she said dudes kept throwing her in the friend zone cause their values don’t match. dudes not trying to wait long to marry/get intimate with her
people say they want a righteous woman but then get one and don’t know how to lead the relationship in a genuine way
There's a difference between righteous and frigid tho. And make no mistake, I'm all for pointing out the hypocrisy in the Madonna/Whore binary thinking a lot of men engage in when discussing "ideal" female partners.
However a grown woman, especially one over 30 should have enough life experience to know better and act accordingly. Even if she at one point fully believed "all men want virgins" or some shyt, surely she understood that if true they damn sure weren't talking about 30+ woman like herself.
She more than likely kept getting friend zoned or bushed because the men she wanted weren't willing to put up with her virginity hostage crisis games or whatever religious trauma that made her who she is today.