Hardest L you ever had to swallow?

[Rollie Forbes]

Nah he don't have that, from what I know. His mom done turned really religious, so from what I gather from her is he is really restricted, which is good to a point. All access and have is through her right now. But I'ma take that advice and make an effort. I got avenues, like I said, maybe I can reach out to his Uncle and see what comes from that. I may post a update on this.

Good luck, breh.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

not me but this nikka heart gonna be hurting for a long ass time

boy all in his feels over some white twitch streamer girl come to find out she married an didn't tell any one to keep the money flowing now he mad as hell he spent 13,000$ on her

Mod is him an

Amouranth is the chick

this deserves its own thread

you're welcome

 

[Roland Coltrane]

Her actions started changing,her phone would ring late at night, but it would always be a "wrong number". She started going out & staying out late at night. She felt different when we'd have sex, etc.

damn breh

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I talk to his mom on social media, and I've seen pictures of him. I know the school he goes to. Me and his Uncle cool too. Its a long story between me and his mom, I was young and she was married ,and just recently got divorced. So the situation wasn't ideal to begin with. If I was mature back then I wouldn't have let her dictate the situation, I rolled with that and now I feel that regret.

However, I've made subtle innuendos to his mom about us just meeting up, but she really ain't letting it happen.

breh this story sketchy as hell


so if she just got divorced, that means that she's been with her husband this whole time. Does your son think that's his dad?

you need to tell this story no details left out. it can be therapeutic for you, and be a warning to young brehs on thecoli.com

 

[Sylar]

you need to tell this story no details left out. it can be therapeutic for you, and be a warning to young brehs on thecoli.com

THIS!

 

[Keepya onya toes]

Not admitting and taking responsibility for my first child. Breh 16 now, maybe on thecoli.com talking shyt about me and all. I aint never seen breh in real life but twice, once to get dna, and the other on some random shyt. I wish I can take back 16 years. That's a L you can't ever get over. Lil breh don't even know me

Your username and story

 

[poppastoppa]

breh this story sketchy as hell


so if she just got divorced, that means that she's been with her husband this whole time. Does your son think that's his dad?

you need to tell this story no details left out. it can be therapeutic for you, and be a warning to young brehs on thecoli.com

I met her before she got married and dealt with her basically off and on. I literally wasn't shyt at the time. She is 5 years older than me with another child from a previous relationship, I guess she wanted to settle down or find someone to take care of her, she was still living with her parents, so she basically married this dude named Chris. Even after they was married I still would creep over during the day when he was gone. Granted I knew dude and he knew me, but he thought we had this little brother big sister relationship, so he never question me. I can't say he didn't say a thing to her, but if he did she never told me.

So this go on for a couple months, she one day told me she thought she was pregnant. Me being a little bytch at the time, I ghosted on her. Dodging her and all. December 13 she somehow got my work number, I was working a second shift job. I get on the phone, and she says "This is N, I'm calling u to let you know you just had a son, his name is Z, he is 6 lbs 8oz. Chris is going to be his father and I just wanted you to know." Me not wanting that responsibility I was like cool. However she did want me to get a DNA test. Got that done and that was one of the two times I saw him. Results 99.9999998 some shyt like that.

Fast fowad years, I don't know how many but Z was in elementary. N and Chris divorced. I have no clue what they divorced about. Don't wanna know.

That's the story.

Edit: I said they divorced recently in a previous post but it's been a while. I guess typing this shows how time can fly

 

[cleanface coney]

recently blew all type of money on a fixer upper i had to let go

 

[Truefan31]

I met her before she got married and dealt with her basically off and on. I literally wasn't shyt at the time. She is 5 years older than me with another child from a previous relationship, I guess she wanted to settle down or find someone to take care of her, she was still living with her parents, so she basically married this dude named Chris. Even after they was married I still would creep over during the day when he was gone. Granted I knew dude and he knew me, but he thought we had this little brother big sister relationship, so he never question me. I can't say he didn't say a thing to her, but if he did she never told me.

So this go on for a couple months, she one day told me she thought she was pregnant. Me being a little bytch at the time, I ghosted on her. Dodging her and all. December 13 she somehow got my work number, I was working a second shift job. I get on the phone, and she says "This is N, I'm calling u to let you know you just had a son, his name is Z, he is 6 lbs 8oz. Chris is going to be his father and I just wanted you to know." Me not wanting that responsibility I was like cool. However she did want me to get a DNA test. Got that done and that was one of the two times I saw him. Results 99.9999998 some shyt like that.

Fast fowad years, I don't know how many but Z was in elementary. N and Chris divorced. I have no clue what they divorced about. Don't wanna know.

That's the story.

obv up to you breh but it's never too late to at least get to know him

 

[poppastoppa]

obv up to you breh but it's never too late to at least get to know him

Yep. This weekend I'm going to holLA at his uncle and see was up. Like I said earlier we cool so..

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I met her before she got married and dealt with her basically off and on. I literally wasn't shyt at the time. She is 5 years older than me with another child from a previous relationship, I guess she wanted to settle down or find someone to take care of her, she was still living with her parents, so she basically married this dude named Chris. Even after they was married I still would creep over during the day when he was gone. Granted I knew dude and he knew me, but he thought we had this little brother big sister relationship, so he never question me. I can't say he didn't say a thing to her, but if he did she never told me.

So this go on for a couple months, she one day told me she thought she was pregnant. Me being a little bytch at the time, I ghosted on her. Dodging her and all. December 13 she somehow got my work number, I was working a second shift job. I get on the phone, and she says "This is N, I'm calling u to let you know you just had a son, his name is Z, he is 6 lbs 8oz. Chris is going to be his father and I just wanted you to know." Me not wanting that responsibility I was like cool. However she did want me to get a DNA test. Got that done and that was one of the two times I saw him. Results 99.9999998 some shyt like that.

Fast fowad years, I don't know how many but Z was in elementary. N and Chris divorced. I have no clue what they divorced about. Don't wanna know.

That's the story.

Edit: I said they divorced recently in a previous post but it's been a while. I guess typing this shows how time can fly

wow breh, appreciate you dropping that story. This is the no judgment zone. I too have been in situations where it was a chic that i wanted and we had something before, and she got with somebody else and got married, but that doesn't always change the way you feel about her....... or the way she feel about you



so he really thinks that that was his dad.... wow. breh, I don't envy you on this one. There is no easy way to go about being in your son's life. Honestly if this situation was me, I wouldn't know WHAT to do.

do you let it ride? or do you man up and step up and tell your son what's what and try to be there for him?

at the end of the day, he's your son... so I hope you make that move and be in his life... I think you would feel better for it too. Not saying it's gonna be easy tho...

 

[Lifejennings]

I met her before she got married and dealt with her basically off and on. I literally wasn't shyt at the time. She is 5 years older than me with another child from a previous relationship, I guess she wanted to settle down or find someone to take care of her, she was still living with her parents, so she basically married this dude named Chris. Even after they was married I still would creep over during the day when he was gone. Granted I knew dude and he knew me, but he thought we had this little brother big sister relationship, so he never question me. I can't say he didn't say a thing to her, but if he did she never told me.

So this go on for a couple months, she one day told me she thought she was pregnant. Me being a little bytch at the time, I ghosted on her. Dodging her and all. December 13 she somehow got my work number, I was working a second shift job. I get on the phone, and she says "This is N, I'm calling u to let you know you just had a son, his name is Z, he is 6 lbs 8oz. Chris is going to be his father and I just wanted you to know." Me not wanting that responsibility I was like cool. However she did want me to get a DNA test. Got that done and that was one of the two times I saw him. Results 99.9999998 some shyt like that.

Fast fowad years, I don't know how many but Z was in elementary. N and Chris divorced. I have no clue what they divorced about. Don't wanna know.

That's the story.

Edit: I said they divorced recently in a previous post but it's been a while. I guess typing this shows how time can fly

Go see your son. There are no excuses. The greatest bond children have is with their parents. Don't deprive him of that.

 

[FeloniousMonk]

Losing the promotions account to one of the greatest record labels of all time.

Not using my inside resources or connections I gained from said industry to further my own business.

 

[UWasntThere]

The chances of pregnancy from a one time encounter is less than 1% and a large fraction of the pregnancies that would occur will end in a miscarriage before they are detected.

You have horrible luck.

Word? Makes me feel a lot better about going up in all these hoes raw

 

[poppastoppa]

wow breh, appreciate you dropping that story. This is the no judgment zone. I too have been in situations where it was a chic that i wanted and we had something before, and she got with somebody else and got married, but that doesn't always change the way you feel about her....... or the way she feel about you



so he really thinks that that was his dad.... wow. breh, I don't envy you on this one. There is no easy way to go about being in your son's life. Honestly if this situation was me, I wouldn't know WHAT to do.

do you let it ride? or do you man up and step up and tell your son what's what and try to be there for him?

at the end of the day, he's your son... so I hope you make that move and be in his life... I think you would feel better for it too. Not saying it's gonna be easy tho...

Yeah, I really don't know what he knows and what he has been told. I believe that he thinks Chris is his bio father, and I think Chris think he is the father still. It's a bad situation, but I let it get like this.

When i told moms, she wanted to bust up at the kid school and stuff and make a proclamation on stuff. I was like relax mama, you can't do all that.