Hardest L you ever had to swallow?

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I can't say how much of an "L" this really is, but sometimes I think about the only girl I ever truly had feelings for and if it maybe couldve worked out.....
There were a whole lot pf problems surrounding it, from personal issues/being bi polar on her side to my lifestyle/persona not really being compatible to a real relationship etc. etc.
So it most likely wouldve never worked out but sometimes I think about "what if"....
 

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I was fortunate enough to learn from my older uncles,brother and cousins enormous amount of L’s as a younging so i avoided all of the fukked up situations Like my uncle running a train on one his “homies” girl and getting jumped for it.

One L that cut deep was back in the aol chat room days for the old heads who remember. I met a few people from there so a friend of one of those chicks hit me up and we got the chatting and exchanged numbers . We get close and after 3 months im like we both in NY let meet up in the city sometime but she kept fronting whenever it was time.

So when the early phase of myspace rolls out i see her pics so i go on to the page and its her but all the info was somebody else so i confronted her then shawty just dipped straight disappeared.

This was catfishing before it had a name but i aint send no cash but wasting my time hurt because i ignored chicks at school and work in real life for Some imaginary broad that i have no idea who she really was and no answers. Thats why when i watch catfish i feel for those who want answers and shyt but i wasnt as invested as they were and bounced back but it still haunts me. Like is that broad still around watching my life on social media cause she knows my whole story

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Had a threesome with a girl I really liked with a close friend. I couldn't get hard so I left the room and let my friend finish. I come back into the room 20 minutes later after a mini pep talk with myself, I over hear her saying " I love you" to my friend. I drove them back to his apartment that night and apparently he had sex with her again.


23 years and this still stings me.
This shyt HERE :huhldup: this has you doubting ya meat, stroke game, confidence, all that. You and breh still cool? Did he tell you how the p*ssy was? :yeshrug:
 

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A lot of groping and telling her how much I wanted to fukk. The crazy thing is that I'm not even into her like that. Plus her man was at the party (I'm assuming he didn't see what I did). Everybody was drunk.......I think. Anyway, if she goes to HR on Monday then I'm done.

Reminds me of this Spanish cat who got drunk at a work wrap party and was asking chicks if they wanted to have a threeway with him and his wife

This fool was even asking chicks in HR.

Next day by mid afternoon he was gone. They disappeared that fool off the face of the earth.

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I've taken enough coursework in mathematics to have double-majored in it (along with my physics degree) if I had wanted to, and at a tougher campus than you've ever step foot on. :umad:

If you think there was any mathematical misunderstanding in my post, then you didn't read it right.

If you only have one one-night stand in your life, then yes, you'll be unlucky to get a girl pregnant. (although your 1% number looks too low: "The bottom line is that a single act of intercourse between a young couple has on average a one in 20 chance of pregnancy – this assumes the opportunity presented itself on a random day, as these things tend do when you are young."

However, if you have a large enough sample of one-night stands, then your overall chances of getting a girl pregnant in your lifetime are much higher. If they were 5% for a single one-night stand, then you have a 9.75% chance of having gotten at least one girl pregnant after two one-night stands, a 14.2625% chance of having gotten at least one girl pregnant after three one-night stands, and so on. Off the top of my head, the chances of getting at least one girl pregnant would break 50% after....29 sexual encounters. Of course, if it would be hard to call someone "unlucky" even if the chances were just 20% or 30%, because that's still a damn high risk for those consequences.

If you think I've made any mathematical misunderstanding there, then show it to your statistics professor and he'll correct it for you, because either you've made a false assumption or you're misreading my claims.
You originally said this
Nah, you don't know how many of those he had though. Do it enough and the odds are gonna catch up on you sometime.

This is wrong for two reasons

Reason 1: Probability doesn't stack like that. It's the inverse of the chance that you don't get it.

Reason 2: Coli brehs don't get laid enough for them to randomly get a girl pregnant. ( I'm basing this off the numerous smash or pass/ig thot threads, the body count thread, and general aversion to women).

I've taken enough coursework in mathematics to have double-majored in it (along with my physics degree) if I had wanted to, and at a tougher campus than you've ever step foot on.

Sure, assuming you studied math at Carnegie Mellon, MIT, Stanford, or Berkeley. If you not, then :francis:

Of course, if it would be hard to call someone "unlucky" even if the chances were just 20% or 30%, because that's still a damn high risk for those consequences.

The egg cell is only viable for about 48 hours a month. The sperm does a little better at about 72 hours.I do not know the standard deviations of those numbers (I'm going to assume they are means/medians) it's quite difficult to give a probability breakdown but you can estimate that you have about 120 hours on average every cycle when intercourse can result in pregnancy. You have to consider the fact that the average cycle length of 28 days the probability is about 18% of any given act of intercourse falling within the fertile period. Here are the conditions. First and foremost having sex during a woman’s fertile window does not guarantee pregnancy and the numbers(don’t have them on hand). Second, as I said in my previous post a large number of pregnancies that would occur a large fraction all end in a miscarriage before they are detected.

Thirdly whenever you find a woman is who menstruating the chances of her becoming pregnant are slim to none. So the percentage is only useful during normal days, however, when I calculated it I took the entire cycle length as my divisor.

"Fertilization occurs in one of the uterine tubes usually within about 24 hours of ovulation. Sperms usually remain viable in the female genital tract for about 48 hours, but can stay viable for a week. 4 The ovum also usually remains fertilizable for about 48 hours after ovulation. Artificial insemination studies suggest that if coitus takes place at the most ideal time for fertilization (viz. during the 24 hours just before ovulation), then the chances of a viable pregnancy are, at best, only about 30%. The probability of a viable pregnancy falls off rapidly the longer the interval between coitus and ovulation. Coitus at 3 days before ovulation has a 20% probability of causing a viable pregnancy, and coitus 1 week before ovulation has only a 1% probability of causing pregnancy."

The Human Lifecycle Part 1 by: Johan H Koeslag Medical Physiology Stellenbosch University PO Box Tygerberg, South Africa GROWTH AND DEVELOPMENT BEFORE BIRTH.
GROWTH AND DEVELOPMENT BEFORE BIRTH - PDF - Books - Non-fiction - Discover and Share Documents - PowerPoint Presentations - DocMH.net


So even if you were to take the 30% and that’s being generous and apply to the entire window then at a random time during the woman’s menstrual cycle the probability of a single act of sex resulting in pregnancy is about 5%. If you restrict intercourse to days when a woman is not menstruating then that number jumps to 7%. The actual probability is probably significantly lower, especially for adults and I lack to the data to support but judging by what I have read and heard from people way smarter than you and I, I’m going to say it should be under 1%.
 

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I had drinks at a party with co-workers last night and got so drunk that I did and said some foul shyt to one of the women that I work with. I'm hoping everyone was so drunk that they don't remember that shyt but it has me worried since I remember it. I don't know if I should apologize or just lay low and wait until somebody brings it up.


Apologize man, don't be an ass. We all make mistakes.
 

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had a full ride academic scholarship to Morehouse and lost it by .14 gpa points because I was wilding out too hard going to the club all the time(they had shuttles that would pick us up from campus) and chasing Spelman, Clark, and Morris Brown chicks :shaq2:


Atltanta was fun as shyt in the late 90s/early 2000s :manny:
yes it was:francis::mjcry:
Atlanta Live, Essos's,club 112, Club Kaya, World Bar, 559, Living in the West End before the cacs came
 
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