Had to silence a gaggle of thots at work today. Talmbout childless men must have something wrong

[Serious]

so here's why just like @thatdude901 said

i worked with this chick about 5 years ago she was around 34 at the time, had 2 kids by 2 different dudes and constantly looking for a man..

she liked me so hard it was crazy

this broad ask me to come over to her house later after work, and i'm like i need some easy ass.. it was the biggest mistake i done

so after we did it and about the next day i showed up to work, this broad told me she's in love with me i'm like i'm not really into all that falling in love right away shyt.

this broad would walk up to me with a piece a paper with my last name after her first name... so i told her hey look it was cool what we did but i can't be in no relationship with you...

you know this broad came out and said can you just give me a baby , you don't have to be around, i just don't want to be alone and started crying and saying i give my p*ssy away and nobody wants to be with me

man i ended up leaving that job ....

Wait, but she already had two kids

 

[Serious]

Misery loves company.

So when you joining me

 

[semicko82]

You talk about not having kids at your age as like a badge of honor, talking about you’re ‘doing it right’.

You’re a weirdo, you don’t want kids, its cool my g do you.

This isnt a debate, there are no facts just opinions

Explain how are you a weirdo if you don't want kids especially if you are not financially stable

 

[Ghost Utmost]

5% compared to 95% is not a huge issue. That's where these white pundit and statistics get you young dumb asses confused.

If you have 1 dollar and some a$$holes comes and takes 5 cents, you are not going to bytch about that 5 cents cause you still got 95..........but they have somehow convinced people that the 5% is more important then the 95%.......its simply not true.

And your side of town sucks.......do better in life(or is this a direct result of your parents as well).

And you can't make a self proclamation of being 100% right if you have nothing but theory to back your claims.............it doesn't work like that.......and its statements like that that make me believe you seriously are slow as fukk, just like your admission of your pops ditching your moms after she tried to trap him.......... That information had nothing to do with the argument.

Again, you are latching on to the 5% figure as if it's gospel. I made it up and low balled it on purpose to make the statement

It doesn't have to be most Black people

So last I checked we were about 30% in poverty. Hopefully were down to about 25% by now.

That 25% is absolutely huge.

And single parenting as a problem I would guess is something smaller than 25%

But WHATEVER PERCENTAGE of Black people are having problems it's big enough that it's a huge problem.

So your very premise about most Black people being fine doesn't matter to what I'm saying.

If you had 1 crackhead in your family that one crackhead would turn your world upside down.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

You talk about not having kids at your age as like a badge of honor, talking about you’re ‘doing it right’.

You’re a weirdo, you don’t want kids, its cool my g do you.

This isnt a debate, there are no facts just opinions

Nope.

Having stray children with bird brains is bad. Unhealthy. Fact.

 

[DreadBrown]

Nope.

Having stray children with bird brains is bad. Unhealthy. Fact.

What are stray children? What the fukk are you talking about? What facts have you presented?

Why are women bird brains to you?



How is having kids bad for your health?

You all the way out there for real my g smh

 

[Elle Driver]

So when you joining me

I’m happy though.

 

[DaRealness]

I haven't read through the whole thread yet but I've had this bullshyt too.

In life you just have to not care about what people think. The way I look at it, I'm in a good job, drive a nice car and live in a nice place. Yeah sometimes it would be nice to have a youngin to kick a ball around with and whatnot but if or when the time is right it will happen with the RIGHT woman. I'm dating now and not just gonna seed up any ole chick and go through years of financial strain and misery like some of my friends.

No one is paying my bills so fukk their opinions. If you got grown people with that type of mentality then you need to cut them loose anyway.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

What are stray children? What the fukk are you talking about? What facts have you presented?

Why are women bird brains to you?



How is having kids bad for your health?

You all the way out there for real my g smh

Stray children are children that the couple don't really want. Y'all niqqas acting soooo sheltered from this shyt but out my window there are chicks walking around with 3 kids by 3 dudes who are not around for whatever reason. These kids raise themselves largely and end up roaming the streets in packs at about 15 YO.

^^^fact

Women aren't all bird brains. A bish that you aren't that serious about who will let you nut in her raw.. is a birdbrain. My assumption is that if I wanna just "breed" I'd have to choose a woman like that.

^^^fact

Having kids can be bad for your health in some ways but I was mainly talking about bad for the health of the kid (mental health included) and the health of the neighborhood.. cause stray kids become those people who lurk at night and do dirt.

You sound slow Breh.

 

[King Poetic]

Wait, but she already had two kids

she was fukked up like that.. her son was on the way to college and her daughter was like 14 or 15... i guess she feel like she was going to be lonely when her daughter leave the house..

 

[rosie93]

There was a thread on this... and I believe its from the CDC.

Check this :

Linsky said: ↵
24% of US black men are unwed fathers
6% of married US black men marry outside the race
43% of black men are unmarried and childless
24% black men are unmarried and have children
40% black women are unmarried and mothers.


Roughly, 24% of black men are responsible for 40% of unwed mothers. But more or less all women support a campaign to blame all black men and particularly the less than 6% of men who marry outside the race. Figures are based on this:
https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr051.pdf

Black Men, ages 15-44, that are: Married 86.1% (have children) Unmarried 35.5% (have children) Black Women, ages 15-44, that are: Married 84.8% (have children) Unmarried 54.4% (have children) Consider that only approximately 32% of BM are married and 26% of BW are Married.


I wonder why it was so hard for me to find this yet theres pages and pages on Black Single motherhood and how we dont take care of our kids.

It's pretty much the fact that these women are sharing the same men. I'm pretty young and I intend on never getting married or having kids. #HOH. I always wear a rubber.

 

[brickfare]

Every young black woman I know has had a kid out of wedlock, a kid before they were 25, and have multiple baby daddies.

there's not "something wrong" with them though?

my white co workers dont have kids until they're in their 30's and 40's. i guess there is "something wrong" with them too.

going off of your username, you from the m?

when i hit 25 (i'm 34 now, no kids or wife) i started to get the whole "yeen got no kids?!" third degree from some women...this shyt shouldn't be an anomaly

 

[Mr. Glass]

31 with no kids, but I have 4 hoes in rotation.

 

[Marc Spector]

fukk kids b

This year now more than ever ive soured on them.

Theyre constant, needy handfuls. Emotion, time and money sinks. Only a handful of them are tolerable between the ages of 2-10.

Im not built for familial sacrifice at this point in my life. Most people effectively give up on themselves when they have kids. I still have a lot i want to do and achieve. And i refuse to just be doing shyt to provide for the fam.....Ive only seen a handful of people become better versions of themselves after children.....

 

[The_Truth]

You automatically lost when you admitted for no reason at all that your pops ghosted after he knocked your moms up. You showed an emotional connection to an argument which makes any point you have null and void. My efforts to clown are because your killed your own argument by showing bias and obvious ignorance in regards to what was stated. Outside its just fukking funny you on the internet crying about your not shyt parents setting you up for failure in regards to emotional stability.

The women probably wasn't even talking to you, but because your so emotional invested and obviously have parenting issues(which is the real reason you don't have kids) you jumped in adding your 2 cents and probably did unnecessary fakkit shyt snapping your neck and rolling your eyes and shyt.

What you also divulged is that your decision has nothing to do with financial stability as it does with the fear of letting down your children in regards to being everything your parents weren't. Its phobia related and not financially motivated at all..........

Tell me I'm wrong? None the less though breh, more power to you. You just showed your hand too much. which was just dumb.........

And you a side baby (pause) from here on out nikka......

Pretty fukkin scumbaggish to use OP's parents' situation to insult him when he openly revealed this info to prove a point.