Got this girl i been trying to get with but...

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

I agree to an extent, but females are notorious for pulling the "I'm just not ready yet/I just got out of a relationship" card, then a week/month later she got some new nikka diggin her out and she's all

OP you need to find out more info. She might just be interested in someone else.

 

[JohnStarksMiddleFinger]

She would always make it a point atleast every cpl days to try to make me jealous.
She was just completly unstabled emotionally.
But like someone said already she prob still had feelings.for a.ex, if they agrued one day she would give me mad love, if they were in.good terms she would act like i aint exist. Just an example as too why she mightve always been changing up.

Breh I'm going through the same shyt right now, how did you deal?


Currently I've just decided to domy own thing so she can see I'm not going be waiting in her back pocket forever

 

[opulence]

Breh I'm going through the same shyt right now, how did you deal?


Currently I've just decided to domy own thing so she can see I'm not going be waiting in her back pocket forever

wait for no one...if it is meant it will happen...waiting will upset you if things do not work in your favor...especially if you find out while you were waiting another man got her...

as a woman I can tell you if I want you and you want me...there would be nothing stopping me...if she is making you wait it is for a reason...and it may be a reason you would not like...also you may get to date her and find out she was not even worth waiting for and you may miss out on a good woman waiting for her...

some of yall are going to end up like forest gump and Jenny Lol

 

[TRBM]

Tell her you are interested in her but you realize this is not a good time. Telling her you're interested SHOULD prevent her from friend zoning you if you two still decide to kick it. Find you another chick to have sex with if you have to, but I wouldn't advise sleeping trying to sleep with her either.

 

[JohnStarksMiddleFinger]

wait for no one...if it is meant it will happen...waiting will upset you if things do not work in your favor...especially if you find out while you were waiting another man got her...

as a woman I can tell you if I want you and you want me...there would be nothing stopping me...if she is making you wait it is for a reason...and it may be a reason you would not like...also you may get to date her and find out she was not even worth waiting for and you may miss out on a good woman waiting for her...

some of yall are going to end up like forest gump and Jenny Lol

Get out of my brain!
Exactly what I needed to hear. Repped.

 

[opulence]

Get out of my brain!
Exactly what I needed to hear. Repped.

and if she magically comes around after you find someone else...then she probably was not sincere anyway...

 

[ugksam]

she's playin games with ya

 

[Klyk21]

Really depends on what OP is looking for.....a smash? A gf? Wifey? What? Either way, she seems to be playing or not that into you. I've seen chicks who are into other men and then when you come along, don't show you the same affection/respect. I learned in HS to see how the girl talks to you to her friends to be the best basis to see how she feels about you. Sounds like some shyt from 500 days of summer to me right now

 

[The Unknown Hype]

Really depends on what OP is looking for.....a smash? A gf? Wifey? What? Either way, she seems to be playing or not that into you. I've seen chicks who are into other men and then when you come along, don't show you the same affection/respect. I learned in HS to see how the girl talks to you to her friends to be the best basis to see how she feels about you. Sounds like some shyt from 500 days of summer to me right now

could be but she seems to be like that with everybody. she actually gave me a more time and day than them so i thought i could pull a win. but im in the same spiral of up and down(almost like i gotta work to hard) she could like me she might not im leaning towards she might but their might be something to that wrong time. i hope im not just into her due to the challenge of her being the one nobody else could get with that might be part of it to

 

[Turbulent]

just make a move on her. if she rejects you and says she doesn't feel you like that, tell her cool but you guys can't be friends anymore then and walk away and don't backdown or contact her back. as simple as that. maybe she'll cooperate when you make your move, maybe she won't. either way, you gain the control back.

 

[PaperEnterprise]

Let it go. U don't need her stress in your life. I've been there, direct your energy on a woman who is established. Let it go.

 

[Fatboi1]

Best bet is to follow your heart but make sure it makes sense also and if you sense that she's playing games or is not that interested she probably isn't. Talk to other women, take care and keep yourself busy with something important.

I was in something like that a few weeks ago and i just literally said f it and stopped trying to talk to her, deleted her # and moved on. It was nothing serious but I was getting close to simping some chick whom I barely had interaction with.

 

[Chris.B]

another n!gga is blowing her back out...she is not interested I'm afraid

 

[Swirv]

She could be getting over an ex...or trying to get herself together..don't try to pursue someone at the wrong time...I believe in meeting the right person at the wrong time...it may leave you hurt.

You aint lying. Op dont force anything.

 

[jalamanta]

wait for no one...if it is meant it will happen...waiting will upset you if things do not work in your favor...especially if you find out while you were waiting another man got her...

as a woman I can tell you if I want you and you want me...there would be nothing stopping me...if she is making you wait it is for a reason...and it may be a reason you would not like...also you may get to date her and find out she was not even worth waiting for and you may miss out on a good woman waiting for her...

some of yall are going to end up like forest gump and Jenny Lol

them t*ts are big though