Halle Berry On Failed Marriages: I chose BOYS, not MEN

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“As women, we need our men to stand up and be men,” she told the group, who hail mostly from colleges and universities across the nation. “Take care of us and serve us. When you do that, we will fall over and bow at your feet. But you have to start it, because God made you first.”
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wow!!!! so the best person Detroit could find to lecture 300 black men is fcking halle berry? :what: thats pathetic man whoever the organization is should be ashamed of themselves...
Literally came in to say this... They didn't have those children's best intention in mind AT ALL.
 

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Classic blame shifting. Yes, those men may have not been the best choices for serious relationships. But broken women choose broken men. It seems like some women overlook this even when they finally get that "I get it now" moment. That THEY are just as much part of the problem as the men they dated.

Your choices are a reflection of your values. People with proper values tend to value substance over shine. People with poor values tend to value shine over substance.

When a person values substance, they tend to pick things that are quality and built to last. They pick people and things based on how they add value to their life and future. Since their choices are quality, they tend to come with less drama. Because things that are built with quality tend to be made from material that last and last with good performance. Same goes for quality people.

When a person values shine, they tend to pick things that are look good on the outside without checking the quality of the inside. They pick people and things based on how they make them look to the outside world, not based on what's good for them as a person. Since their choices are not quality-based, they tend to come with drama and depreciation. Because things that are built with shine are not meant to last and/or perform for the long haul. Same goes for shine people.

In every situation, one must start with themselves and review their choices before pointing the finger outward. One can only control what they do and how they react. So, if someone continues to find themselves in the same situation over and over, then the "others" are not the issue. They, themselves, are the issue.

It seems Halle was dating/marrying the same person, just in different packages. She needs to look herself in the mirror and clown herself for being a "girl" who chooses the same kind of "boys" to be in going nowhere relationships.

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Halle is the type of bed wench who'd act like she was cool with the other slaves just to get information to relay back to master. I don't think that there's a celebrity that I dislike more than her.
Funny thing, she played a white-passing bedwench. Girl was pretending to be white, her spot for blew up then old dude raped her and kicked her out. You know cacs, acting outraged but still wanna have sex with the people they hate :bryan:
 

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Classic blame shifting. Yes, those men may have not been the best choices for serious relationships. But broken women choose broken men. It seems like some women overlook this even when they finally get that "I get it now" moment. That THEY are just as much part of the problem as the men they dated.

Your choices are a reflection of your values. People with proper values tend to value substance over shine. People with poor values tend to value shine over substance.

When a person values substance, they tend to pick things that are quality and built to last. They pick people and things based on how they add value to their life and future. Since their choices are quality, they tend to come with less drama. Because things that are built with quality tend to be made from material that last and last with good performance. Same goes for quality people.

When a person values shine, they tend to pick things that are look good on the outside without checking the quality of the inside. They pick people and things based on how they make them look to the outside world, not based on what's good for them as a person. Since their choices are not quality-based, they tend to come with drama and depreciation. Because things that are built with shine are not meant to last and/or perform for the long haul. Same goes for shine people.

In every situation, one must start with themselves and review their choices before pointing the finger outward. One can only control what they do and how they react. So, if someone continues to find themselves in the same situation over and over, then the "others" are not the issue. They, themselves, are the issue.

It seems Halle was dating/marrying the same person, just in different packages. She needs to look herself in the mirror and clown herself for being a "girl" who chooses the same kind of "boys" to be in going nowhere relationships.

Peace

Good post.
 
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I don't find her attractive at all any more. She is the poster child for a crazy tragic mullato and I have a real suspicion that her p*ssy trash.
 
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