Had to silence a gaggle of thots at work today. Talmbout childless men must have something wrong

[☃ ೋ]

Im 30 with no kids, and not a single fukk had been / will be given

 

[Take It In Blood]

I'm starting to lean towards Antinatalism

 

[Neuromancer]

gaggle..

 

[Booker T Garvey]

where do you work?

i'm not about to just name the company that I work for
but it's the main global HQ of a billion dollar household name company - i've been there for 11 years.

 

[NoChillJones]

So obviously my opinion about Black people as a whole comes from many sources besides today's anecdote.

So again, youre all blathering about a totally wrong statement. And not for nothing I have a degree in Sociology. It doesn't make me an expert but I'm not some fool online talking out of his ass.

Our people do have a problem with family structure. The gangs are made of unwanted children who are left to their on devices.

So again.

Make a statement.

I'll do it for you.

You're saying Black people DON'T have a problem with unwanted pregnancies. JuSt be brave enough to say that directly so I can tear that statement to little shreds.

"It's deeper than that" means exactly not one got damn thing. What's deeper than what? Put some numbers in there to show why your deeper is better or whatever the fukc you're hinting at.

Im saying unwanted is opinion...your opinion..and it holds no weight on your argument. And "values" are an individual assessment....there is no overall consensus on what is and isnt moral or immoral....

Single parent homes do over whelmingly go hand in hand with poverty.....but that fact in no way corelates to ones values..which is the point I was making from the jump. You dont know those women or thier lives to make a point to call thier values poor because they have kids and are unwed. You dont know wtf is going on with those women...you just got some bullshyt stats and a judgmental attitude

Thats side line c00ning bullshyt...and is a garbage mindset. Speak on your values keep the rest of the 40 million of us out ya self hating mouth.

nikkas always think black people need tough love based off white statistical data....nikka eat a dikk...

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

Lets keep it real. Most these b*stards walking around are opps babies

 

[Neuromancer]

Sounds like they were trying to shame childless men.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

I said "I'm over that age and I don't have kids. That's called being a genius. Cause the other way would have been stupid for me up til now"

They didn't even make a peep after that. All of em have kids by dudes who got in the wind as soon as the kid came out.

It occurred to me they really don't know they are doing it wrong. They really think I'm doing it wrong.

That's the problem with us. Our values are at times up side down from healthy values.

Government planned it that way

 

[Dont@Me]

You do know that 43.5% of black men between the ages of 15-44 are childless right?

i have no idea where you got that statistic or if it's true, but thank you. As a black single male with no kids, i was startin to feel like a weirdo ass nikka

 

[El Bajo Negro]

You do know that 43.5% of black men between the ages of 15-44 are childless right?

Last time I looked at the stats, over 52% of BM are not married & have no children. There's nothing abnormal about the OP.

I feel like these stats gotta be BS. Lots of deadbeats included in these stats as childless when really, they just not in their kids' lives.

 

[Mac Brown]

i have no idea where you got that statistic or if it's true, but thank you. As a black single male with no kids, i was startin to feel like a weirdo ass nikka

There was a thread on this... and I believe its from the CDC.

Check this :

Linsky said: ↵
24% of US black men are unwed fathers
6% of married US black men marry outside the race
43% of black men are unmarried and childless
24% black men are unmarried and have children
40% black women are unmarried and mothers.


Roughly, 24% of black men are responsible for 40% of unwed mothers. But more or less all women support a campaign to blame all black men and particularly the less than 6% of men who marry outside the race. Figures are based on this:
https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr051.pdf

Black Men, ages 15-44, that are: Married 86.1% (have children) Unmarried 35.5% (have children) Black Women, ages 15-44, that are: Married 84.8% (have children) Unmarried 54.4% (have children) Consider that only approximately 32% of BM are married and 26% of BW are Married.


I wonder why it was so hard for me to find this yet theres pages and pages on Black Single motherhood and how we dont take care of our kids.

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

Thread turned into lowkey the shyt on black women thread

 

[Mac Brown]

I feel like these stats gotta be BS. Lots of deadbeats included in these stats as childless when really, they just not in their kids' lives.

You can feel how you want, but the numbers indicate that a larger group of black women are having multiple children from a smaller group of black men (only for out of wedlock though).


But its just the CDC so take it how you want. In major metro areas...I see this

 

[Ghost Utmost]

Im saying unwanted is opinion...your opinion..and it holds no weight on your argument. And "values" are an individual assessment....there is no overall consensus on what is and isnt moral or immoral....

Single parent homes do over whelmingly go hand in hand with poverty.....but that fact in no way corelates to ones values..which is the point I was making from the jump. You dont know those women or thier lives to make a point to call thier values poor because they have kids and are unwed. You dont know wtf is going on with those women...you just got some bullshyt stats and a judgmental attitude

Thats side line c00ning bullshyt...and is a garbage mindset. Speak on your values keep the rest of the 40 million of us out ya self hating mouth.

nikkas always think black people need tough love based off white statistical data....nikka eat a dikk...

You're wrong.

Not totally, but mostly.

Them saying something is "wrong" with me is

Join in kids

A VALUE JUDGEMENT.

So their VALUES say me not having kids is wrong.

My VALUES are healthy VALUES and I say have kids on purpose when you can feed them. Having both parents is the HEALTHIEST of all outcomes. This is a VALUE judgement.

You're butt hurt cause you are one of these kids or you have kids like these. Guess what genius? My moms was a Baby mama before that shyt had a name. My Dad was married to another woman on the other side of the map.

MY LIFE WAS FUKCED UP **BECAUSE** OF THIS.

My younger brother spent 20 years in prison because we were left to make our way in a world that didn't want us.

(Moms had the best intentions but she's one lady who has to work to feed us so she couldn't hold us back when the streets started calling).

So niqqa shut the fukc up to me. You don't know a got damn thing.

 

[Fukwatutalkinwatisaylaw]

At this point, I probably won't have a wife and kids and I don't give a fukk how anyone feels about it

How do u feel about it is the better question my brotha