The Simp gene is something that you either have inherently or not. If you have it then you as a man will be fighting against all of your life. You can never truly rid yourself of it but you CAN contain it with discipline, self respect, and common sense.
The first step to controlling and maintaining the simp gene is self acceptance. Its ok to look yourself in the mirror and admit it; “I’m A Simp”. Now what does that TRULY mean? It means that any woman that you are attracted to you will tend to immediately place that woman on a pedestal. She’s an angel, a Goddess, the “one” you’ve been waiting for all of your life. She is perfection personified.
Now what you must do is look at her through the eyes of common sense. She’s a HUMAN BEING. With her own flaws and hangups. She eats, pisses, and shyts just like you do. Which doesn’t make her in any way better than you. She simply has an attractive frame and appealing personality. But guess what? If she’s interested then that means so do YOU.
The second step is to make sure that EVERYTHING you do for her is within moderation . If you are in the “getting to know you” stage, then you text her once or twice and then WAIT for a response of equal or more enthusiasm. If you call then you call no more TWICE a day. Don’t go searching through her social media fantasizing and making googly eyes at how perfect she is. Go to work, the gym, the court, play some video games, read, or anything that you would usually do to take your mind off distractions. Your time is just as valuable as hers is.
If you are in the “dating” stage this is the most DANGEROUS stage of the initial romantic encounter. You’ve checked off the boxes on her list. Now you have to make sure she checks off the boxes on YOUR list. Do not be smitten by a big ass and a beautiful smile. Who is she? Her job? Future goals? Ambitions? Does she want kids? Does she want to be married soon? Are you two conversationally compatible? Hold off on big romantic gestures. No sending flowers to her job. No poems written during the midnight hour when you are awake, horny, and filled with longing. Hold open doors and chairs. Be a gentleman, but do NOT be thirsty. Pay for dates but make sure that she is appreciative and not expectant. Do alot of “activity” dates to see if you have fun together. Go to museums, putt putt, that kinda stuff.
If you are in the “relationship” stage then NOW is the time for small gifts and romantic gestures, but don’t get ahead of yourself. I know too many men that got into a relationship and within a month was paying phone bills, rent, and car payments. NO NO NO! Get her something small and personal. I call it a “claiming gift”. Meaning you two have agreed to take it to the next level and this a small token of your affection. This NOT a fukking engagement ring. Keep it small and simple and classy. She shouldn’t be expecting you to pay any bills or “save” ger from any finanacial jams the first 4 months of the relationship.
The third step is make sure that the relationship is built upon two-way respect. Never should she EVER make you feel like she’s “trying” you or doesn’t have your back. You are in a relationship to be lifted up, not torn down. If she’s an “arguer” or disrespectful then she needs to be bushed. Because if she wasn’t that while you were “courting” then she was lying to you about who she truly was. Remember, the only differrence between you and her is she was born with a vagina. That doesn’t give her license to act like you ain’t shyt and she’s God Gift. She should appreciate you just as much as you appreciate her.
Like i said earlier, the simp gene is an auto-romance disease that you will be battling as long as you live. It takes great self respect and discipline to fight it successfully. There will be times when you mess up. You will slip. You will fall. But as long as you remember that you are a MAN and worthy of respect and appreciation; then you will RISE.
. This is the healthiest way to approach relationships, though. A reasonable anti-simp post 
. They’re just acting up for thecoli. As long as the feeling is mutual it’s fine. It seems like she likes you if you talk for 2-3 hours.
