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Control or Be controlled??

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WHIPPEDCream

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Control in what way?If he wants Fridays for dinner and I want Chilis, & we go to Chilis I'm now in control? Every time this topic comes up, no one defines what control means.

I'm not sure why one needs to be "in control," or "take the lead," in a relationship.I see relationships as balance & compromise.
 

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Play your position or be played. It is not Eve and Adam but rather Adam and Eve. Women can take the lead in certain areas with permission and understanding that it is the man's role and responsibility to lead and be HNIC.

If the man voluntarily cedes control both of you will be miserable and unhappy. No woman wants to be the man in the relationship and if she does she wasn't raised right.
Ridiculous thinking.
 

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Do you prefer your woman to control you or do you prefer to control her? I've found that some mean like to be in control of their relationship and others are turned on by a woman who takes charge. Which do the mean of Coli prefer?:usure:


Self-Control>>>>>>>>>>>>>>whatever you're spewing about. No fun in "controlling" a grown ass woman. And you aint got a back bone or nuts if you're letting a woman, or anybody make decisions for you as a man. You can only adapt, pay attention to that person behavior patterns and react accordingly. All that other shyt for the birds.
 
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Ridiculous thinking.
Please enlighten me as to why you think it is ridiculous? Would you like to be the man 24/7 in the relationship if you are a woman? Be tasked with the role and responsibility that a man must assume? Especially in marriage? You gotta respond with a lot more than "ridiculous" retort without counterpoints.
 

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Please enlighten me as to why you think it is ridiculous? Would you like to be the man 24/7 in the relationship if you are a woman? Be tasked with the role and responsibility that a man must assume? Especially in marriage? You gotta respond with a lot more than "ridiculous" retort without counterpoints.
To assume that all are like you is ridiculous, and that's what your view does.
 
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To assume that all are like you is ridiculous, and that's what your view does.
I gotta know who and what I am dealing with are you a man or a woman?:patrice:

NVM Peeped your profile. If you are a woman and you enjoy being the man in the relationship then do you - no skin off my back.
 

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I gotta know who and what I am dealing with are you a man or a woman?:patrice:

NVM Peeped your profile. If you are a woman and you enjoy being the man in the relationship then do you - no skin off my back.
I am a woman.
 
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