Guys that've been cheated on..
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I never understood why some dudes go after the guy that the g/f cheated with. Like they wouldn't have done the same thing if given the opportunity 
I never understood why some dudes go after the guy that the g/f cheated with. Like they wouldn't have done the same thing if given the opportunity
thats besides the point
shyt happened to me and the nikka is someone i never really liked like dat...after months passed and i kept hearing lil shyt about it i confronted him and he aint want no problems...even went as far as walkin up to my homeboys askin why he mad at me n shyt
we had a convo over the phone and i something to the tune of "u kno bout me
" he said back "bytch i dnt kno bout shyt 
" at that point i was like 
and i was like well we'll see wassup...as he was hangin up he as like "mannnnn i aint got time for dis shyt....." next time i seen him after that was at a funeral....i locked eyes with him and stared into his soul...just to let him kno it wasnt a phone act and i aint forget....he was so uncomfortable couldnt even look me in the eye...5 min later got up n left
another time at tha club some dude was gettin jumped...he was the main one in on it...what made me mad is that ertime somebody was gettin jumped he the leading force but when i stepped to him he aint want dem problems...i pulled my pistol and shot in the air just to break up the fight....nikka looked me dead in the eye like
long story short i realized he aint want it, already bytched out, and it was useless putting any kind of energy towards it period so i just dropped it and moved on
Non Sequitur
Creep.
thats besides the point
shyt happened to me and the nikka is someone i never really liked like dat...after months passed and i kept hearing lil shyt about it i confronted him and he aint want no problems...even went as far as walkin up to my homeboys askin why he mad at me n shyt
we had a convo over the phone and i something to the tune of "u kno bout me
next time i seen him after that was at a funeral....i locked eyes with him and stared into his soul...just to let him kno it wasnt a phone act and i aint forget....he was so uncomfortable couldnt even look me in the eye...5 min later got up n left
another time at tha club some dude was gettin jumped...he was the main one in on it...what made me mad is that ertime somebody was gettin jumped he the leading force but when i stepped to him he aint want dem problems...i pulled my pistol and shot in the air just to break up the fight....nikka looked me dead in the eye like
long story short i realized he aint want it, already bytched out, and it was useless putting any kind of energy towards it period so i just dropped it and moved on
That sounds more like a "straw that broke the camel's back" situation, since you already knew the guy and didn't like him.
But if its just some rando, it doesn't make any sense to go after him. Just makes you look dumb.
MewTwo
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I went through it, and I didn't care for the dude because he was someone I didnt know. What grinded my gears was the fact that she would try hitting me up every now and then to rub it in.....
After some time passed, I found that dude was a roid-head.....we went into a rage and gave her ass the beats. I wasat the same time.
I had ran into her sometime after her beatdown, and she was on some apologetic "oh your the best guy I ever met, I never had doubts about you, I was wrong for what I did...blah blah"
Told her shebig time.....left her in
She gotlooking anyways....
Maybe I'm reading this wrong but you and this guy (who was into steroids) came together and beat up this girl you used to date? Really?
Air Nikes N Hats
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typo.....(good catch)....but we had mutual friends who put me on to the beatings she would catch from him (ive never hit a woman) and ask me to do something about it.....
Maaaannn i use to be with all that rah rah disrespect bullshyt but then i got a dose of real reality.
My ex that i've mentioned before that i was with for 10 years...well this one time we was broke up and she was trying to move on but i wasn't ready. Kept talking to get to get her back even tho she moved out cuz i had done her dirt for most of those years. Well i guess it was my turn to hurt cuz she wasn't acting the same after she moved out. I go by there one night after work on like a friday and some nikkas BMW was in her drive with the lights out. I sneak around back to her bedroom window to peep the scene and they in the bed(clothes on), spooning asleep. Brehs i lost it. Went and knocked on the door. She answered like
"what u doing here?!?!" He comes out after hearing me and the commotion and i go at him and we end up fighting. We both get lumped up and he mentions something about a gun. Eventually he was like fukk this shyt and he jumps in his car and leaves back to whatever state he drove from(they had met online).
Fast forward me and her we end up working things out and she moves back with me. A few months go by and she says she's going out of town to go visit her sister in east tennessee. Me being the dumb nikka i am i don't think much of it cuz of course when she leaves i know what i'm bout to do.
Long story short when she goes out to east tn she ends up hooking up with ole boy afterall. In hindsight i guess i could have stopped her from going but in the end she would have found a way to fukk him or the next dude. I was to busy tho still being the man, the mack, the pimp to really care....and yes i did get mine in for that that time she was gone so at the end of it it really was a wash....but your ego and pride takes a hit and it forces you to reevalute life.
I learned a couple things from that experience thats already been covered here but basically ain't NO bytch worth fighting the next nikka over if she willingly cheats on you. Cheating is one of those things that you've already taken the L on when it happens...no need to get homotional and make it any worse. You can end up in jail or even dead over a chick who you can't stop from fukking you over if thats what she is doing/was doing/wants to be doing to you.
My ex that i've mentioned before that i was with for 10 years...well this one time we was broke up and she was trying to move on but i wasn't ready. Kept talking to get to get her back even tho she moved out cuz i had done her dirt for most of those years. Well i guess it was my turn to hurt cuz she wasn't acting the same after she moved out. I go by there one night after work on like a friday and some nikkas BMW was in her drive with the lights out. I sneak around back to her bedroom window to peep the scene and they in the bed(clothes on), spooning asleep. Brehs i lost it. Went and knocked on the door. She answered like
"what u doing here?!?!" He comes out after hearing me and the commotion and i go at him and we end up fighting. We both get lumped up and he mentions something about a gun. Eventually he was like fukk this shyt and he jumps in his car and leaves back to whatever state he drove from(they had met online).Fast forward me and her we end up working things out and she moves back with me. A few months go by and she says she's going out of town to go visit her sister in east tennessee. Me being the dumb nikka i am i don't think much of it cuz of course when she leaves i know what i'm bout to do.
Long story short when she goes out to east tn she ends up hooking up with ole boy afterall. In hindsight i guess i could have stopped her from going but in the end she would have found a way to fukk him or the next dude. I was to busy tho still being the man, the mack, the pimp to really care....and yes i did get mine in for that that time she was gone so at the end of it it really was a wash....but your ego and pride takes a hit and it forces you to reevalute life.I learned a couple things from that experience thats already been covered here but basically ain't NO bytch worth fighting the next nikka over if she willingly cheats on you. Cheating is one of those things that you've already taken the L on when it happens...no need to get homotional and make it any worse. You can end up in jail or even dead over a chick who you can't stop from fukking you over if thats what she is doing/was doing/wants to be doing to you.
Not true at all.
I went through it, and I didn't care for the dude because he was someone I didnt know. What grinded my gears was the fact that she would try hitting me up every now and then to rub it in.....
After some time passed, I found that dude was a roid-head.....we went into a rage and gave her ass the beats. I was
In more ways than one.
A giggity gooberg.
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OPTiMO
SamsoniteMan
idk thats just me i guess. ill always look like
waiting for a reason to pop off on em
You're a simp if you say you'd do anything to the other guy.
I don't know, I've never fought anyone over a female, however I can imagine I'd want to break some dudes face if he knew we were together and still pursued her. Since I won't hit her, I can always hit him.
You been with your girl 4 years, and she cheats on you with your best friend in your bed, with your kids in the house.... the urge to murder-death-kill will be there.
if he knew about me they both get it, if he didnt its all on her, been here before, dude was simpin, listening to lies, when i ran up he was confused as f_ck, she pulled off, i couldnt beat dude in good mind,, he got caught up & almost hurt.... i saw texts & sh!t she aint know about, she played him...
Metta World Movement
Peace and love...to all!!
I never understood why dudes choose to waste time and energy going at the other breh. Why waste it on someone you don't even know or have any relationship with? And chances are, the other dude don't even know she got another man.
Also, can you really be THAT mad at a dude for getting with a woman who threw it at him.....even if it's your woman? I don't think you should....only exception being that he's someone who knows you personally. Otherwise, yeah he's wrong if he's at least aware that she has a man, but still.....
When it comes to the other dude, you gotta be like Martin in that episode when he thought the maintenance dude was in bed with Gina. He straight-up told dude he didn't have a problem with him personally because he was just being a man (even though he almost beat his ass anyway
)
If I was in that situation and found out some random dude had my broad, then I'm gonna be pissed at her for a good minute, calm myself down then be like "Welp....he can continue having her; cuz I damn sure don't want her no more
". Throw her in the bushes. If it wasn't that particular breh then it would've been another one. SHE'S the main problem, so SHE gotta be the one you focus on dealing with after finding out. It happened; it was beyong your control. Now dump her and move on to better people and better things in life, because THAT'S something you control.
I always believed that the biggest L you can take in that situation isn't actually getting cheated on......the biggest L is still letting it control your emotions and actions afterwards (outside of removing yourself from the situation); whether it be anger towards her and/or the other dude, trying to argue with/fight her or the other dude (possibly leading to jail time/court time/hospital time/death/etc.), or even simply still having feelings for the chick afterwards. fukk ALL of that waste of time. Life is too short to be wasting your precious time and emotions on a lying cheater of a woman. The faster you dump her, end all them feelings you had for her and move on, the smaller the L becomes. And let's not forget, lightskin bytches always look better than darkskin women. Them darkies be lookin' like Mr. Popo from Dragon Ball Z....Noob Saibot-ass bytches. Just making sure you're still reading.
Anyway, like I said before, getting over her doesn't mean hating her and getting pissed whenever you think about her or see her afterwards. It means accepting the fact that she disrespected you, accepting the fact that she tricked you into thinking that she was good girlfriend material and a trustworthy, respectable woman with morals.....and accepting that in reality, she was just another typical lying ho who likes to sleep around under the guise of being in a serious relationship, instead of just being real and letting all the dudes she was with know that she isn't a one-man woman. You ain't mad at her turning out to be a lying, cheater; you're simply acknowledging it and keeping your distance from her as a result so she doesn't mess up your life any further.
And if it's a dude you know? A friend or a co-worker?
.....just keep that snake-ass nikka out of your life as much as possible. You don't need to confront him, talk to him or anything. That kind of disrespect should be a complete and total friendship-ender.
Also, can you really be THAT mad at a dude for getting with a woman who threw it at him.....even if it's your woman? I don't think you should....only exception being that he's someone who knows you personally. Otherwise, yeah he's wrong if he's at least aware that she has a man, but still.....
When it comes to the other dude, you gotta be like Martin in that episode when he thought the maintenance dude was in bed with Gina. He straight-up told dude he didn't have a problem with him personally because he was just being a man (even though he almost beat his ass anyway
)If I was in that situation and found out some random dude had my broad, then I'm gonna be pissed at her for a good minute, calm myself down then be like "Welp....he can continue having her; cuz I damn sure don't want her no more
". Throw her in the bushes. If it wasn't that particular breh then it would've been another one. SHE'S the main problem, so SHE gotta be the one you focus on dealing with after finding out. It happened; it was beyong your control. Now dump her and move on to better people and better things in life, because THAT'S something you control.I always believed that the biggest L you can take in that situation isn't actually getting cheated on......the biggest L is still letting it control your emotions and actions afterwards (outside of removing yourself from the situation); whether it be anger towards her and/or the other dude, trying to argue with/fight her or the other dude (possibly leading to jail time/court time/hospital time/death/etc.), or even simply still having feelings for the chick afterwards. fukk ALL of that waste of time. Life is too short to be wasting your precious time and emotions on a lying cheater of a woman. The faster you dump her, end all them feelings you had for her and move on, the smaller the L becomes. And let's not forget, lightskin bytches always look better than darkskin women. Them darkies be lookin' like Mr. Popo from Dragon Ball Z....Noob Saibot-ass bytches. Just making sure you're still reading.
Anyway, like I said before, getting over her doesn't mean hating her and getting pissed whenever you think about her or see her afterwards. It means accepting the fact that she disrespected you, accepting the fact that she tricked you into thinking that she was good girlfriend material and a trustworthy, respectable woman with morals.....and accepting that in reality, she was just another typical lying ho who likes to sleep around under the guise of being in a serious relationship, instead of just being real and letting all the dudes she was with know that she isn't a one-man woman. You ain't mad at her turning out to be a lying, cheater; you're simply acknowledging it and keeping your distance from her as a result so she doesn't mess up your life any further.
And if it's a dude you know? A friend or a co-worker?
.....just keep that snake-ass nikka out of your life as much as possible. You don't need to confront him, talk to him or anything. That kind of disrespect should be a complete and total friendship-ender.