Grown women admit that they are single because Black men don’t fight for love anymore

[Ghost Utmost]

In my experience, once you're "fighting for love", it's already over.

The actual 'romantic love' part is never a fight. It is essentially physical attraction, but another component is wanting to hang out with the other person all the time.

You'd never be fighting for the love of a person who is initially not attracted to you or doesn't like your personality enough to already want to hang out.

'Fighting for love' supposes there is some love in the first place - that you're able to fight for.

This means that fighting for love occurs some time after the beginning of the relationship. Normally, the later part of the relationship.

First time I felt that deep heartbreak was with a woman that I initially didn't want to commit to.

College. Dorm life. Before me, she was for the streets from what I hear. She latched on the the Breh and I didn't mind her hanging around.

I still went about my biz as normal - not claiming her and still skirt chasing - for that whole schoolyear, but she was always waiting for me when I got back.

We sublet an apartment for the summer instead of going back home. Then we just started living together. For five years.

I was still evil then and I cheated with gusto, but eventually I felt close to her. I thought she would be there for me no matter what.

Of course she got fed up. Told me it was over. That fire in her eyes was ice cold.

And I TRIED. And TRIED. Promised to do right. Stayed home waiting for HER to come home like a sick little puppy. Dying inside cause she was staying gone all weekend and just doing what she wanted.

No amount of 'fighting' would have worked. She was already done. I don't blame her. I was a monster. But there literally was nothing I could do after it became necessary to try to 'fight' for her love.

And after that. I just be like "fukc it". When I see that fire die out in her eyes and she's talking to me all businesslike and shyt. I just fall all the way back.

cause I already know.

love isn't a fight. Love is like the gravity of a black hole and can't be resisted.

 

[Luke Cage]

Funny part is a lot of the women that are "easy" be cheering on their sisters making demands. While sabotaging their efforts in the streets.

 

[Digital Shaman]

Fight meaning not allow them to do whatever we want and whenver.

 

[010101]

the og's definitely put on a much better show HA*

 

[Standing on business]

"fight for Love" meaning she's talking to 5 dudes
and the one who tricks/simps the most wins

Honestly she’ll have the least respect for the one who tricks/simps the most

 

[The BasedFather]

fukk love. shyt is for lames

All that being stressed out over a bytch and fighting day and night and the tension is for the birds.

Rather get money, level up and have a thot slide thru every now and then

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

This is such a stupid take. My ass got men blowing my phone up and I happily admit I have no interest in a man nor relationships...it does not stop men from pursuing.

Some women are so desperate they literally market themselves as a stimulus package and then wonder why they get used up.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Every time I’ve “fought for love” those woman ran harder to my replacement

I always ask…where’s that woman at that you “fought” hard to keep

She gone.

 

[WesCrook]

If that Dwayne/Whitney union was real, they would've lasted a coupla years tops

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

In my experience, once you're "fighting for love", it's already over.

The actual 'romantic love' part is never a fight. It is essentially physical attraction, but another component is wanting to hang out with the other person all the time.

You'd never be fighting for the love of a person who is initially not attracted to you or doesn't like your personality enough to already want to hang out.

'Fighting for love' supposes there is some love in the first place - that you're able to fight for.

This means that fighting for love occurs some time after the beginning of the relationship. Normally, the later part of the relationship.

First time I felt that deep heartbreak was with a woman that I initially didn't want to commit to.

College. Dorm life. Before me, she was for the streets from what I hear. She latched on the the Breh and I didn't mind her hanging around.

I still went about my biz as normal - not claiming her and still skirt chasing - for that whole schoolyear, but she was always waiting for me when I got back.

We sublet an apartment for the summer instead of going back home. Then we just started living together. For five years.

I was still evil then and I cheated with gusto, but eventually I felt close to her. I thought she would be there for me no matter what.

Of course she got fed up. Told me it was over. That fire in her eyes was ice cold.

And I TRIED. And TRIED. Promised to do right. Stayed home waiting for HER to come home like a sick little puppy. Dying inside cause she was staying gone all weekend and just doing what she wanted.

No amount of 'fighting' would have worked. She was already done. I don't blame her. I was a monster. But there literally was nothing I could do after it became necessary to try to 'fight' for her love.

And after that. I just be like "fukc it". When I see that fire die out in her eyes and she's talking to me all businesslike and shyt. I just fall all the way back.

cause I already know.

love isn't a fight. Love is like the gravity of a black hole and can't be resisted.

Dap + Rep

Every man has this story. Similar situation happened with me with my most recent ex. Always thought she would be there after my fukk ups but boy did I learn the hard way smh. Like you said when they start talking to you like a stranger with that stone face…it’s a wrap.

Edit: got you on recharge smh.

 

[MikelArteta]

I remember a chick breaking up with me then getting mad because I didn't beg. "it showed me you never really cared about us, that you could let me go so easily"

 

[Umoja]

What do they want men to fight through. I find that what's better than just arguing with them is asking them questions where the answers reveal how full of shyt they are.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

In my experience, once you're "fighting for love", it's already over.

The actual 'romantic love' part is never a fight. It is essentially physical attraction, but another component is wanting to hang out with the other person all the time.

You'd never be fighting for the love of a person who is initially not attracted to you or doesn't like your personality enough to already want to hang out.

'Fighting for love' supposes there is some love in the first place - that you're able to fight for.

This means that fighting for love occurs some time after the beginning of the relationship. Normally, the later part of the relationship.

First time I felt that deep heartbreak was with a woman that I initially didn't want to commit to.

College. Dorm life. Before me, she was for the streets from what I hear. She latched on the the Breh and I didn't mind her hanging around.

I still went about my biz as normal - not claiming her and still skirt chasing - for that whole schoolyear, but she was always waiting for me when I got back.

We sublet an apartment for the summer instead of going back home. Then we just started living together. For five years.

I was still evil then and I cheated with gusto, but eventually I felt close to her. I thought she would be there for me no matter what.

Of course she got fed up. Told me it was over. That fire in her eyes was ice cold.

And I TRIED. And TRIED. Promised to do right. Stayed home waiting for HER to come home like a sick little puppy. Dying inside cause she was staying gone all weekend and just doing what she wanted.

No amount of 'fighting' would have worked. She was already done. I don't blame her. I was a monster. But there literally was nothing I could do after it became necessary to try to 'fight' for her love.

And after that. I just be like "fukc it". When I see that fire die out in her eyes and she's talking to me all businesslike and shyt. I just fall all the way back.

cause I already know.

love isn't a fight. Love is like the gravity of a black hole and can't be resisted.

Funny part is a lot of the women that are "easy" be cheering on their sisters making demands. While sabotaging their efforts in the streets.

the og's definitely put on a much better show HA*

Dap + Rep

Every man has this story. Similar situation happened with me with my most recent ex. Always thought she would be there after my fukk ups but boy did I learn the hard way smh. Like you said when they start talking to you like a stranger with that stone face…it’s a wrap.

Edit: got you on recharge smh.

Fighting for love is an archaic concept…ain’t nobody about to fight to be emotionally, financially and mentally burdened. A toxic relationship does nothing but fukk your life up, it ain’t worth it.

women need to accept that there is competition for us. plenty of fish in the sea. For every woman with a list of demands, there are two women willing to risk it all for nothing.
and the crazy part is, they don't bring any less to the relationship than the demanding ones. You can find a low maintenance dime piece just as easily as a high maintenance one

Always wanting us to fight

"fight for Love" meaning she's talking to 5 dudes
and the one who tricks/simps the most wins

To play devil's advocate, let's put aside the redpill talk for a second. I wasn't around those years, but in the 70s, 80s, or 90s dating did look better. I'll let the older guys speak on it, but dating DID seem more simple back then. Hell even dating in the early 2000s seemed better.

No dating apps, no Facebook/IG, no smartphones. Only nikkas you competing with was down the street, not 5 states over. Not simp ballers/rappers. No wenches spreading toxic talking points. You actually had to call the house and speak to one of the parents. Women's standards seemed way more grounded too. There was Chilvary, but in the words of Dave, women killed it.

 

[Luke Cage]

To play devil's advocate, let's put aside the redpill talk for a second. I wasn't around those years, but in the 70s, 80s, or 90s dating did look better. I'll let the older guys speak on it, but dating DID seem more simple back then. Hell even dating in the early 2000s seemed better.

No dating apps, no Facebook/IG, no smartphones. Only nikkas you competing with was down the street, not 5 states over. Not simp ballers/rappers. No wenches spreading toxic talking points. You actually had to call the house and speak to one of the parents. Women's standards seemed way more grounded too.

dating hasn't changed. Most women stunt for the gram or whatever these day. but they not all getting flown out of state by some rich simp.
Majority of them have lives like anybody else and aren't leaving all their family and friends behind for a lick. We aren't messing with basketball wives just regular women. most people still gotta clock in to the same job every morning.

 

[TheNig]

But I don't wanna fight. I'm too cotdamn tired.