has being pro black hurt your relationship
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JahFocus CS
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I don't associate on anything more than a surface level with people who don't agree with my core values, this being one of them. So no 
No, my family loves black people. My wife too. What's going on over there?
Are you a non-black person?
Nope.
Man my girl was the militant in the relationship when we first got together. She was raised that way and I only got bits of pieces of it from my pops, and really wasn't trying to hear it as a kid. We are on the same level definitely now.
interesting... can you give an example of her militancy?
She hit me with the
when she found out I was Christian (I had never known anyone personally who wasnt Christian besides my Dad)Didn't celebrate any of the Pagan holidays but I kinda messed that up for her on some of them lol
She was the one saying don't trust the government, don't put your money in banks cause the shyt could crash I was like
you gonna get a bank account if you fukking with meShe was on the natural hair wave before it got popular these past couple of years
She was laughing at me for wearing Obama T-shirts in 2008 and getting all hype like it would change my life (which I thought it would)
One time we were in ATL with my friends and my homie was like "yall wanna go see MLK house?" and she was like "
not really now if it was Malcolm X DEFINITELY". I was so ashamed lol, everyone was like There's a lot more but it has been so long ago (2009) that I can't really remember it but yeah she was completely different from any woman I had been with. I know the stuff above isn't exclusive to being pro black but her family was raised that way. I was never c00ning or nothing and I liked information on my people, but she kinda got the ball rolling more for me. I think I'm worse than her now
With Co-workers? Yes, but personally fukk them. 
With some former CACS friends? Yeah, but we weren't that close. I just deleted them off Facebook and chucked up the deuces. I still have one CAC associate, but he hates his own people.
With some former CACS friends? Yeah, but we weren't that close. I just deleted them off Facebook and chucked up the deuces. I still have one CAC associate, but he hates his own people.
She hit me with the
Didn't celebrate any of the Pagan holidays but I kinda messed that up for her on some of them lol
She was the one saying don't trust the government, don't put your money in banks cause the shyt could crash I was like
She was on the natural hair wave before it got popular these past couple of years
She was laughing at me for wearing Obama T-shirts in 2008 and getting all hype like it would change my life (which I thought it would)
One time we were in ATL with my friends and my homie was like "yall wanna go see MLK house?" and she was like "
There's a lot more but it has been so long ago (2009) that I can't really remember it but yeah she was completely different from any woman I had been with. I know the stuff above isn't exclusive to being pro black but her family was raised that way. I was never c00ning or nothing and I liked information on my people, but she kinda got the ball rolling more for me. I think I'm worse than her now
you just happy you aint gotta spend a check on V Day or Christmas
MajorVitaman
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My girl and I are on the same page, she actually puts me on to a lot of knowledge.
Compared to my pops and most of my uncle's I'm actually a lot less "militant". Most of my aunties are less radical but my mom has been putting me on game just like my pops since I was a young bul.
My friends always knew I was radical, before I got off Facebook & iG it used to trip me out how many cac acquaintances would unfriend me when I dropped some ism
Coworkers and class mates I usually just observe to see how much they are on that
stay woke brehs
Compared to my pops and most of my uncle's I'm actually a lot less "militant". Most of my aunties are less radical but my mom has been putting me on game just like my pops since I was a young bul.
My friends always knew I was radical, before I got off Facebook & iG it used to trip me out how many cac acquaintances would unfriend me when I dropped some ism
Coworkers and class mates I usually just observe to see how much they are on that
stay woke brehs