Has a woman ever given you consent?

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  • Yes

    Votes: 22 50.0%
  • No

    Votes: 22 50.0%

  • Total voters
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Yes consent to have and to hold in sickness and in health till death do us part, friend.

Premarital sex problems
Unwed problems

Maybe it's time to say I do like yes, friends.
Yes friend we need to take the leap like dive.
 

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Near horror story from college:

So there was a girl I worked with in college. We got along well and had chemistry but never hung out away form work. One day she mentioned a party she was going to and wanted me to go. I declined, but we agreed to meet up later that night.

So I'm hanging out in my dorm all night and finally get a call from her. She is drunk and wants to come over. I agree, and she comes to my dorm. We start making out and shyt and she starts to take my clothes off.

I told her no, she was drunk and I wasn't. She kept going at it, I told her no multiple times. Finally, I gave in because I'm just a damn human being and when you have a girl trying to fukk you, at some point evolution kicks in.

So now we are naked but she is visibly nervous as I get ready to penetrate. I go inside of her maybe an inch...barely even penetrating, and I see the look on her face and I stop. I tell her that something is wrong and I can't do it. She is drunk and its not right. So I pull out and put my clothes back on. She stayed in my room and we went to sleep.

She wakes up the next morning claiming she had no idea what happened last night. I told her what happened, and she confesses that she is a virgin. She then tells me, "don't worry, I'm not going to press charges":francis:

This was like 11 years ago before the college "rape culture" and informed consent really became something that I thought about. I penetrated her 1 time, literally just the tip, and if it would have been someone else I easily could have been labeled a rapist

Scary as fukk to think back on. I would never get myself into that situation now, but back then I was just a young horny kid that didn't know any better. I had drunken sex all the time.
:damn::damn::damn:
The fukk you mean you aint gonna press charges, we wasnt havin that conversation :damn:
 

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That can mean anything. That's actually really vague. She could mean on an emotional level. A spiritual connection or something.
and just cause she wants something doesnt mean she intends to do it.

i want to eat pizza for dinner...but I should eat something healthy. Thus, if somebody were to bring me a pizza that doesnt mean I gotta eat it.
 
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1). STOP fukking with white women. All of these wonderful Pawgs y'all like to chase wouldn't hesitate to throw you UNDER the jail for false rape charges and go about their lives as if it never happened. I could link over a dozen examples of white bytches catching black boys/men up on false tape charges for a variety of different reasons. And ALL of these stories end with the black man's life being essentially ruined.

2). STOP running trains on girls/women of ANY race. I never got the appeal of group sex. I never got the appeal of the "it ain't fun if the homies can't have none" mantra. Any woman who isn't a paid prostitute who would participate in a large number of men continually pounding her out in a fukking line isn't mentally stable. This sub-culture is dangerous, demeaning, and disgusting. Any and all women should feel absolutely useless to society after having been subjected to such sexual deviancy. On top of that, many men like to brag publicly about these types of exploits, further shaming the woman. She'll cry rape to save her reputation and again, it'll be the men's lives who are ruined.


3). Severely limit the number of drunken one night stands you participate in. Look we all know shyt happens and one bight stands are common in our society. Especially amongst college youth. What's essential is that we teach our young black men that all drunken sexual encounters are not equal. There is indeed an impairment of judgement that comes with drinking. Bad out young black males should be taught the "levels" of impairment. If a woman is barely talking/walking and looks minutes from passing out, she can't give consent whatsoever. If a woman is "tipsy" and flirting heavily, it doesn't matter how flirtatious or "down" she seems to be, a question of consent should be asked. Doesn't matter if it makes you look corny or whatever. I'm going to teach my future son that a moment of corniness is worth a lifetime of being a registered sex offender.
 

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1). STOP fukking with white women. All of these wonderful Pawgs y'all like to chase wouldn't hesitate to throw you UNDER the jail for false rape charges and go about their lives as if it never happened. I could link over a dozen examples of white bytches catching black boys/men up on false tape charges for a variety of different reasons. And ALL of these stories end with the black man's life being essentially ruined.

2). STOP running trains on girls/women of ANY race. I never got the appeal of group sex. I never got the appeal of the "it ain't fun if the homies can't have none" mantra. Any woman who isn't a paid prostitute who would participate in a large number of men continually pounding her out in a fukking line isn't mentally stable. This sub-culture is dangerous, demeaning, and disgusting. Any and all women should feel absolutely useless to society after having been subjected to such sexual deviancy. On top of that, many men like to brag publicly about these types of exploits, further shaming the woman. She'll cry rape to save her reputation and again, it'll be the men's lives who are ruined.


3). Severely limit the number of drunken one night stands you participate in. Look we all know shyt happens and one bight stands are common in our society. Especially amongst college youth. What's essential is that we teach our young black men that all drunken sexual encounters are not equal. There is indeed an impairment of judgement that comes with drinking. Bad out young black males should be taught the "levels" of impairment. If a woman is barely talking/walking and looks minutes from passing out, she can't give consent whatsoever. If a woman is "tipsy" and flirting heavily, it doesn't matter how flirtatious or "down" she seems to be, a question of consent should be asked. Doesn't matter if it makes you look corny or whatever. I'm going to teach my future son that a moment of corniness is worth a lifetime of being a registered sex offender.
It has nothing to do with the color of that woman or be honest. Look at the football player, I forget his name. Black man, falsely accused of race by black woman. Goes to jail. It can happen to anyone. At anytime.
 

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yes too many times, to smack their ass, or take them to my house to pick them up cave man style and take them to the Maxwell concert
 

Larry Lambo

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As long as you avoid shady type situations you should be ok, but you never know.

I've never gotten consent on the first time. It just happens, we get in the bed, we start fooling around, and next thing you know....
 
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