Counter Racist Male
Retired poster and occasional lurker
To whom? a lot of men don't know that stuff because they have not been taught that by older men that should know better
How about mom and dad? Or even just mom? You ever heard the term "plenty fish in the sea"?

it's supposed to be about constant self-improvement that will put men on a better footing, that part I can rock with obviously, you will have goofs that take shyt to the extreme and hate women or completely check out. But your question is valid, I don't think you will get an answer here, place is full of 6 cert dudes 