Had to silence a gaggle of thots at work today. Talmbout childless men must have something wrong

[Ghost Utmost]

I said "I'm over that age and I don't have kids. That's called being a genius. Cause the other way would have been stupid for me up til now"

They didn't even make a peep after that. All of em have kids by dudes who got in the wind as soon as the kid came out.

It occurred to me they really don't know they are doing it wrong. They really think I'm doing it wrong.

That's the problem with us. Our values are at times up side down from healthy values.

 

[Lord Bison]

I said "I'm over that age and I don't have kids. That's called being a genius. Cause the other way would have been stupid for me up til now"

They didn't even make a peep after that. All of em have kids by dudes who got in the wind as soon as the kid came out.

It occurred to me they really don't know they are doing it wrong. They really think I'm doing it wrong.

That's the problem with us. Our values are at times up side down from healthy values.

On payday I'd ask them what they're going to do with their paycheck or if they have a sitter for the weekend. Then proceed to tell them how I'm going out of town just bc I felt like it.

 

[Kairi Irving]

90% of people in USA are a herd mentality having monolith


Good thing im eccentric and do what i like and speak my mind.


I do plan on having a kid in my 20s though.

 

[knickscity]

Getting close to tax time. they'll be winning soon, but will likely blow it on overpaying for some bullshyt.

 

[Marco Zen]

Worry about what bytches talk about brehs

 

[thelonious21]

in some aspects.. its odd when a man over maybe.. 25? IDK how old u are... but getting into the later 20's early 30s its just not the norm..

with that said in my Clique.. its about 8 of us and 4 of them are over 30 and have no kids and good jobs.. but i see where they coming from

 

[el_oh_el]

They may be right in some respects. One my homies fukk with a lot of chicks over the past years and has never even really had a pregnancy scare..and I’m sure his low disciplined ass will not be able to stay away from fukkin with no rubber for an extended time

 

[Ghost Utmost]

in some aspects.. its odd when a man over maybe.. 25? IDK how old u are... but getting into the later 20's early 30s its just not the norm..

with that said in my Clique.. its about 8 of us and 4 of them are over 30 and have no kids and good jobs.. but i see where they coming from

We forget that almost all these out of wedlock babies are mistakes that people deeply regret.

This is evidenced by the fact that the couple never even tried to get married or make a family together... past maybe the first year of the baby's life when niqqas are more emotional about th whole thing: but they drift off soon enough.

So whether common or not, it's not that people are doing this purposefully.

I am avoiding having stray kids purposefully.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

90% of people in USA are a herd mentality having monolith


Good thing im eccentric and do what i like and speak my mind.


I do plan on having a kid in my 20s though.

can i give a partial dap?

i agree with the bolded

 

[Booker T Garvey]

Every young black woman I know has had a kid out of wedlock, a kid before they were 25, and have multiple baby daddies.

there's not "something wrong" with them though?

my white co workers dont have kids until they're in their 30's and 40's. i guess there is "something wrong" with them too.

 

[Rack4K]

You shouldn’t have said anything to them

 

[NoChillJones]

I said "I'm over that age and I don't have kids. That's called being a genius. Cause the other way would have been stupid for me up til now"

They didn't even make a peep after that. All of em have kids by dudes who got in the wind as soon as the kid came out.

It occurred to me they really don't know they are doing it wrong. They really think I'm doing it wrong.

That's the problem with us. Our values are at times up side down from healthy values.

....how do those women equate to our whole race though....nobody cares you got in your feelings today breh...

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Best thing you can do is ignore the jokes. They're trying to get you to pay attention to them and they can only resort to that because they have no other bait.

You were too smart to get caught-up before you met them. Don't be dumb now.​

 

[Ghost Utmost]

....how do those women equate to our whole race though....nobody cares you got in your feelings today breh...

Niqqa I am not about to sit here and explain to you how out of wedlock babies are problematic in the Black community.

Don't come in here with this stupid ass bullshyt.

First say something like 'this is not a problem in our community' then we can show how wrong you are.

Fukc this wishy washy non specific troll shyt you on.

What specifically are you saying?

 

[Kairi Irving]

can i give a partial dap?

i agree with the bolded

About the rest well, i dont want to be 30 having a first child...

25-28 having a kid, depending on my financial status, the richer i get, the more sooner i might have a kid.