Going out solo

[Red Omega]

ive tried this once and it was horrible experience.

but then again i dont have the personality to just go and speak to someone.

if one does it enough times something is bound to happen at least a few times though

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Wth do you do by yourself though?

IF YOU SCARED, SAY YOU SCARED

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

This topic always comes up on the innanets and a bunch of folks pat each other on the back for experiencing life alone, but the stories really don't add up. If you're such the social butterfly you'd have found someone to enjoy these experiences with by now.

Not being wanting to "wait on people" is code for an inability to manage relationships/friendships.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

This topic always comes up on the innanets and a bunch of folks pat each other on the back for experiencing life alone, but the stories really don't add up. If you're such the social butterfly you'd have found someone to enjoy these experiences with by now.

Not being wanting to "wait on people" is code for an inability to manage relationships/friendships.

Wait you can't do both? I used to go out with friends sometimes and go out by myself sometimes too, I didn't know it had to be either or

 

[Soundbwoy]

This topic always comes up on the innanets and a bunch of folks pat each other on the back for experiencing life alone, but the stories really don't add up. If you're such the social butterfly you'd have found someone to enjoy these experiences with by now.

Not being wanting to "wait on people" is code for an inability to manage relationships/friendships.

As you get older youre gonna have different taste than your friends my usual group of friends are clubbing from thurday to sunday i cant do this shyt anymore, i like to go to concerts, art expositions, comedy shows and festivals so most of the time if i cant find a friend to go along ill go by myself

 

[Carolina Slim]

This topic always comes up on the innanets and a bunch of folks pat each other on the back for experiencing life alone, but the stories really don't add up. If you're such the social butterfly you'd have found someone to enjoy these experiences with by now.

Not being wanting to "wait on people" is code for an inability to manage relationships/friendships.

WANTING to "wait on people" is code for an inability to step out and experience life on your own terms. LOL at someone wanting to go somewhere but they "can't" cause they too shook to go without their peoples. at letting the next man dictate ya night's plans cause he show up when he wanna show up. Low key that nikka is disrespecting you and your time by saying basically "you ain't gonna do nothing without me "

I can't remember how many time I ditched my partners in a situation like this, and by the time they caught up with me I was already good. Bottom line, not everybody is gonna look at you the same way. I'm comfortable enough rolling up in a spot for self knowing that someone might look at me and be like "what a loser", which I don't care about, and also knowing that someone might also look at me and be like "this nikka here is on something different". If you out solo and look like you can win. If you out looking like then your night will be an L.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

No problem going places solo, I know how to dress so bytches always notice me. Not the last time but the time before I actually brought a chick to my place who came in the spot with another dude.

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

WANTING to "wait on people" is code for an inability to step out and experience life on your own terms. LOL at someone wanting to go somewhere but they "can't" cause they too shook to go without their peoples. at letting the next man dictate ya night's plans cause he show up when he wanna show up. Low key that nikka is disrespecting you and your time by saying basically "you ain't gonna do nothing without me "

I can't remember how many time I ditched my partners in a situation like this, and by the time they caught up with me I was already good. Bottom line, not everybody is gonna look at you the same way. I'm comfortable enough rolling up in a spot for self knowing that someone might look at me and be like "what a loser", which I don't care about, and also knowing that someone might also look at me and be like "this nikka here is on something different". If you out solo and look like you can win. If you out looking like then your night will be an L.

You miss the point...I'd never described doing shyt with friends as "waiting on other people"....y'all do that.

 

[JasonSJackson]

I feel the opposite...

I can go to a club by myself (and I prefer it that way), but I will never go to a bar or restaurant alone (fast joint yes), but mid to high level restaurants...Hell NO...

Drunks go to the bar alone...That's not at all "normal"...Eating alone is also "loser" behaviour...Eating with friends and family and laughing and reminiscing of the good ole days is what "normal" people do...

When I go to the club, my 1st goal is to get into some girls pants, and if I can't do that, is to get at least a number...I don't need other people to do that...

If a girl asks "where are your friends?" I tell her, "my best friend is making out with a hoe right now, and he left me all alone to fend for myself" Instant disguised pick-up line...

its funny how ur comfortable calling all this other stuff loser behavior except for the one you do......

I cant remember ever going to a club alone. When i go to the club its like what the dudes in here have been saying.......we go in together, split up, link up and just have fun. If im going to a club its to have a good time so yea...i prefer to do i it with the fellas.....going to the club dolo may be fun for u tho .....................do u

Ive been to lounges dolo before and its been cool. It be more so on some posting up just peeping the scene and stalking my prey and waiting for the perfect opportunity to pounce type tip and less just plain having fun. Alot more females approach me in this type of setting tho.....

I could see going to a bar dolo but ive never done it.........

Pro's and cons to everything..........

just becareful going to them clubs solo, i dont care who u are.........nobody wants to get into any ish solo........bump that

 

[ℒℴѵℯJay ELECTUA]

Going solo to these are all OK..
museum
art gallery
zoo
cinema (art house/indie cinema houses..mainly)

clubs and bars is kinda off key rolling in dolo..unless you're a drug dealer or serial rapist/killer.

 

[DeuceZ]

No problem going places solo, I know how to dress so bytches always notice me. Not the last time but the time before I actually brought a chick to my place who came in the spot with another dude.

 

[NSSVO]

When I first was in Korea, was getting over some stuff back home, and I was a new guy... I didn't know anybody so I said fukk it. I went out dolo a lot, for a while too. Then we things warmed up at my job, I went out with the same 2 or 3 guys. Had fun doing both, out here in Europe I'm doing a mixture of both. Sometimes a nikka gotta have fun by himself, sometimes a nikka wants to roll with his nikkas.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

for my dyslexic brehs I got you.


She came to the place with another guy and me and her started talking and I ended up taking her home. After about 15 minutes of me and her talking he just disappeared.

 

[SemiEnlightenedBum]

all the time,mostly flicks or music shows dough

i don't respect people who can't handle shyt dolo,ol scared of your own shadow ass suckas

 

[NoMayo15]

for my dyslexic brehs I got you.


She came to the place with another guy and me and her started talking and I ended up taking her home. After about 15 minutes of me and her talking he just disappeared.

Sure. Just because two people of the opposite sex come in together doesn't mean they're together. For all you know, that could be her brother