No disrespect, OP, but it sounds like you have someone who is actually taking the time to cook you real meals.
My own mama made 'real' meals on Sundays only, really, while my husband grew up with a mother who fried everything. And other than collard and turnip greens, they didn't know veggies (other than salad) could be cooked fresh vs from out of a can. Sounds like you are getting variety, to a degree, and nothing you listed on that list was fried. Lol, I know you said you can cook, too, but, I'm saying...she's making stuff like etoufee? She's making roux from scratch for you? As much as men are on here talking about how their ladies can't (or is it don't) cook, you sound like you hit the lottery!