Guy stands outside of woman's apartment door in attempt to introduce himself. Is he predatory?

[Still Benefited]

I was thinking, I'm a man and I'm a little on edge when someone knocks on my door unexpected. My first thought is a hostile "who the fukk is that?". If it's late at night, I'm not saying shyt until I peak out the peep hole and I'm on guard. Because, you never know if someone is setting you up or looking to do something. Maybe I'm just paranoid.

Now imagine that but being a woman and it's a dude who talks about "how he fukks" which he mentioned once in between fukking with him. At the very least, if the dude was completely innocent, dudes need to realize that most people aren't even comfortable with strangers knocking on their door in the first place if you're not expected. Add the fact women have to worry about horny dudes and rapists on top of that and it's at a minimum, the worst way to approach a woman.

Great post,but this isnt a grown man we are talking about. Grown men talking about how she shouldve shot em,as if he shouldve automatically known better. As a young man you learn through trial and error. Learn you have to read body language over words with women sometimes,and other times you shouldnt. Like other breh said in a college environment it was completely different for him,and thats why he didnt see a problem knocking on a chicks door. People in those comments and on here,really gassing up women to shoot first when it comes to black men

 

[Wildin]

You don't knock on a chicks home door to try to holla. That's creepy as fukk. You really think that's cool breh or are you trolling?

I'm not one of these millennial ass nikkas. I'm not gonna slide in the dm's, I'm not gonna text her, I'm not gonna cashapp her or send a emoji. I don't want her fb, ig, snap, email, etc.

Ima approach her in person and tell her how I feel and ask her out.

That being said I'm not talking through a fukking ring door bell either. I wasn't one of them dudes passing notes "Do you like me?" I wasn't that dude "hey hey hey go over there and ask her if she like me, tell her I think she cute!"

If you don't have the balls to verbally engage in conversation to a woman then that's it. You don't get no p*ssy, no dates, nothing. Closed mouths don't get fed.

It's 2021 and the world is different. If telling a bytch your name, asking her name and asking her out is lame, corny, creepy than I'm a lame corny creepy ass nikka.

I know the coli is filled with introverts. But you gotta learn how to communicate. I've got the skill where I can talk to anyone. I can walk into a room and within 5-10mins be striking up conversations with different people, engaging in group conversation. I practiced talking to women when I was a teen. Used to go to the mall with friends and just cold approach, cold approach, cold approach. It's not about using pickup lines, or being funny or none of that, but you can't be ugly gang.

You don't even have to talk that much and breh in the video was doing wayyy too much talkin.

 

[Shang Tsung]

This shyt lowkey hilarious that he thought it would work

Feel sorry for ol girl probably going to be afraid to leave and enter her apartment from now on

 

[DatBoiHawk]

Pathetic. “I’m not like these other nikkas out here I got something GOIN FA MYSELFFFF” that was the lamest shyt I heard in 2021

 

[downtheline]

In the times before electricity and people still rode horses around, or the plot of some stupid Romantic Comedy, I would say he would not be in the wrong.

He obviously had been stalking here, at least approach her at a supermarket or some shyt like that. Posted outside her door like a Cutco salesman is not the best route to take

 

[Lil Bape the PostGod]

What’s his g league stats lookin like?

 

[KyokushinKarateMan]

Didn’t read the thread just watched the video but I hope ppl aren’t in here defending this goofy freak.

Dude LITERALLYneeds to be SHOT and KILLED before he reaches final form.

 

[Will Ross]

At all. Cuz women looking for internet clout now and will make a big deal out of anything for views. If there was no social media nobody hears about this and she doesn’t share it or make a police report

The thing is social media went from something that was about networking with other people.
into something that people get clout from. I remember everyone was eating in the myspace era

 

[Born2BKing]

What’s his g league stats lookin like?

 

[Bless't]

Gen Z...

Jesus Christ. Keeps getting worse and worse.

 

[the bossman]

Extremely creepy but not really a crime to be arrested for. An OG needs to pull his dumbass to the side and explain it so he gets it

 

[JQ Legend]

No lie this shyt happened to me last week with my upstairs neighbor. I was smoking weed bumping my music and she came knocking on my door.

I was high as hell and slick paranoid it was the cops or a neighbor complaining about my music. This chick came down naked wrapped in only a towel asking to buy some weed. I let her in and she goes on about how she been wanting to say hi to me for the longest but I be walking straight to my apt with my head down or whatever.

All I could think about after is if a dude would of did that how creepy it would come off. Like a women wouldn’t even open the door we would be talking thru the wall and it would be mad awkward.

U smashed?

 

[Dynamite James]

aladdin didn't know jasmine. Breh even disquised himself.

also i was joking

This ain’t a fairytale Breh

 

[King]

That man is dangerous.

Yeah these dudes too busy trying to empathize with him like he was a normal breh trying to work up courage.

When in reality dude is a mentally deranged stalker - you can tell by the way he speaks. Plus the fact that he had been watching her for days and knows her schedule.

 

[TEH]

Do you all not realize that we are bigger than these girls and more dominant. Put yourself in her shoes. Suppose someone who could fukk you up was waiting outside your door for you wanting to meet and possibly fukk you.




Edit
And is this lame really in the G League????

And this woman clearly weighs 300 pounds.