That's what's so annoying about this thread. Dudes are calling the fella with all those kids a scumbag... but some of these women are still spinning excuses for the women. It's like they still want to be able to deal with these known loser negroes but then have society shame only the man into turning into this loyal guy who owns up responsibility. Shaming is only effective for so long if the person is still being rewarded for their bad actions. It's like giving a dog a treat after it bites you and then trying to tell someone to shame the dog into stop biting. That makes zero sense. If you willingly reward bad behavior, you get what you get.
I feel sorry for the first victims of those nigerian email scams, but when the scam has been exposed all over the media and you hear about it and you willingly choose to lose your money in one of those scams, then no, I don't feel sorry for you. That's called being stupid. If I hear about someone being robbed, I will feel sorry for them. Now if there is an area KNOWN for robbery and you willingly go over there with your jewels and cars knowing that that is a place notorious for robbery, no I don't feel sorry for you. That's called making idiotic choices. If a man sees a woman that has 12 kids by 12 different dudes, and he gives her another one knowing that she has 12 other kids, no I won't feel sorry for him. Problem is some of these women want to still 'sample the goods' and have society feel sympathy for them when they knowingly and willingly walk into idiotic situations. If you knowingly make yourself a victim, don't expect sympathy, don't expect anyone to feel sorry for you... Accept your repercussions.
@kevm3 , those are excellent analogies, breh.
No one in their right mind would feel sorry for anyone who gets caught up in one of those Nigerian email scams after they've been exposed left and right.
Anybody who sees one of those "Nigerian government is preparing to seize my fortune, please let me store in your account temporarily: you will be rewarded!" emails should hit the delete button, immediately. Keeping with the analogy, women would
still open the email, proceed to read and get excited! Then, proceed to give the scam artist unprotected access to their accounts and then blame the crook when they'd already heard about the vicious Nigerian scam artist robbing people blind!
I can guarantee you this dude with 34 kids will have more children after these chicks already know of his track record. It's still not going to stop them from bussing it open for him and letting him go raw.
Men will call this dude scum and a disgrace to the Black community all day. But, women will always find a way to avoid calling other women scum. Those women who laid up with him are scum and a disgrace to the Black community. I don't feel sorry for any of them. I only feel sorry for the taxpayers who have to foot the bill and the Black community which will be impacted by the poor choices of scum men and scum women like this dude and his baby mamas. Statistics show that many of those kids will end up preying on the Black community in the form of rape, robbery, poisoning via drugs, etc. Not to mention many of his daughters becoming scum like their mothers.
@Yup , what would you say about someone who falls for one of those Nigerian email scams in 2014?