Has anyone here gone through a divorce?

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Doesn't matter what you or her did breh. It just files as "irreconcilably broken"...

I was done with my wife/marriage after 7 years :birdman:

So me trying to be smart and for the kids and all stuck out 3 more... them 3 years, I may have stepped out of line. She blames those things for why we ended. BUT everyone else know her bullshyt in the 1st 7 not holding down a job etc, bad with money, gaining weight, racist people in her fam and other reasons is why I was done.

Leave before she can have ammo to slander your name tho, she even told my new woman, shyt about me.

GET A LAWYER breh....
 

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Idiot.

I come from the fulani tribe, and I have no connection to ethopia or Ethopians. Islam is the faith of my people, and before that it was the Pagan religion of Egypt.

Ethopian bible? Yet you quote the king James version. Fukk outta here with that non-sense.

I quote very basic texts that are universal across versions so there is little to misconstrue in regards to the point im making. Why do you resist good. Dont let a divorce alienate you from the power of good, friend. You dont want to be old and bitter. Its a quick path to oblivion.
 

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Doesn't matter what you or her did breh. It just files as "irreconcilably broken"...

I was done with my wife/marriage after 7 years :birdman:

So me trying to be smart and for the kids and all stuck out 3 more... them 3 years, I may have stepped out of line. She blames those things for why we ended. BUT everyone else know her bullshyt in the 1st 7 not holding down a job etc, bad with money, gaining weight, racist people in her fam and other reasons is why I was done.
Leave before she can have ammo to slander your name tho, she even told my new woman, shyt about me.

GET A LAWYER breh....

:what: was ur ex white or hispanic?
 

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Doesn't matter what you or her did breh. It just files as "irreconcilably broken"...

I was done with my wife/marriage after 7 years :birdman:

So me trying to be smart and for the kids and all stuck out 3 more... them 3 years, I may have stepped out of line. She blames those things for why we ended. BUT everyone else know her bullshyt in the 1st 7 not holding down a job etc, bad with money, gaining weight, racist people in her fam and other reasons is why I was done.

Leave before she can have ammo to slander your name tho, she even told my new woman, shyt about me.

GET A LAWYER breh....

U didnt know she couldnt hold down a job/had fat genes/racist people in her fam before yall got married

I dunno mayne.
 

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U didnt know she couldnt hold down a job/had fat genes/racist people in her fam before yall got married

I dunno mayne.

:what: was ur ex white or hispanic?


Got married at 20 breh. Was in a new country and just finished college. I thought it was the next step... She was thick Italain (white), her mom was actually skinny, and her dad was dead (guess she had dads genes). No one warned me on racists in family (I'm from an 85% black country so never dealt with racism, just classism) before moving here. We were in college together so I thought she would land a decent job post graduation. I grew up old-school catholic and at that time thought marriage was the next step.

But thanks for commenting :blindandcool:

Whyd you marry this chick in the first place
She was cute, and we moved in together, and at the time became my best friend. 5 years later and she was "changed" and was another person. 3 years since divorce and I have no clue who she is. We just communicate thru text if it involves the kids. IMO my ex the one I hung with in college, honeymoon stage never existed.
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But this aint about me, just saying I been thru divorce and shyt, but most :hamster: people knew it already
 

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I want to file immediately. It's going to get ugly though. I am scared about a divorce though.

She has major evidence to paint me as a routine adulterer. There have been suspicious Texts, Emails, phone calls, pictures and facebook messages throughout our marriage. She has found all of them. Will I get the book thrown at me? She is going to be scorned by this and will want revenge, so I'm sure she will use it against me. Am I fukked?
Depends. Do you have a home, cars, major assets, children?

...Apparently ever since I moved out, she's been crying every night (I doubt it). A few days ago, she sent my mom a huge edible arrangement plus flowers on my mom's birthday. She's been trying get my mom on her side. It is working actually. My mom has basically took her side. I'm not trying to play these stupid games.
Edible Arrangements bouquet sent to your mom on her birthday? That is A-game shizz-nizzle. You are not dealing with an amateur. Hmm, I wonder if that included chocolate-covered strawberries? That to your mom is like Deer Antler Velvet to Ray Lewis, know what I mean?

...On saturday night I made my marriage status on facebook private. I didn't want to flat out change it because it would go on the news feed. I guess she saw that and called my mom crying...
Uh oh.

...Then my mom calls me and starts yelling at me!
Double uh-oh.

... I haven't even LOOKED at that broad's Facebook page in a month. Is she constantly looking at my page and stalking me?
Probably.

...Getting my mom involved in this crap is beyond the line. If she didn't want this to happen, maybe she should have got implants and cleaned the fukking house once in a while. I'm done with this.
Well, if you don't have any major assets to split, you can have a quick divorce. If you do have assets, you can try to negotiate that outside of a lawyer's office so the lawyers don't cash in on haggle time.
 

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Got married at 20 breh. Was in a new country and just finished college. I thought it was the next step... She was thick Italain (white), her mom was actually skinny, and her dad was dead (guess she had dads genes). No one warned me on racists in family (I'm from an 85% black country so never dealt with racism, just classism) before moving here. We were in college together so I thought she would land a decent job post graduation. I grew up old-school catholic and at that time thought marriage was the next step.

But thanks for commenting :blindandcool:


She was cute, and we moved in together, and at the time became my best friend. 5 years later and she was "changed" and was another person. 3 years since divorce and I have no clue who she is. We just communicate thru text if it involves the kids. IMO my ex the one I hung with in college, honeymoon stage never existed.
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But this aint about me, just saying I been thru divorce and shyt, but most :hamster: people knew it already
Fair enough :ehh:
 

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If you do have assets, you can try to negotiate that outside of a lawyer's office so the lawyers don't cash in on haggle time.

Even if you negotiate it with her alone, expect her to flip flop when you go thru the divorce proceedings. :bryan:

Just get the best lawyer you can afford.
 

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I want to file immediately. It's going to get ugly though. I am scared about a divorce though.

She has major evidence to paint me as a routine adulterer. There have been suspicious Texts, Emails, phone calls, pictures and facebook messages throughout our marriage. She has found all of them. Will I get the book thrown at me? She is going to be scorned by this and will want revenge, so I'm sure she will use it against me. Am I fukked?

Apparently ever since I moved out, she's been crying every night (I doubt it). A few days ago, she sent my mom a huge edible arrangement plus flowers on my mom's birthday. She's been trying get my mom on her side. It is working actually. My mom has basically took her side. I'm not trying to play these stupid games.

On saturday night I made my marriage status on facebook private. I didn't want to flat out change it because it would go on the news feed. I guess she saw that and called my mom crying. Then my mom calls me and starts yelling at me! I haven't even LOOKED at that broad's Facebook page in a month. Is she constantly looking at my page and stalking me?

Getting my mom involved in this crap is beyond the line. If she didn't want this to happen, maybe she should have got implants and cleaned the fukking house once in a while. I'm done with this.

seems that you were not ready for marriage and you have turn off on her

her on the other hands, wants to make it work.

you gotta grow up if the relationship is going to work
 

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OP has history of telling :duck: about his life. I don't think he cheated on his wife or he left her. I'd bet it's the other way around. Just recently he was talking about how much he loves her and crediting her for his acknowledgments. Now it's "I cheated on the broad and she's begging for me back. She should've got implants and cleaned the house." :childplease: She did something to leave him scorned for him to be talking down on her like that all of a sudden.
 

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OP has history of telling :duck: about his life. I don't think he cheated on his wife or he left her. I'd bet it's the other way around. Just recently he was talking about how much he loves her and crediting her for his acknowledgments. Now it's "I cheated on the broad and she's begging for me back." :childplease: She did something to leave him scorned for him to be talking down on her like that all of a sudden.

:whoo: You say a lot of demonic things but this makes a lot of sense. These hurt feelings bringing him to embracing satanic studies now. Hes obviously hurt and in pain and i dont think its because hes tired of his wife. I just think its hard for a woman to stay with a man with such a demonic mind. Then again, wasnt his wife a racist. This whole relationship was doomed from the start. What happens when 2 demons find one another. Something demonic obviously.
 

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OP has history of telling :duck: about his life. I don't think he cheated on his wife or he left her. I'd bet it's the other way around. Just recently he was talking about how much he loves her and crediting her for his acknowledgments. Now it's "I cheated on the broad and she's begging for me back. She should've got implants and cleaned the house." :childplease: She did something to leave him scorned for him to be talking down on her like that all of a sudden.
This was like when Reincar made the thread about women being the root of evil the Monday after the weekend he took that broad on an all expenses paid trip to Niagara Falls Applebees

When you mix half truths with outright lies you wind up telling way more than you intended :sadcam:
 
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