lot less funny on the phone than I do in person. I commend her for tolerating the date, and I wish her better on future endeavours.
Her colourism leaves something to be desired though :mjpls:
Its honestly hard to find a Black woman in STEM who's also interesting.
 

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maybe im different but before I go on a date with someone I get to know them to see if its worth going on a date
Only men are allowed to do that. Women have to take what they can get from men of worth. She should have looked past his hot doo doo breath, inability to interact with humans, and thinking that eating tuna on a date is OK. He is a "good person". Look at how he treated the waiter, and how entitled he felt at the end.
 
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