Hardest L you ever had to swallow?

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that walmart parking lot story was hilarious @Crayola Coyote ...lemme settle down and read thru this thread top to bottom...

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Not admitting and taking responsibility for my first child. :wow: Breh 16 now, maybe on thecoli.com talking shyt about me and all.:wow: I aint never seen breh in real life but twice, once to get dna, and the other on some random shyt. :wow: I wish I can take back 16 years:francis:. That's a L you can't ever get over. Lil breh don't even know me:wow:
 

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Not admitting and taking responsibility for my first child. :wow: Breh 16 now, maybe on thecoli.com talking shyt about me and all.:wow: I aint never seen breh in real life but twice, once to get dna, and the other on some random shyt. :wow: I wish I can take back 16 years:francis:. That's a L you can't ever get over. Lil breh don't even know me:wow:
It's not too late. I hope you and your son can reconnect someday.
 

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I was kicking it with one of my homeboys on base and there was a magazine with Esperanza Spalding on the cover
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me: "breh it says here she's from Portland, what's Portland like?"
breh: "my nikka they got Esperanza Spaldings EVERYWHERE in Portland :blessed:
me:
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breh: :jawalrus:



after I was done fukking around in Europe I decided to come out here for school and turns out it's the whitest major city in the country :gucci:
still haven't seen any Esperanza Spaldings, and the white girls are the worst looking out of any place I've lived in :martin:
 

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It's not too late. I hope you and your son can reconnect someday.
Word me too bro, but I think its a lost cause at this point :mjcry:.

Edit: Plus he got two little brothers he don't even know. I feel like shyt even talking about him that's a L yall can't understand.
 
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Word me too bro, but I think its a lost cause at this point :mjcry:.

Edit: Plus he got two little brothers he don't even know. I feel like shyt even talking about him that's a L yall can't understand.
Bruh I'm 24 and about to reach out to my dad later today. I'm reading through no more Mr nice guy and found out all of my nice guy tendencies is from him not being there fotr me when I was younger. You have the opportunity to still be there for him while he's still young so do it and quit being a selfish bytch because you're scared of what to say and do it before it's you're on your deathbed because he might not come to your funeral.
 

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Bruh I'm 24 and about to reach out to my dad later today. I'm reading through no more Mr nice guy and found out all of my nice guy tendencies is from him not being there fotr me when I was younger. You have the opportunity to still be there for him while he's still young so do it and quit being a selfish bytch because you're scared of what to say and do it before it's you're on your deathbed because he might not come to your funeral.

Yeah, I feel you. I finally just told my moms about him this year. She putting that pressure on me to make that move. I guess i resolved it to that when he wanna find out, he will come to me. But in retrospect it ain't his responsibility, yet I have no clue how to reintroduce myself into his life.
 

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Word me too bro, but I think its a lost cause at this point :mjcry:.

Edit: Plus he got two little brothers he don't even know. I feel like shyt even talking about him that's a L yall can't understand.
Don't think that way. He's only 16, he needs his father and his little brothers.
Find him on social media, call his mom, visit his school, do what you need to do to reach out to hin.
Please believe, it's going to take a lot of hard work & maybe even some ass kissing on your part, but you can still build that bridge.
 

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Any more details? :lupe:

What happened exactly? What made you suspect she was cheating and to look in her phone?

Things seem off with y'all or she just a whore? :mjcry:
Her actions started changing,her phone would ring late at night, but it would always be a "wrong number". She started going out & staying out late at night. She felt different when we'd have sex, etc.
 

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Don't think that way. He's only 16, he needs his father and his little brothers.
Find him on social media, call his mom, visit his school, do what you need to do to reach out to hin.
Please believe, it's going to take a lot of hard work & maybe even some ass kissing on your part, but you can still build that bridge.

I talk to his mom on social media, and I've seen pictures of him. I know the school he goes to. Me and his Uncle cool too. Its a long story between me and his mom, I was young and she was married ,and just recently got divorced. So the situation wasn't ideal to begin with. If I was mature back then I wouldn't have let her dictate the situation, I rolled with that and now I feel that regret.

However, I've made subtle innuendos to his mom about us just meeting up, but she really ain't letting it happen.
 

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I talk to his mom on social media, and I've seen pictures of him. I know the school he goes to. Me and his Uncle cool too. Its a long story between me and his mom, I was young and she was married ,and just recently got divorced. So the situation wasn't ideal to begin with. If I was mature back then I wouldn't have let her dictate the situation, I rolled with that and now I feel that regret.

However, I've made subtle innuendos to his mom about us just meeting up, but she really ain't letting it happen.
It's not just her choice. If he's 16, he has instagram, fb, twitter, etc. Hit him up.
 

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It's not just her choice. If he's 16, he has instagram, fb, twitter, etc. Hit him up.

Nah he don't have that, from what I know. His mom done turned really religious, so from what I gather from her is he is really restricted, which is good to a point. All access and have is through her right now. But I'ma take that advice and make an effort. I got avenues, like I said, maybe I can reach out to his Uncle and see what comes from that. I may post a update on this.
 
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