Has anyone ever had a solitude period? EDIT: Seeing results already

[bucks3115]

i do
the only diff is that i drink alot now that i'm alone

broke up , cut off alot friends , my real friends went back to africa

its been 3 weeks they ddnt call me back for a job

shyt is real

i do nt live in USA

 

[Soundwave]

I am kind of doing that now since I moved

I'm trying to stay low key until I get established

 

[-deleted-]

It’s good to know that there are others on the same wave.

 

[Passaro]

ever have a moment in life where you cut mostly everyone off to get your shyt together? Been having to ignore friends and women completely as of late because I’m not living to my full potential.

Absolutely, like others said it's a necessary step to any growth. The same way the caterpillar stops crawling to hop in that coc00n. Typically, I enter deep phases where I start introspecting and almost doing like a performance evaluation. Did I get closer or lose sight of my goals? Did I sway to distractions? My behavior and things I said over the last few months. Did I regress or progress as a person?

During that phase I'm off the map. Like-minded friends who I know are on a path of growth are the only people I let know. Anyone else I essentially ghost since I know I won't keep them around. Long story short, it's a great skill to have as a person. Keep moving forward breh.

 

[Marti]

Everyone should have at least one solitude period in their 20s. My second one was last year and I got so much work done within 3 months

I love and enjoy being alone a lot though so that may be the reason.

I enjoy going out with friends and dating but sometimes for me to get a peace of mind, I cut everyone off.

It helps that I currently live in the middle of no where (suburbs) as well

 

[Jimmy from Linkedin]

From Oct 2016-Dec2017. I really examined what I was thinking about. Thinking about thinking. Dissatisfied with my friends, hating everyone led to the realization that I am actually hating the circumstances I am in, which means I've been hating myself for a minute, to get myself in those circumstances. (Apart of the Great-Art-Is-Manifest-Thru-Suffering type honky nonsense) I am a hater by birth, blood, environment and profession, but the "critique" aspect of the trade of hateration was lost. It was all criticism. I still fall back into self-criticism, I am only human, but now I can lend that same hyper-focused eye to others to help solve problems instead of picking myself apart.

 

[-deleted-]

Everyone should have at least one solitude period in their 20s. My second one was last year and I got so much work done within 3 months

I love and enjoy being alone a lot though so that may be the reason.

I enjoy going out with friends and dating but sometimes for me to get a peace of mind, I cut everyone off.

It helps that I currently live in the middle of no where (suburbs) as well

What made you want to do a second one?

 

[Marti]

What made you want to do a second one?

Came to the realization that I had a bunch of fake people in my inner circle. Removed them and became a lot more focused on the things I wanted to accomplish

 

[semtex]

Past 3.5 years for me

Alone is your default state. If you can’t thrive in that state then

 

[CapitalforCapital]

Life is solitude.

Y’all just shook so y’all feed into the illusion that we’re all in this together.

It’s instinct that kept us alive during pre modernization.

But these days it is extremely unproductive.

However life ends so it doesn’t really matter at the end of the day whether you win or lose

Feed into delusions or not.

However you cannot Change that life really is pretty much pointless beyond survival.

The rest is just bullshyt that doesn’t matter

 

[010101]

i live in solitude

i am a only child it's natural to me

people seek me out though

they call for my space & time

it's up to me to maintain my peace

*

 

[-deleted-]

i live in solitude

i am a only child it's natural to me

people seek me out though

they call for my space & time

it's up to me to maintain my peace

*

And your accepting this helps get you hoes, I’d assume.

We generally agree on the same things

 

[-deleted-]

Life is solitude.

Y’all just shook so y’all feed into the illusion that we’re all in this together.

It’s instinct that kept us alive during pre modernization.

But these days it is extremely unproductive.

However life ends so it doesn’t really matter at the end of the day whether you win or lose

Feed into delusions or not.

However you cannot Change that life really is pretty much pointless beyond survival.

The rest is just bullshyt that doesn’t matter

Well damn

 

[010101]

And your accepting this helps get you hoes, I’d assume.

We generally agree on the same things

women appreciate a change in pace

everything in motion seeks rest

peace is nourishing to the mind

the loves in my life know they can find me out the way

chilling perpetually

*

 

[-deleted-]

Absolutely, like others said it's a necessary step to any growth. The same way the caterpillar stops crawling to hop in that coc00n. Typically, I enter deep phases where I start introspecting and almost doing like a performance evaluation. Did I get closer or lose sight of my goals? Did I sway to distractions? My behavior and things I said over the last few months. Did I regress or progress as a person?

During that phase I'm off the map. Like-minded friends who I know are on a path of growth are the only people I let know. Anyone else I essentially ghost since I know I won't keep them around. Long story short, it's a great skill to have as a person. Keep moving forward breh.

Real shyt. This is exactly what I’m referring to.