Guy rationally explains why WOMEN SHOULD "OFFER" TO PAY ON THE FIRST DATE..

[KENNY DA COOKER]

 

[CarbonBraddock]

The problem with women like this is that they are still fed the old-fashioned way of doing things, but they don't have the old-fashioned mindset or skillset. They don't cook, clean, have any chastity, know how to raise children, or how to do any number of things that would once have made it profitable for a man to pay for most things while courting a woman. It used to be that a woman was the prize that a man would win bc they were bringing certain things to the table, but nowadays, most of them are just children with iphones and snapchat.

 

[#SOG_soldier]

Already got a thread on this. I have never paid on any date. We always split

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

The problem with women like this is that they are still fed the old-fashioned way of doing things, but they don't have the old-fashioned mindset or skillset. They don't cook, clean, have any chastity, know how to raise children, or how to do any number of things that would once have made it profitable for a man to pay for most things while courting a woman. It used to be that a woman was the prize that a man would win bc they were bringing certain things to the table, but nowadays, most of them are just children with iphones and snapchat.

man...who u telling.....my ex byatches that she would cook more often if it wasn't for her schedule.....but im like byatch yes you do work 7 days a week, but your also off 7 days a week as well....yet during that 7 days you would rather us go out to eat and shyt...

my mother worked, went to church, raised kids, and still was able to manage money, cater to my father, and wasn't concerned about hanging with "homegirls" and running the streets

these hoes today....want the benefits of a relationship without putting in that work....

and they wonder why mofos ain't trying to wife they azz

 

[SouthernBelle]

There is nothing wrong with offering; however, if you ask me out on a date then you should pay.

Also, men shouldn't expect a traditional woman if they aren't also a traditional provider and man. Men these days want women to work as hard as they do outside of the house, cover half of the bills, and do all of the house work. No negro; that's not how it works.

 

[BocaRear]

If you meet a woman & she doesn't struggle when you offer to pay for her side of the date, then she's a bird.

 

[PhonZhi]

There is nothing wrong with offering; however, if you ask me out on a date then you should pay.

Also, men shouldn't expect a traditional woman if they aren't also a traditional provider and man. Men these days want women to work as hard as they do outside of the house, cover half of the bills, and do all of the house work. No negro; that's not how it works.

As a man I agree. I'm not sure what's so hard to understand about that. If I ask a female out, I'm paying

 

[SouthernBelle]

As a man I agree. I'm not sure what's so hard to understand about that. If I ask a female out, I'm paying

Not sure either. I also get the sentiment that women should be putting themselves out there at a certain point (whether it be asking to take the man out or cooking something nice); however, if I never had any plans of leaving the house (because I'm a homebody or the outing is not in my budget) and you ask me out, then I don't see why there would be an argument or hurt feelings.

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

There is nothing wrong with offering; however, if you ask me out on a date then you should pay.

Also, men shouldn't expect a traditional woman if they aren't also a traditional provider and man. Men these days want women to work as hard as they do outside of the house, cover half of the bills, and do all of the house work. No negro; that's not how it works.

it's 50/50 ..I don't know what men you meeting that does that..

I like a clean house too....so I do my part....as well

if my azz is bringing in my income from slaving in the corporate world , and doing maintenance on the house, cars, and entertaining you as well as putting my life on the line providing SECURITY for you....and the kids....

doing HOUSE WORK is the least you can do...considering you spend the bulk of your time shopping and talking shyt with your homegirls, along with giving me half azz sex, cause you spent most of your time getting some outside dikk from that "other nikka"

it's a partnership............so learn to play your role..and I will do my role

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

I'm glad some of y'all are gmb becuase y'all would be terrible husbands.

 

[Orange cream shake]

What if on the first date he uses food stamps to buy the food to cook dinner. Do I gotta reimburse him half??? Real story...

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

it's 50/50 ..I don't know what men you meeting that does that..

I like a clean house too....so I do my part....as well

if my azz is bringing in my income from slaving in the corporate world , and doing maintenance on the house, cars, and entertaining you as well as putting my life on the line providing SECURITY for you....and the kids....

doing HOUSE WORK is the least you can do...considering you spend the bulk of your time shopping and talking shyt with your homegirls, along with giving me half azz sex, cause you spent most of your time getting some outside dikk from that "other nikka"

it's a partnership............so learn to play your role..and I will do my role

Sounds personal.

 

[Draje]

it's 50/50 ..I don't know what men you meeting that does that..

I like a clean house too....so I do my part....as well

if my azz is bringing in my income from slaving in the corporate world , and doing maintenance on the house, cars, and entertaining you as well as putting my life on the line providing SECURITY for you....and the kids....

doing HOUSE WORK is the least you can do...considering you spend the bulk of your time shopping and talking shyt with your homegirls, along with giving me half azz sex, cause you spent most of your time getting some outside dikk from that "other nikka"

it's a partnership............so learn to play your role..and I will do my role

It seems like @SouthernBelle went clear over your head.

If you're a traditional man (Providing for the entire family, taking care of things like the cars and repairs, etc) then it's cool to want a traditional wife.

The problem is dudes is mad that they don't have a traditional wife (Cooking, cleaning, raising and nurturing the kids, etc) but they also expecting her to work a full time job and aren't providing a traditional environment.

 

[SouthernBelle]

it's 50/50 ..I don't know what men you meeting that does that..

I like a clean house too....so I do my part....as well

if my azz is bringing in my income from slaving in the corporate world , and doing maintenance on the house, cars, and entertaining you as well as putting my life on the line providing SECURITY for you....and the kids....

doing HOUSE WORK is the least you can do...considering you spend the bulk of your time shopping and talking shyt with your homegirls, along with giving me half azz sex, cause you spent most of your time getting some outside dikk from that "other nikka"

it's a partnership............so learn to play your role..and I will do my role

Most men I know ain't doing no damn maintenance on cars and Idk where you live/how your home is constructed, but my house doesn't require a daily handy man. The most traditional thing you do on a regularly basis is probably taking your behind to work everyday (something your woman is also likely doing).

Secondly, based on this post, you clearly don't know how to pick them if the bold describes your woman. Please do better with your life and choices.

My opinion stands, if you aren't a traditional man, please don't expect a traditional woman.

 

[SouthernBelle]

It seems like @SouthernBelle went clear over your head.

If you're a traditional man (Providing for the entire family, taking care of things like the cars and repairs, etc) then it's cool to want a traditional wife.

The problem is dudes is mad that they don't have a traditional wife (Cooking, cleaning, raising and nurturing the kids, etc) but they also expecting her to work a full time job and aren't providing a traditional environment.

Precisely my point.