Guys, when you ask a girl out

The Don

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I'd rather hear I'm not interested cuz if they lie or make up an excuse I feel like they're insulting my intelligence :leostare:but 4real its 2014......these chicks ask me out :birdman:
 

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You might as well tell the truth because saying "I have a boyfriend" does not stop a lot of dudes. They'll just hit you with the "well, you can't have a friend?" line.

Not to mention, for some women, saying "I have a boyfriend" isn't necessarily a code for "I'm not interested." For some, it's more like a "well, you've been warned just in case he stalks you and jumps you one morning when you leave your driveway for work after finding your texts in my phone" code.

But how would this scenario even come up with someone you just met? Dudes asking for dates before numbers now?

If you gave a dude you met your number, and he's not a co-worker or providing some kind of business for you, then he's going to assume you're interested. So, he's going to ask you out. So, you shouldn't even give a dude your number in the first place for him to ask you out unless you are interested.

This is why dudes need to step their game up and give a chick their number and let her call you. Chicks give out their numbers for all types of attention whore reasons.....with NO INTENTION of ever going on a damn date. They just like having their phone buzzing every few minutes with some knucklehead telling her "good morning." Dudes think they "bagged" a chick by getting her number at the bus stop when they all they did was "bag" a text inbox.

But dudes won't do that....dudes afraid the chicks won't call. Well, clasp your right hand with your left hand, raise your head to the sky and say "Thank you, White Jesus" because those chicks weren't interested anyway and they just saved you some time and data usage.

But the chicks that DO call are very interested and are down for meeting up. Leave the gameplay for Parker Bros.....guessing games not included.

Peace
 
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Doesn't matter to me anything outside of a YES I turn my ears off and keep it moving. There's been times where even if she said no or hesitated, she would quickly change her mind once she noticed her answer wouldn't affect my steez. It's all about vibe, keep that bravado or "swag" if you will (Your own swag ofcourse).
 

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lol when a guy asks for your number, he's trying to smash - and maybe go out with you, butttt not to just get to know you as friends. Shouldn't have given it to him! I've made that mistake in the past though, too.
This...what's understood typically doesn't need to be said...if I get a girl's number, our subsequent interactions are supposed to eventually lead to sex and if I really like her like that, something more. But I know many girls that just give their number out like the time of the day to dudes they would never consider fukking and they wonder why they come at them in such a fashion. :mindblown:
 

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some girls have given me their # only to tell me later that they have a bf :what:
at that point i send them a few dikk pics just for wasting my time
 

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You might as well tell the truth because saying "I have a boyfriend" does not stop a lot of dudes. They'll just hit you with the "well, you can't have a friend?" line.

Peace

That line absolutely kills me. You know you don't want to be my friend.
 

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Ive honestly haven't heard no in the a long time.

But this one time I met this girl at a club and she basically initialed things. Added me on fb and everything.

I have girls but one time i was bored and started talking to her. Maybe a week later I asked her out and she flat out said "Im not interested". Maybe its cause I had a thing with one of her friends and her friend thinks im an a$$hole but the way she said sounded me mean. It rubbed me the wrong way and to be honest If i saw her on fire somewhere id probably keep walking lol. \

So ya try to be nice.
 
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