Guy stands outside of woman's apartment door in attempt to introduce himself. Is he predatory?

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Y'all nikkas scared.

If a bad bytch live next door to me I'm shooting my shot tf you mean.

Let her know what the deal is.

If you are dealing with other women then let her know so she can't be on no bullshyt later.

You gotta set boundaries though, she can't just be poppin' up whenever unless you cool with that.

If you are completely honest and transparent they got no excuse to act crazy or outta pocket.




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Y'all nikkas scared.

If a bad bytch live next door to me I'm shooting my shot tf you mean.

Let her know what the deal is.

If you are dealing with other women then let her know so she can't be on no bullshyt later.

You gotta set boundaries though, she can't just be poppin' up whenever unless you cool with that.

If you are completely honest and transparent they got no excuse to act crazy or outta pocket.

I'm not knocking on her door. If I crossed her path, I'd introduce myself and if she's reciprocating a friendly energy, I'd plant the seeds.
 

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You dont have a problem with women painting black men as rapist/stalkers/killere after they get upset? Or in this case after they see it as an opportunity to be a victim. We live in a world where women are brainwashed to find a way to victimize themselves. This is why you cant give these modern day women an opening. Shes on twitter talking about she should have left him on a t shirt. When in real time she entertained the hell outta breh like it was all gucci. I dont like this young man being painted this way without knowing his intentions. Nobody thinks about the mental toll and damage this could have on his future. Are the chances that he was harmless or that he is a serial killer?Sad to see people cosigning she shouldve killed him#WeCanAllBeCosby:wow:
real talk.. I'm reading through this thread like wtf :mindblown:

Everyone quick to assume most women are in danger of rapists, kidnappers etc just off rip.

When if women face abuse.. most of the time it's at the hands of their partners not some random dude tryna shoot his shot or random breh off the street
 

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I'm not knocking on her door. If I crossed her path, I'd introduce myself and if she's reciprocating a friendly energy, I'd plant the seeds.
my comment had nothing to do with this situation.

It's about messing with women who live in the same building as you
 

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From the way she talks she sounds just as retarded as ole boy.

With that being said, this was nothing to go to the cops about. That cat is harmless.

Sad to say, I've run into many dudes just like him, half retarded, no social skills, terrible at reading situations and context.

It looks crazy but it aint criminal.

Dudes like that are just slow. They truly don't mean no harm and are just tryna get their dikk wet like the rest of us.

In that video especially he did nothing illegal or criminal. If she don't want to talk to him, she could have said that and dude would have walked away dejected and sad. And that's all.

She never once told him she wasn't interested. He tried to give her his number. Instead of her saying she don't want it, she instead says "I can't take your number cause I'm using this app from my phone and it won't let me go to the phone screen to put your number in while using the app."

Now in a perfect world dude would be smart enough to see that means she aint interested. But he's slow so to him, she never said no. She just said not right now.

Again if she flat out just said "nah dude don't come to my door anymore, I'm not interested" I'm certain homie walks off and never speaks to her again. He aint no predator. He aint even smart enough to be a predator.

This whole thing is pathetic. Dude is clearly autistic and on the spectrum. Folks always talk about supporting mental health but when it comes to black men its open season for internet bullying and clowning even for those who are clearly slow and mentally handicapped like this breh. Autistic folks are not good at reading social cues like normal people do. Doesnt excuse his poor decision but not worth trying to humiliate him over. This one incident isnt worth ruining this young mans life and labeling him a sexual predator like folks are trying to do.

Knocking on a neighbors door and asking them out is extremely lame but this seems to be the first and only time he did it so how is that stalking or anything criminal? You cant draw any conclusions as to whether his a predator or not from that. She didn't even clearly tell him she wasn't interested and to leave her alone before going to the police and clout chasing online to raise money. There is a big difference if this was repeated behavior after she rejected him and a one time incident where he exercised poor judgement. All she had to do was say she wasn't interested and keep it moving.
 
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This whole thing is pathetic. Dude is clearly autistic and on the spectrum. Folks always talk about supporting mental health but when it comes to black men its open season for internet bullying and clowning even for those who are clearly slow and mentally handicapped like this breh. Autistic folks are not good at reading social cues like normal people do. Doesnt excuse his poor decision but not worth trying to humiliate him over. This one incident isnt worth ruining this young mans life and labeling him a sexual predator like folks are trying to do.

Knocking on a neighbors door and asking them out is extremely lame but this seems to be the first and only time he did it so how is that stalking or anything criminal? You cant draw any conclusions as to whether his a predator or not from that. She didn't even clearly tell him she wasn't interested and to leave her alone before going to the police and clout chasing online to raise money. There is a big difference if this was repeated behavior after she rejected him and a one time incident where he exercised poor judgement. All she had to do was say she wasn't interested and keep it moving.




Exactly. If he did it again, then that's when you air him out

But it all goes back to the inherent evil of the internet. If there is no clout to be gained, ole girl doesn't post this. If she doesn't post this, then random toxic folks on the internet don't put the battery in her back to go to police to try to ruin this young black mans life just cause he's young dumb and slow.


I don't know about the rest of brehs in this thread but as a youngin, I did some VERY dumbass things that I would not have wanted on the internet. I thank God this stuff wasn't around back then or I would have been on summer jam screen at least twice (probably more than that but I can think of two situations right off the top of my head :bryan:)
 

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Exactly. If he did it again, then that's when you air him out

But it all goes back to the inherent evil of the internet. If there is no clout to be gained, ole girl doesn't post this. If she doesn't post this, then random toxic folks on the internet don't put the battery in her back to go to police to try to ruin this young black mans life just cause he's young dumb and slow.


I don't know about the rest of brehs in this thread but as a youngin, I did some VERY dumbass things that I would not have wanted on the internet. I thank God this stuff wasn't around back then or I would have been on summer jam screen at least twice (probably more than that but I can think of two situations right off the top of my head :bryan:)

Folks all lying on the internet these days. Back in the day we did all types of stuff that would get you canceled today. Before social media you had to be a little more aggressive when talking to women especially as a teen. Before everyone had cell phones if you saw a fine chick out and about you better say something cause you might not ever see her again.. they call that cat calling now.

As teens dudes would slap a chick on her butt as walked by at a party to get her attention. 90% of the time it worked if you were handsome gang and she would come dance with you. The other 10% you got slapped but everyone including women would just charge it to the game. Same kats that was grabbing ass in the 90's pretending to be outraged over a breh knocking on a door.
 

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It doesn't mean women walk around fearing men everywhere they go.

Sure, at night when walking by themselves they feel some type of way. Many men do too, depending on the area.

Women will seek the aid of men in dangerous or safety concerning issues, I don't see why someone would go to someone they fear for help.
Breh I was shocked too, but it makes sense when u think about it.
 
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