Has Life Hardened You or Softened You Up?

[Mrhateeverything]

Hardened and softened at the same time just in different areas .

 

[360dagod]

Rougher lol...

I can only blame myself tho....

Which is the only way the spirit can begin to heal

The "reliable" and "genuine" are seen as suckers...

So the only community I worry about is me/myself/I...

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

I'VE GOTTEN MUCH SOFTER AS I AGED. I WAS FAIRLY MEAN AND GROUCHY AS A YOUNG ADULT. IM ALWAYS GOOFING OFF AND LAUGHING NOW.

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

Hardened

 

[duckbutta]

Softened me when it comes to my wife and kids...hardened me for everything else...

Thats why I cant even get mad a simps...somebody got to take care of these hoes...it sho won't be me...I could see a bytch on the sidewalk starving and walk by her 7 days a week with big mac sauce dripping down the corner of my mouth and look her straight in the eye like "hate if for you"

A few years ago I went to check my mail and I heard some woman screaming...like a loud ass "HELP" ... I looked and it was two officers arresting some white woman...soon as I saw she was white I was like ...could have straight stomped her to death and I wouldn't have even cared. fukk them crackas...

 

[315]

I'm more compassionate than I used to be

 

[Orbital-Fetus]

I'm mistrustful and rarely go outside.

 

[Grand Cru Boo]

Hardened for sure, but I’m not waking around angry at the world. I can acknowledge that most of my hardships have been on me and I can’t blame anyone but myself. I am soft toward youngins and other brothers/sisters even if they come at me sideways. We all trying to make it in this cruel as place, so I have compassion for that.

Otherwise, kick rocks

 

[Uachet]

My wife told me I am a lot more mellow now. I told her to shut her mouth and finish cooking my dinner.



j/k

 

[inndaskKy]

To all the people who said 'hardened' or who shared gloomy messages, I give you permission to neg me to feel better.

Nay, I challenge you to neg me. Neg this post. You'll feel better. My rep can take it.

No hard feelings. I won't neg back. Treat this post how the world has treated you.

Don't put the negativity back into the real world. Put it in my rep and let it go.

I believe in your ability to feel better.

 

[Dad]

I’ve gotten soft. I caught myself tearing up when I saw this a couple days ago

 

[Ish Gibor]

As I got older life experiences have hardened me, but nowhere near a dark triad sociopath.

 

[Hersh]

hardened. but as a male in my late thirties.. finally maturing emotionally.

 

[Reptile]

Hardened.

 

[Kuma the Bear]

It's made me hard