Got flaked on 2wice....

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some of you are experts at the celibacy game
that's where you excel, that's what you know
others know the relationship game
dating, exclusivity, monogamy, escalating devotion
but why are YOU folks posting in this thread??
it's like writing up reviews of mixtapes you haven't listened to
so.. with down-to-fukk situations..
last minute plans are still valid plans
if you are busy or do not want to be disturbed, turn off your fukk phone
otherwise- if you are open to possibilities, keep your fukk phone on
make calls and or answer the ones you get

you also have to be less sensitive in the down-to-fukk situations
they frequently involve alcohol/drugs, chronic tardiness, last minute baby-sitters or location changes, unreliable transportation, all kinds of mess
you wouldn't expect queensbury rules in a parking lot brawl
so don't expect marriage-level communication, clarity, and consideration

you basically only delete them if the sex is whack
or they somehow scare you, make you uncomfortable etc
otherwise, that's just how it goes- don't be so picky
 

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Women tend to make time for men they wanna see so in the vast majority of cases, one flake gives you an idea about where they stand with you. There's exceptions but you'll be smart not to waste your time on average. Bushes. Especially after the second one.
 

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I am divided on which side I choose. It depends on your vibe with the girl and both your personalities. I don't feel homie made a bytch move by brushing her off. She did the same thing to him after all.

Now it would have been "petty" in her perception if he called her out for flaking. But he wouldn't have been wrong to do that. The problem is when you are dealing with anything above a 6/10 they usually have options because there are negroes out there 10x more desperate than you and constantly blowing up her phone even if they are in the friend zone.

Basically your dikk has to compete with the attention they are giving her in which to participate all she has to do is sit back and enjoy. It is similar if 300 girls lined up and said I will give you a BJ would you ever get around to having sex? Maybe, maybe not.

Adjust your scope and target different females, get an escort if need be for that particular night or line up and stack more options. I think a combination of all 3 would be most ideal.
 

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I am divided on which side I choose. It depends on your vibe with the girl and both your personalities. I don't feel homie made a bytch move by brushing her off. She did the same thing to him after all.

Now it would have been "petty" in her perception if he called her out for flaking. But he wouldn't have been wrong to do that. The problem is when you are dealing with anything above a 6/10 they usually have options because there are negroes out there 10x more desperate than you and constantly blowing up her phone even if they are in the friend zone.

Basically your dikk has to compete with the attention they are giving her in which to participate all she has to do is sit back and enjoy. It is similar if 300 girls lined up and said I will give you a BJ would you ever get around to having sex? Maybe, maybe not.

Adjust your scope and target different females, get an escort if need be for that particular night or line up and stack more options. I think a combination of all 3 would be most ideal.
Brushing her off wasn't the bytch move, being mad enough to brush her off then asking her out again was the bytch move...

If you don't fukk with flakes then completely don't fukk with them. But what it looked liked to her was that he was trying to get even by waiting awhile to hit her back... Which he was.

Ive cut chicks off for that reason but I completely cut them off. Plus I've had fine females friends that admit that they flaked out on people because they were tired, or something came up, or they weren't over an ex, didn't feel like being around anyone, etc.

So I look at it like if a woman wants to try again she'll hit me up when she's ready. I've done my part the first time and if she not feeling me cool. I'm gonna keep it moving regardless. If she invites me to go out then I'll roll. If she flakes again (never happened) then she's in the bushes

Homeboy said he wasn't even feeling her, just trying to fukk. Then why you all pusshurt about it? Did you shoot down every plan in your night just to hang out with a chick you don't like? Sounds like that's your fault
 
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By the same damn woman :upsetfavre:....Couple months ago I met this chick through this guy that I donate weed to :mjpls: Now this chick seemed cool as hell, she could actually hold a conversation and she even seemed interested in the same things as I. Such as working out and eating healthy. Now I wasn't looking for a relationship with this chick because she has a kid :scust:, but I was hoping we could be cool and chill and smoke tree's together hell maybe even workout together sometime. Anyways, one day I tell her we need to get together soon, and her reply is "we can do that for sure" so im like fa sho cause she got a PHAT ass and the first time I saw her I just knew I wanted to go up in that. So yeah about a week later(around the end of May) I sent her a text "I want to see you this weekend". She hits me back saying she can't this weekend so we make plans for Thursday. Thursday comes around and at about 4Pm I hit her telling her to slide through around 8PM. Mane this bish talkin bout some she had to go to Baytown, TX to help her mom with some shyt and that she was really looking foward to coming over and that we should reschedule. Now I sensed BULLshyt right away because if she really was looking forward to coming like she claimed then she would have atleast told me that she couldnt make it instead of waiting on me to text her before she told me. I just kept it cool and said we can do that. So fast forward to last weekend, I haven't texted her this whole time I been like fukk her and literally forgot all about her, I get a text from her on a Saturday at 6PM talkin about some "I want to get out og the house lets go do something if you are not busy". I ignored the message because I felt like she was just trying to see if I would come running whenever she called. So after all my prospects fell through and noticing I had to start back at square one with NO hoze I decided to hit her up telling her to come out with me on saturday at 8pm and to come to my crib we will ride to the destination together in my car. She says agrees and says that sounds good. Saturday comes and I text her saying come at 9 instead and the bytch never replies :upsetfavre: I aint gonna lie I wanted to cuss her out for blatantly playing games, but I decided not to even say anything I didn't try to call and ask where she was or anything. I did feel stupid for giving her the benefit of the doubt though. At the end of the day, fukk these hoze my nikkas, if a bytch flakes once throw that hoe in the garbage bin

Call bytches. You text her TWICE bro. You can weed through the bullshyt easily then. But without a doubt if you call a bytch, and she doesn't return your call within 8 hours, fukk her. Stop giving these hoes second chances breh. She has that fat ass and I'm sure she has plenty of guys similar to you, just have them jumping through hoops to get to that big booty but don't fall for her stupid ass trap. Peace.
 

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No I'm not fakkit, I'm not one to get all in my emotions playing phone games because I don't know how bytches act :mjlol:


And then I'm not one to go whine on a message board because my feelings are so hurt, because I don't know how bytches act

Trying to ACT all prideful over nothing when you really dying inside:heh:
:mjlol::mjlol::mjlol:

Ethered this dude good lord:banderas:
Watching the OP self-destruct in explanation throughout his thread was:mjlol:
Y'all need to step that game up:blessed:
Talkin about "Well she ignored me the first time so I'm not gonna give her time this time":scust:
Got me reminiscin' bout a similar situation with a chick that dragged on forever:ohhh:
She wouldn't show up to shyt when I invited her and I'd act all "Well I'll see if I'm busy" when she hit me up to be with her at a party or some shyt:mjlol:
Lame ass prideful fukkboys:mjlol::mjlol::mjlol:

Team No Lackin and we puttin in work in the field out here:steviej::banderas:
Pickin wut we want while y'all fools crying on an internet forum about how you can't get women:dead:
25 sittin on 25 mill:ohlawd:
Team No Lackin boy:banderas:
 

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nikkas be afraid to express themselves when a girl flakes.

I'm calling her out asap:manny:
 

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when you start dealing with women who hvae you as number 1 then you wont accept this ish. Regardless of how attractive sh eis.

I've been with beautiful women and many never flaked, while some did.

it has nothing to do with "ignoring", its viewing yourself and your time as VALUABLE.

If a chick flakes and doesn't reschedule, then shrugs. Theres a bunch of other women out there, some will view you valuable others won't. I'll spendmy time on those that do
 

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some of you are experts at the celibacy game
that's where you excel, that's what you know
others know the relationship game
dating, exclusivity, monogamy, escalating devotion
but why are YOU folks posting in this thread??
it's like writing up reviews of mixtapes you haven't listened to
so.. with down-to-fukk situations..
last minute plans are still valid plans
if you are busy or do not want to be disturbed, turn off your fukk phone
otherwise- if you are open to possibilities, keep your fukk phone on
make calls and or answer the ones you get

you also have to be less sensitive in the down-to-fukk situations
they frequently involve alcohol/drugs, chronic tardiness, last minute baby-sitters or location changes, unreliable transportation, all kinds of mess
you wouldn't expect queensbury rules in a parking lot brawl
so don't expect marriage-level communication, clarity, and consideration

you basically only delete them if the sex is whack
or they somehow scare you, make you uncomfortable etc
otherwise, that's just how it goes- don't be so picky
:camby:
 
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