Guy stands outside of woman's apartment door in attempt to introduce himself. Is he predatory?

[MIKE SPLEAN]

Put that fakkit on ignore since you got offended ol incel gay ass p*ssy ass bytch @Neo The Resurrected ONE

nikka fukk your post nikka fukk your typing bytch burn that hard drive!

 

[Neuromancer]

Nah breh give it up.

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

That’s not cold approach tho.

Cold approach is seeing a woman throughout her day and approaching her without any introduction or in a social setting that isn’t easy for you to talk to another person.

What you did was weirdo shyt, plain and simple. There’s an entire context behind knowing where she lives she giving any invitation for your knock on her door that’s missing.

You may have grown from that experience, but that shyt wasn’t cold approach not matter how you slice it

I initially cold approached her asked if she lives around here… hence it was a cold approach there was no mutual friend or social setting like a house party or bar that would have led us to speak to one another

We didn’t know each other in any way shape or form so it is the definition of a cold approach.

I approached on the street met her a few times afterward thought I was shooting my shot she gave me her name what course she’s studying etc.

she should have flat out said I have a boyfriend or I’m not interested I would have got the message.

It may have been weirdo shyt to knock that door but beforehand it was definitely a cold approach so my follow up was weirdo shyt but I didn’t read her weak body language lack of choosing signals and still tried to proceed.

 

[King]

I initially cold approached her asked if she lives around here… hence it was a cold approach there was no mutual friend or social setting like a house party or bar that would have led us to speak to one another

we didn’t know each other in any way shape or form

I approached on the street met her a few times afterward thought I was shooting my shot she gave me her name what course she’s studying etc.

she should have flat out said I have a boyfriend or I’m not interested I would have got the message.

It may have been weirdo shyt to knock that door but beforehand it was definitely a cold approach so my follow up was weirdo shyt but I didn’t read her weak body language lack of choosing signals and still tried to proceed.

That’s what I’m saying tho. The knock on the door wasn’t cold approach, it was weirdo shyt.

The context that led up to that were signs that she wasn’t interested. Shouldn’t have stopped you from cold approaching, but everyone interprets things differently

 

[BeeCityRoller]

That brother is starving, making the cold approach look bad

 

[Noriega]

Maybe 40 years ago this would’ve been okay

Now? Definitely not

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

That’s what I’m saying tho. The knock on the door wasn’t cold approach, it was weirdo shyt.

The context that led up to that were signs that she wasn’t interested. Shouldn’t have stopped you from cold approaching, but everyone interprets things differently

I’m saying everything beforehand was

A lot of women don’t want random no context dudes chasing them, obviously it depends on who it is but sometimes you can be Chris Brown and your approach is soo weird and awkward that women get turned off.

Getting the cops called on you is enough to decide to limit yourself to bars apps mutuals and real social settings where people are pro actively trying to mingle.

Not somewhere random like a supermarket or street where someone just wants to get something or go somewhere. I’m speaking for myself when I say you especially after the pandemic I have zero interest in a pure cold approach.

 

[BobbyWojak]

I dont think men are understanding the bullshyt a lot of women go through when it comes to this shyt

This exact sentiment is why I stay tf away from women in public unless they express interest first. This would be terrifying if I was a single woman living alone.

 

[Still Benefited]

This is why I told the story so other coli lames can learn how not to approach

You didnt shyt wrong breh. Alot of us just dont realize how deranged alot of these women are. I remember the LSA thread where women were talking about sexual encounters. Saying how they had sex with a dude just because he kept asking and she got sick of saying no. Another had sex with a dude because he was large in stature ,and she didnt know how he might respond to her saying no. In this thread all these women were asking if they got raped. And alot of the women in the thread were telling them yes,they did get raped.

Completely changed my mindset on sex. Realizing women are obviously too childlike and insecure to tell a man no,flat out. But will build up the audacity if they get angry enough,or need to dodge accountability to paint you as a creep. That girl probably got questioned by her boyfriend about you,so had to play it like you was a stalker. Or was worried about you poppin up while her boyfriend was there,so sent the police smh. Foul on her part imo

 

[chineebai]

Maybe he saw love Jones the night before

 

[King]

I’m saying everything beforehand was

A lot of women don’t want random no context dudes chasing them, obviously it depends on who it is but sometimes you can be Chris Brown and your approach is soo weird and awkward that women get turned off.

Getting the cops called on you is enough to decide to limit yourself to bars apps mutuals and real social settings where people are pro actively trying to mingle.

Not somewhere random like a supermarket or street where someone just wants to get something or go somewhere. I’m speaking for myself when I say you especially after the pandemic I have zero interest in a pure cold approach.

Ehh that’s conjecture

The purpose of cold approach is to build context from scratch. Nothing more than that. No different than meeting a woman for the first time in some manufactured social environment. Hell, or even paying a random stranger a compliment. If you create the context and vibe, there’s no difference.

It’s not that deep or something you could pass judgment on. You can’t say whether or not someone would like it or not. Nor if it would be successful.

It’s wasn’t the fact that you cold approached that caused the cops to be called on you. It was the fact that you misread signals and overstepped on your boundaries on a woman who didn’t want you in the first place and wasn’t showing any signals.

No one is perfect and crazier things have happened. But to let it stop you from cold approaching is a simply an irrational response caused by a traumatic experience.

But again, everyone processes things differently.

 

[⠀⠀⠀]

breh was like "open the door bytch "

he gotta go

 

[$cam-U-Well_Jack$on]

Perfectly normal and healthy

Nawl.

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

Ehh that’s conjecture

The purpose of cold approach is to build context from scratch. Nothing more than that. No different than meeting a woman for the first time in some manufactured social environment. Hell, or even paying a random stranger a compliment. If you create the context and vibe, there’s no difference.

It’s not that deep or something you could pass judgment on. You can’t say whether or not someone would like it or not. Nor if it would be successful.

It’s wasn’t the fact that you cold approached that caused the cops to be called on you. It was the fact that you misread signals and overstepped on your boundaries on a woman who didn’t want you in the first place and wasn’t showing any signals.

No one is perfect and crazier things have happened. But to let it stop you from cold approaching is a simply an irrational response caused by a traumatic experience.

But again, everyone processes things differently.

There is a difference the setting. Some settings invite more social interaction than others.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

He looks and sounds retarded