Guy rationally explains why WOMEN SHOULD "OFFER" TO PAY ON THE FIRST DATE..

[Ashley Banks]

sounds like to me a "traditional environment" to yall mofos is an environment where YOU CAN SIT AT HOME AND BE A HOUSEWIFE

sorry broads..but ain't NO MRS. CLEAVER housewives in this 2016 economy....

YOU NEED TWO INCOMES...WTF IS WRONG WITH WORKING A JOB??!?!?

YOU WANT INDEPENDENCE RIGHT??...YOU WANNA LEAVE THE HOUSE RIGHT??...WANT YOUR OWN MONEY?? RIGHT??

CAN'T HAVE IT BOTH WAYS HOES........YOU GOTTA CONTRIBUTE TOO....

I AIN'T HEAR TO BE YOUR GOTTDAMN SPONSER...AND MAYBE THAT'S WHY YALL MAD

whats wrong with washing the dishes and making dinner? You keep saying you want women to be traditional then turn around and tell us to do untraditional things. If you want a traditional woman, let her stay home and provide for her. You can't tell her to help out with your traditional duties and still want her to do all of hers with no help.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

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shyt was taken to an extreme.
Dude is clearly talking about relationships being a team.
Nobody(traditional or non) wants to be taken advantage of.
Unless it's agreed upon by both parties that one spouse/ significant other is comfortable about one staying home, then financial responsibilities falls on both shoulders.
Not as complicated as some make it..
Choices>>>>bamboozled/taken advantage...

 

[The Tribesman]

Dudes whole point was relationships should be based on friendship. Focus on money and that's a business agreement.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Also people are missing out on symbolism.
All anybody wants is a gesture.
I don't mind paying for my woman but when she gets the check or buys me something, to me, it shows that "she holds me down".
Knowing that if something happens to me were I'm not able to take care of myself (due to illness,etc), gives me confidence that she really is down and this is real.
Treat your love like a friendship.

 

[StickStickly]

Also people are missing out on symbolism.
All anybody wants is a gesture.
I don't mind paying for my woman but when she gets the check or buys me something, to me, it shows that "she holds me down".
Knowing that if something happens to me were I'm not able to take care of myself (due to illness,etc), gives me confidence that she really is down and this is real.
Treat your love like a friendship.

question about that, don't some men take it as an insult if a woman offers to pay, like she's saying he's not a man or can't provide, or doesn't make enough? I've seen some guys get bent out of shape when a woman breaks out her debit card.

 

[Zero]

hold up heffa.......don't get mad at me .....cause LIFE has beat the hot sauce out yo monkey azz

if you choose better, you would do better.....

MOST DUDES love working on their cars.....not my fault you thotted out your bitter dry azz nappydugout to some Playstation , wanna be trap rapping azz negroes......

I GOT MY OWN CAR...and I AM A HOMEOWNER...and BUSINESSMAN....

That talk about a woman, was HYPOTHETICAL........ im single.....happy..successful and loving it..

cause I ain't gotta deal with angry azz hot wang heffas like you

I got options HOE!

Yo


"Hold up heffa..."

 

[Uncle Kingpin]

Also people are missing out on symbolism.
All anybody wants is a gesture.
I don't mind paying for my woman but when she gets the check or buys me something, to me, it shows that "she holds me down".
Knowing that if something happens to me were I'm not able to take care of myself (due to illness,etc), gives me confidence that she really is down and this is real.
Treat your love like a friendship.

Exactly. My girl doesnt have to pay for anything usually...but just show me something. Do something small like buy the coffee i like, or some socks while u out shopping for yourself.

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

question about that, don't some men take it as an insult if a woman offers to pay, like she's saying he's not a man or can't provide, or doesn't make enough? I've seen some guys get bent out of shape when a woman breaks out her debit card.

That's only insecure mofos who feel defensive about thier manhood or role in the relationships

Iike homie says that shows she iw capable of handling things even if im unable to or not present

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

Secondly, I am currently engaged to a man with an amazing career; he is a true provider and we could live comfortably off of his income alone (but why would I do that when I'm earning a PhD). I have zero worries and life has been amazing to me. lol

look at you bragging.. Would you still be with him if he didnt have that amazing career?

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

question about that, don't some men take it as an insult if a woman offers to pay, like she's saying he's not a man or can't provide, or doesn't make enough? I've seen some guys get bent out of shape when a woman breaks out her debit card.

True but those dudes are emotional wrecks.
9/10 they treat their woman as a possession rather then a person(in my eyes).

 

[Rack4K]

Im as traditional as they get but@ 'being a provider' on a FIRST DATE.

What kind of sucker do you take me for?

Pay for yourself and ill do the same.

 

[havoc]

hold up heffa.......don't get mad at me .....cause LIFE has beat the hot sauce out yo monkey azz

if you choose better, you would do better.....

MOST DUDES love working on their cars.....not my fault you thotted out your bitter dry azz nappydugout to some Playstation , wanna be trap rapping azz negroes......

I GOT MY OWN CAR...and I AM A HOMEOWNER...and BUSINESSMAN....

That talk about a woman, was HYPOTHETICAL........ im single.....happy..successful and loving it..

cause I ain't gotta deal with angry azz hot wang heffas like you

I got options HOE!

Breh, why you so angry ? You could have made your point without calling a black woman a monkey.

 

[Mr swag]

This bytch said after 4-5 months of dating. She wants free meals for 4-5 months

insane. I was tripping mentally when a chick i was dating still didn't offer on the third date

 

[Still Benefited]

hold up heffa.......don't get mad at me .....cause LIFE has beat the hot sauce out yo monkey azz

if you choose better, you would do better.....

MOST DUDES love working on their cars.....not my fault you thotted out your bitter dry azz nappydugout to some Playstation , wanna be trap rapping azz negroes......

I GOT MY OWN CAR...and I AM A HOMEOWNER...and BUSINESSMAN....

That talk about a woman, was HYPOTHETICAL........ im single.....happy..successful and loving it..

cause I ain't gotta deal with angry azz hot wang heffas like you

I got options HOE!

Aguably uncalled for,but hilarious

Yall watch and learn,traditional man putting a woman in her place, simply based on tradition

 

[O.G.B]