Going out solo

[King Poetic]

I don't see how anyone stays at home every weekend.

i can sometimes see it though... finances is the biggest thing and i understand that bills, groceries, or saving for car or trips is more important..

 

[ℒℴѵℯJay ELECTUA]

so do u take your drinks to the bathroom or leave it on the table?

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

For older dudes like myslef and others..

the main objective is to hit a lounge solo and make sure u dress down from either a steven a smith type suit or some laid back michael jordan type casual gear and make sure u go when the odds are in your favor like 5 to 1 women to men.. go chill at the bar and like u doing some business work and i guarantee u some chick will come up and say why u texting and not enjoying the music.. AND BOOM U IN....

this old nikka

I bet you got cheese eyes too nikka

ole Paco jean, sickle cell eye, swag ass nikka

 

[little4209]

I went to a Musiq Soulchild concert by myself last month, just got tired of waiting on people so I just said fuk it and went...I don't usually even go out alone but it's something I've been thinking about doing more

 

[The 2020 New Member]

i normally go out alone but then i meet up with all my friends. you know beer, wine, and liquor, don't you? I normally don't dance a lot but if i've really got to use the bathroom, then i'll break out of wall flower mode and 2 step to the nearest urinal. the closer i get the better dancer i become.

 

[Jesus]

For older dudes like myslef and others..

the main objective is to hit a lounge solo and make sure u dress down from either a steven a smith type suit or some laid back michael jordan type casual gear and make sure u go when the odds are in your favor like 5 to 1 women to men.. go chill at the bar and like u doing some business work and i guarantee u some chick will come up and say why u texting and not enjoying the music.. AND BOOM U IN....

 

[NoMayo15]

Luckily I just know a lot of people in my city, so even if I'm out solo dolo, I'll see 50 people I know and it's all good. But I understand this mindset. Sometimes when I go out w/ my boys, it will fukk me up cause I'll feel self-conscious about some chicks I approach. My best nights are when IDGAF, buzzed, talkin to every girl I see.

 

[NoMayo15]

Honestly, I have had more success with women going out solo than with my brothers...

The main reason is that I can just attack any girl who gets my penis erect, without having to worry about how my brothers are going to rate her...

For me it's so liberating, because I am in constant competition with my brothers..

If one bags a ten, then I have to literally bag a 10+celebrity in order to relax and have a good time...

This! That pressure fukks with you ... and can really fukk you out of meeting some really cool 7's and 8's, while you're waiting on that perfect 10 that doesn't exist.

 

[nineteeneightysix]

I'm a little bit of a loner at times but going out alone to a club is definitely not cool. I can eat alone or hit a bar because that's kinda normal. Y'all niccas just don't have many friends and you end up at the club alone trying too hard. Niccas be seeing y'all looking at ya phone acting like you texting or busy but you really just on The-Coli.

My face card good everywhere so if I ride out to a club I run into people I know and end up in their group. I know chicks ask where your friends are and if you say you alone they get a lil uncomfortable because it looks weird. You niccas expose y'all self with these types of threads and responses.

I feel the opposite...

I can go to a club by myself (and I prefer it that way), but I will never go to a bar or restaurant alone (fast joint yes), but mid to high level restaurants...Hell NO...

Drunks go to the bar alone...That's not at all "normal"...Eating alone is also "loser" behaviour...Eating with friends and family and laughing and reminiscing of the good ole days is what "normal" people do...

When I go to the club, my 1st goal is to get into some girls pants, and if I can't do that, is to get at least a number...I don't need other people to do that...

If a girl asks "where are your friends?" I tell her, "my best friend is making out with a hoe right now, and he left me all alone to fend for myself" Instant disguised pick-up line...

 

[NoMayo15]

If a girl asks "where are your friends?" I tell her, "my best friend is making out with a hoe right now, and he left me all alone to fend for myself" Instant disguised pick-up line...

And this works a lot for you?

 

[doug c]

i do this all the time when im out of town for business.. pulled a good amount of women off the strength of 'im here on business'.. that leads to a simple convo about 'wow, so what do you do?'.and its a wrap from there.. also, i noticed if u buy regular lookin cute chicks drinks, they always down to chat with u.. and its pretty certain one of them will be down to roll back to the telly by the end of the night..

now when im back home, i'll definitely do a bar or strip club solo.. but a club/lounge setting.. probably not.. cus clubs/lounges its usually a 'im with my boys/girls' type scenario.. chicks normally aren't that open to chatting with a dude who came dolo..

 

[KEEPITTRILLA]

 

[nineteeneightysix]

And this works a lot for you?

Every punchline is corny when the chick ain't feeling you, and every punchline is good when a chick is feeling you...

It's all about how it's delivered, and how it's a perceived...

 

[DeuceZ]

I've gone to bars/lounges dolo all the time...First time I did it was approached by 3 females who just wanted to kick it ...I agree with an earlier poster who said it basically forces u to talk to people...none of that looking at ur celly business when u know damn right u aint expecting a call/text

cant wait to hit a cool cigar lounge dolo

 

[rapdonttweet]

I'd feel like a creep hitting the clubs by myself.