Guy stands outside of woman's apartment door in attempt to introduce himself. Is he predatory?

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

I learnt that the hard way this college chick lives nearby I introduce my self we talk a few times in my head I think I’m a mack

let’s do something on Friday think I add her on Facebook knock on her door to see what’s up

a few days later cops tell me I have been sexually harassing this chick and that she has a boyfriend.

She never said to me look I’m not interested she just called the cops on me.

I learnt we can’t knock on our neighbors doors and expect to chill we could in the 90s. I should have realised her body language was poor despite being verbally receptive.

I subsequently toned down my cold approaching outside of social settings.

 

[Elle Seven]

A simple, no, works too.


No.

No its literally just one guy. There are billions of men on this planet.

How often have you seen other men do shyt like this?

Respectfully, I've been married for nearly 2 decades and, by TLR standards, I'm . That said, I have an idea of how men move based on my past experiences and what I saw in my generation; I dont know what the younger men are doing these days because I don't any.

However, when I read the consistent fukkery on here, a lot of it self-professed, detailing the willingfully reckless manner in which many young men on here seem to be living nowadays, then we I ask the question, it isn't to be sarcastic or hyperbolic.

I'm asking in earnest because, at least to me, some young men on here, based on what they themselves write, seem to move like they aren't playing with a full deck sometimes.

 

[3:30]

Yah I wouldn’t have done it like that. but I would wait like in my car n when she come out I would have pretended I was from around the area or going to my friends house and introduce myself.

This is also weird b

…. If you don’t see her in a natural occurrence ..


it’s weird b

 

[Crayola Coyote]

This is also weird b

…. If you don’t see her in a natural occurrence ..


it’s weird b

it’s weird what he did. What i posted wasn’t that bad scenario. I definitely would park in front of her house for her to know what car I drove.

 

[Dr. Acula]

There was nothing stalkerish about what that man did .

We are quick to to assign traits to people we think fit into that box but 9 times out of 10 the red flag /stalker nikkas DONT approach that way .So people walk around assuming these types are the stalker nikkas but walk straight into the real bullshyt

He just seem like a goofball nikka

Man tell your brother to stop showing up at chicks houses wanting to fukk uninvited.

 

[Dr. Acula]

Yoooo

And the crazy shyt is
U can tell the chick fat
By her voice

She sounds like her saliva is made of chicken grease.

 

[3:30]

Also what is the point of waiting ?

Just say something the first time ..

if not you better be explaining to her why you didn’t



That’s like pointing a gun and saying” watch what happens next time”

 

[bnew]

She should move

that thought has definitely crossed her mind.

 

[Smokin Rider]

Waiting outside her door where she lives is mad creepy when she dont know you. Now she probably got anxiety leaving and coming to her apartment

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

Look at 2pac laughing at this corny ass nikka

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

This is exactly what Darius did in love jones

just saying

Yeah.... won’t work in 2021 tho..... gotta use an app if you’re a youngin....... cold approaching still works tho, but this aint the move for lil buddy

 

[Mʀ2ᴋDᴇᴇᴢ]

nikka cheesing too much to be trusted

 

[Astroslik]

nikka cheesing too much to be trusted

My thoughts

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

Funny thing is I never actually complimented her or said anything about her appearance nor said anything creepy I just said we should hang out if she said no I wouldn’t have knocked on her door in the middle of the day when everyone was around…

I realised you don’t knock on people’s doors in the mobile phone era unless you call or message them way in advance but I was stuck in my 2nd Childhood thinking you can knock on your neighbors door asking them to kick it.

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

In this era they want you use dating apps