Hardest L you ever had to swallow?
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Eastside Get The Money
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Uber/lyft, any type of promo or vender gig where you have to drive. Really basically anything where you'll have to drive a company car or be insured by them
At Navy bootcamp pretty much everyone who needs swim lessons are black people...with one or two oddball white kidsBecause I can’t...
It’s a ton of black people that can’t swim plus I live in North Louisiana there ain’t too many swim instructors out here.
I'm lucky as I live outside atlantic city..so I always went to the beach...also alot of the apartment cos.mplexes have pool
Crayola Coyote
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My ultra biggest L is that I’m obsessed with Time. I cannot relax, I think my time is being wasted on anything I do. I want to do the right thing but life does not work out like a blueprint. I work too much and feel like I’m wasting my time I don’t work and I feel like I’m wasting my time. I go on a vacation I think I’m wasting time. I can’t win.. I think I’m wasting my time.
Crayola Coyote
Superstar
This is were I’m at in life
Crayola Coyote
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This This This. I’ve never had a gf but I’ve dealt with a female friend that did shyt like this. We would plan some shyt and they would agree with it and then flake at the last minute. Wtf
Crayola Coyote
Superstar
Ain't that the truth. And it's the reason why so many of the Ls in this thread are about women.
A couple of years ago, was about to go on a vacation with this chick who I had deep feelings for. Just me and her, tropical destination, for a couple of weeks. She's the one that suggested the trip, and she'd even suggested we share a bed together (I hadn't smashed by this point, which was already an L). Perfect. A couple days before the flight she tells me she didn't feel anything for me. Just straight up told me she there wasn't anything between us, and nothing will ever come of it. Nada. And she didn't tell me face to face, or even on the phone. Chick did it by email. A fukking email. Damn near sounded like a lawyer wrote it too. I woke up to that email, and my expression was just:
I had taken time off work during a stressful period, and spent dinero on the flights (thankfully I'd just paid for mine). What's more, I had really imagined a future with this girl. I ended up going on the vacation by myself anyway, and spent the whole time in a daze wondering why she flipped on me. I just couldn't understand why. I really thought she was ideal for me. The stress that these women can put us through... shyt hit me hard, and it coincided with some difficulties at work too, so had me questioning myself and everything. Was a real low point for me. The thoughts I had about myself, no self-respecting man should think or feel.
Then I realised all the signs that I missed. Reflected on the situation. Learned from it, focused on myself, and was ultimately thankful that I had avoided someone so insincere. And at least she pulled that shyt a few months in and not a few years in. Since then I've been killing it on all levels, and am more successful (professionally) than ever.
I'd taken Ls before, but this one legit changed the way I viewed women. I still think about what happened between me and her, but I try not to dwell on it. I stopped believing in a lot of the ideals I used to, and that's pretty sad.
THIS get me very angry. Not even the “he didn’t get to smash” part cause even if he did smash, he would still get the same result in the end. The fact that women do shyt and not be held accountable. This bytch planned to go on this trip and she just doesn’t show up! Not even a call but some shytty as txt message. fukk women. No, it’s unacceptable and fukking rude. Men don’t do this shyt at all. I don’t care what you sluts and you titty simp suckers say. It’s wrong.
Black Nate Grey
The God Emperor of Mankind
My L's started the day I was born
shyts, Just been one continuous L
shyts, Just been one continuous L
Probably sitting around watching Freddie Kruger with my cousins in Jamaica on a pitch black night
I was like 8 and I wet all over the bed that night, all over my cousins too because there were bout 6 of us in 1 bed
From then on I was known as “piss a bed turtle”
I was like 8 and I wet all over the bed that night, all over my cousins too because there were bout 6 of us in 1 bed
From then on I was known as “piss a bed turtle”
AyBrehHam Linkin
First Black Brehsident
My neighbor n I got set up by a nikka we thought was cool folks.
Some BD nikka I knew hit us up asking for who could sell him a Qp. I’m like fukk naw he a jack boi we gonna lose our plug. My thirsty ass neighbor was onnat tho n wanted to slide on him. I gave em benefit of the doubt cus I knew buddy had a job now n we was always cool. So me n my neighbor skidaddled on over...
We get there, and are waiting at his crib for a good min. Like 15 min, I’m boutta leave but dude finally arrives in his work clothes n everything saying he finna change...
We wait another 20 min damn near. I’m like fukkit nikka I’m boutta blow this popsicle stand. But my spic ass neighbor get out the car n walks to his crib. We at these rough ass apartment buildings by my crib called The Hole n I’m like bro you ugly asl doin the most. He goes over there and looks in the windows, goes behind the building...
He comes back kinda shook like “bro these nikkas was asking me who I was n where I was from n who I was looking for.” I’m like nikka what? N sho nuff..
2 nikkas ran out from behind the building with a shotty and a pole. My dad whip was off, n them nikkas rushed us fast asl. Had us get out the car, n searches us n shyt. Put me in the back n essentially kidnapped ya boi n his bytch ass neighbor
Not gonna lie, I started laughing in the middle of the robbery when my neighbor started crying
I’m like bro you ho ass nikka don’t show fear to these nikkas.
They Took 400 dollars that night, was in the back of the whip with a whole shotgun to my noggin. Long night
Turns out them nikkas was beefing with the BD nikka we knew. I told them y’all can take y’all W I’ll take my L n we can go our separate ways. They fukked with that, woulda stole my laptop n car too but they said I was cool folks. Just warned me not to fukk with that nikka no more.
shyt was kinda funny tho
I just found out one of the nikkas who did it tho, hooped with him a couple times before the whole thing. It’s on sight on my fukkin soul
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Some BD nikka I knew hit us up asking for who could sell him a Qp. I’m like fukk naw he a jack boi we gonna lose our plug. My thirsty ass neighbor was onnat tho n wanted to slide on him. I gave em benefit of the doubt cus I knew buddy had a job now n we was always cool. So me n my neighbor skidaddled on over...
We get there, and are waiting at his crib for a good min. Like 15 min, I’m boutta leave but dude finally arrives in his work clothes n everything saying he finna change...
We wait another 20 min damn near. I’m like fukkit nikka I’m boutta blow this popsicle stand. But my spic ass neighbor get out the car n walks to his crib. We at these rough ass apartment buildings by my crib called The Hole n I’m like bro you ugly asl doin the most. He goes over there and looks in the windows, goes behind the building...
He comes back kinda shook like “bro these nikkas was asking me who I was n where I was from n who I was looking for.” I’m like nikka what? N sho nuff..
2 nikkas ran out from behind the building with a shotty and a pole. My dad whip was off, n them nikkas rushed us fast asl. Had us get out the car, n searches us n shyt. Put me in the back n essentially kidnapped ya boi n his bytch ass neighbor
Not gonna lie, I started laughing in the middle of the robbery when my neighbor started crying
I’m like bro you ho ass nikka don’t show fear to these nikkas.They Took 400 dollars that night, was in the back of the whip with a whole shotgun to my noggin. Long night
Turns out them nikkas was beefing with the BD nikka we knew. I told them y’all can take y’all W I’ll take my L n we can go our separate ways. They fukked with that, woulda stole my laptop n car too but they said I was cool folks. Just warned me not to fukk with that nikka no more.
shyt was kinda funny tho
I just found out one of the nikkas who did it tho, hooped with him a couple times before the whole thing. It’s on sight on my fukkin soul
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had a a girlfriend in high school,she lived in another town so we didn't hook up a lot..after we broke up i found out that she had been fukking a couple of homies and dudes from the other side of town while we were supposed to be together.bytch almost had me stab a nikka for trying to punk me at a outdoor party,only to find out he had been smashing too..my young naive teenage heart got a lot colder after that girl did a crip walk all over it..
I should have excelled at school but chased poontang,hung in them streets and smoked weed and was not motivated by the time i went to get my bachelor so i dropped out and regret that shyt till this day..i have a good job but thats about 500--700 a month i leave on the table now due to not having my degree..so next year we getting that degree since i qualify for fast track and can get it in 2 1/2 yrs
Had a chance to have a career in entertainment and be self employed but i let my girl get in my head and moved in with her..my 3 closest friends to this day(one is my cuz) told me i would regret it and we should stick to our plan. I flaked..all 3 have great careers,self made,make more than good money and have not worked for a boss since.
I think that sometimes an L makes you re evaluate your choices and forces you to move out of comfort zones and lethargy so no shame here..it molded me to were i know my weakness and move accordingly
I should have excelled at school but chased poontang,hung in them streets and smoked weed and was not motivated by the time i went to get my bachelor so i dropped out and regret that shyt till this day..i have a good job but thats about 500--700 a month i leave on the table now due to not having my degree..so next year we getting that degree since i qualify for fast track and can get it in 2 1/2 yrs
Had a chance to have a career in entertainment and be self employed but i let my girl get in my head and moved in with her..my 3 closest friends to this day(one is my cuz) told me i would regret it and we should stick to our plan. I flaked..all 3 have great careers,self made,make more than good money and have not worked for a boss since.
I think that sometimes an L makes you re evaluate your choices and forces you to move out of comfort zones and lethargy so no shame here..it molded me to were i know my weakness and move accordingly
My neighbor n I got set up by a nikka we thought was cool folks.
Some BD nikka I knew hit us up asking for who could sell him a Qp. I’m like fukk naw he a jack boi we gonna lose our plug. My thirsty ass neighbor was onnat tho n wanted to slide on him. I gave em benefit of the doubt cus I knew buddy had a job now n we was always cool. So me n my neighbor skidaddled on over...
We get there, and are waiting at his crib for a good min. Like 15 min, I’m boutta leave but dude finally arrives in his work clothes n everything saying he finna change...
We wait another 20 min damn near. I’m like fukkit nikka I’m boutta blow this popsicle stand. But my spic ass neighbor get out the car n walks to his crib. We at these rough ass apartment buildings by my crib called The Hole n I’m like bro you ugly asl doin the most. He goes over there and looks in the windows, goes behind the building...
He comes back kinda shook like “bro these nikkas was asking me who I was n where I was from n who I was looking for.” I’m like nikka what? N sho nuff..
2 nikkas ran out from behind the building with a shotty and a pole. My dad whip was off, n them nikkas rushed us fast asl. Had us get out the car, n searches us n shyt. Put me in the back n essentially kidnapped ya boi n his bytch ass neighbor
Not gonna lie, I started laughing in the middle of the robbery when my neighbor started crying
They Took 400 dollars that night, was in the back of the whip with a whole shotgun to my noggin. Long night
Turns out them nikkas was beefing with the BD nikka we knew. I told them y’all can take y’all W I’ll take my L n we can go our separate ways. They fukked with that, woulda stole my laptop n car too but they said I was cool folks. Just warned me not to fukk with that nikka no more.
shyt was kinda funny tho
I just found out one of the nikkas who did it tho, hooped with him a couple times before the whole thing. It’s on sight on my fukkin soul
the fukkery over 400 bucks
can confirm. I'm from baton rouge and i know for a fact that my 29 year old ass cant swimBecause I can’t
It’s a ton of black people that can’t swim plus I live in North Louisiana there ain’t too many swim instructors out here.
I'm thinking at a young age they have more experienced than dudes the same age and some of those experiences are with older dudes that do them dirty. So young dudes naive and the cycle continues.
Yep you're right but that's female nature. You can be angry at it or go with it and you gets ton of puss.
The dudes I notice that are the most successful with women are those who don't question why females do what they do.