Handsome Gang how often would you say you get approched by women

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I'd be fukking nikkas shyt up in bars and restaurants. They be out with their old lady and she be choosing me while her man is trying to keep her mind occupied.



This has happened to me several times. Women would be choosing on ya boy while out with their man. It would have me mad uncomfortable.

Besides that, I would have women see me around town and be staring, and then someway somehow they would wind up coming into my job a few days later. It happened so much that I could time it. Me and my bro would be somewhere and a chic would be staring at me and I would tell him "I bet you she'll be at my job in a few days".

Like clockwork they would show up under the guise of needing something when they was really there tryna see what was up with your boy. It was ridiculous.

Had a bunch of women clients just off the strength of them trying to get with your boy.

One chic, I spoke about her on here, came to my job to order something for her bf. That night she was in my office with her panties off. It was insane, brehs.

Crazy thing is... I dont think I look good at all. I think I'm ugly gang. I've NEVER thought I was handsome gang at all.

But these women have loved me. Crazy thing is... women approach me for my looks. A lot of the time it fell off afterwards. If I'm being honest, I'm not like most dudes outchea. Always had my own swag, marched to the beat of my own drum, a little bit of a nerd. But women were always interested in me just off the strength of how I look, nothing else.

It actually made me cynical when it comes to women because I feel I have a lot to offer besides my looks. So when a woman is after me hard and hasn't gotten to know me or worse, doesn't even WANT to know me, just wants me sexually, it's a turn off to me.
 

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none of it matters unless it's someone you actually like :yeshrug:

i actually find it (attention) annoying and depressing otherwise :ehh:

i do appreciate compliments though :whoa:
I agree with this. bytches be looking, but i feel like they coming up out they place tryna make a move. bytch just know i see you, and you look good, but i ain't playing the game right now.

To answer the question tho, not very often is the approach. Choosing signals all over the calendar tho. I used to think the opposite when i was younger, but now I find women less attractive personality wise when they open they mouth first and idk why but it prolly got sumn to do with the thrill of the chase

At the same time tho, you can't apply the same rules to every type of woman. A chick from new Orleans or New York or Mexico, i find they game spitting sexy. Most females don't really got it Kuz they be tryna step out they comfort zone

Then these days a bytch will blow yo head up (not how you want em to) just to drop they coordinates and have some dirty nikkas at yo throat for nothing.

With all that said, i suggest everyone study psychology even if it's just the basics. Reading body language and patterns can save you time, money, and could potentially save your life
 

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Approached? Get on with that. People in general don’t approach.

It’s all about reciprocation. When you’re out and about and women are overly friendly, you know you’re handsome gang.
They can be hostile too lol. If ur not making eye contact and she’s tried to get ur attention, she’ll straight up be menacing on ur ass
 

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Approached as in like...asked out? Some not a lot.

But if we just talking about who's in persuit, I'm usually the one being persued, just has been that way my whole life. This is why I try to hip some dudes to stop pushing so hard persuing and all that cold approach PUA bullshyt, just relax into yourself, be a wirlpool, draw people in.
 

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Approached straight up? Umm at the gym a girl asking me how many sets I got left. Happened about a week ago.

But mostly I never get approached straight up. My body language ain't even inviting like that and I stay with a mask on everywhere I go.
 
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Once in a blue moon...

Its the staring, that happens more often. So much staring that it makes the whole room uncomfortable:russ: my female cousins be telling me x girl is staring am like yea i know:unimpressed: of course u would get the tit rub , her ass rubbing on your crouch, bending over, touching your chest i could go on:mjlol:

Couple times on the bus some white girl and her friend were rubbing unto me i felt i was in JAV porn movie

Just approach if u like her back easy lay up....:manny:






Breh... one time I was at this bday party that my mom planned for my grandma. This was before me and my woman got married. And I will admit, I was still in my playa mindset a lil bit. Anyway my cousin shows up with her fine friend from college. The friend is choosing HARD. So hard that everybody in the room noticed it. But you know, I'm a lightweight playa but nobody in my fam knew this cause I always kept my relationship status private. But ole girl was choosing so hard and she was so beautiful that I broke my cardinal rule. Hollering at a chic around family.

Bro me and ole girl was flirting in front of grandma, mom, God and everybody. Whole fam looking at me like :beli::hhh: cause me and my girl been together for years at that point.

I'm like :yeshrug: I aint married yet.


So my PLAN was to get ole girls number before my girl got there (she was running late). Ole girl starts playing hard to get tho, telling me she'll give me her number before she leaves.

Then. My woman shows up.:francis:


I felt like Bill Bellamy in How To Be a Player.:mjlol:


Long story short, ole girl wound up going :francis::mjcry: once she saw i had a woman.


She was looking depressed for the rest of the night, and my uncle and cousin wound up trying to console her.

I felt like a jerk. One good thing about it tho is I was able to keep my woman from finding out what was happening :mjgrin:
 

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I've gotten a stare, some woman approached me and said I was the perfect height, a white older lady said I was handsome with a blush, and another girl said my name and said he's handsome. It happens.

It's crazy because I don't believe I'm handsome :unimpressed:
 

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older woman I worked with who still had her fitness shape: chest groped,
staring me down like:demonic:
Pretended to bump into me aggressive af I turn around she looking at me like:queen: excuse me
with Nipples on TEN:mjgrin:

I didn't like her face though so I didn't entertain her outside of work invites:manny:
 

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I don't consider myself handsome or whatever but when I was working retail this cougar called me over to help her then as soon as I got closer she started looking me up and down and said "you look so good. you doing everything for me honey:shaq:"

I was legit shook and was like "I gotta get back to my department auntie" :mjlol:
You ain't have to do her like that :pachaha:
 

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They don't approach me but they always ask probing questions when I talk to them. Like the other day this lady asked me if I could cook her something (I work as a nutritionist) but she added "if that's ok with your wife". I get that one "your girlfriend must be happy", "I'm surprised your girl let's you wear those grey pants" and random shyt like that all the time.
 

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older woman I worked with who still had her fitness shape: chest groped,
staring me down like:demonic:
Pretended to bump into me aggressive af I turn around she looking at me like:queen: excuse me
with Nipples on TEN:mjgrin:

I didn't like her face though so I didn't entertain her outside of work invites:manny:

I aint got nuttin but old birds at my work. I remember one time there was this older lady that use to work at my job her husband was black. She use to always want me to come hang at her place but I never did. I remember it was New Year's Eve and she asked me what I was doing and I told her me and my ex at the time got a hotel downtown and were going to see the fireworks. She yells out so the whole office could hear oooooo hotel can I come watch.

I was like :what:
 
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