Have 34 kids by 17 different women, brehs.

[mamba]

First and foremost, that dude is a fukking dumbass c00n. I can't understand his actions at all.

The women may have been dumb. May have been deceived in some fashion. Or maybe thought that they were going to be "the main bytch". It's probably a combination of all three. Either way....some abortions would have been appropriate in this scenario. Although, I now wonder if some DID get abortions and that begs the question of just how many fukking kids would this guy have had without them?

It also needs to be pointed out that not all of these women may have been black. I've (sadly) seen these scenarios before and there are usually the odd non-black woman thrown in.

Lastly...I think it's unfortunate that our own community will blow us up like this. You've got a black woman on a black OWNed network putting this stuff out there. I don't care if it's real. We need to be tactical. What kind of response are they trying to elicit with this story? What kind of response could they expect outside of "LOL BLACK FATHERHOOD IN A NUTSHELL ****** ****** ******"??? Surprised they didn't air this on father day. She's on there berating him about the fukking dolls...and you wonder why we can't find each other....look at the images of black relationships on tv.

It's more common than you think, breh.

One of my good buddies has 11 kids with several different women. That nikka is only 29. Those are just the kids he's claimed. There's no telling how many children that nikka has floating around outchea. The future of the Black community is in the hands of a bunch of b*stard children.

 

[marcuz]

Yeah fukk bringing him on the show, he had nothing to do with it

he's already been on another show. we know the story. he came from some raggedy single parent home, and he feels the need to stick his dikk in everything that moves because of it.

now when are we going to have a real discussion on the women and why they CHOOSE to sign up for that. i'm interesting in the psyche of the a woman who sees a man with 30 kids, and decides "ohh, i'd like some of that"

 

[ORDER_66]

he's already been on another show. we know the story. he came from some raggedy single parent home, and he feels the need to stick his dikk in everything that moves because of it.

now when are we going to have a real discussion on the women and why they CHOOSE to sign up for that. i'm interesting in the psyche of the a woman who sees a man with 30 kids, and decides "ohh, i'd like some of that"

Next Episode

 

[Orange cream shake]

I wonder how much he pay in child support and what each chick get

 

[Mr.Forte]

Any woman who decides to lay down and open her legs for a man who has 4 or 5 kids let alone 34 is a damn idiot and deserves the worst life has to offer. You won't get any sympathy from me. People with kids by multiple partners should be avoided like the plague when looking for a partner.

 

[PikaDaDon]

Having more than three kids really is too much, unless you're a stay at home parent, or can have them far enough apart. You can't truly adequately parent more than three kids if you also have a career, that's obvious. If you don't really know your kids, their habits, their troubles, their tendencies, or even their friends, than you really are not doing your job fully. And the vast, vast majority of parents who have more than three kids aren't doing their job fully. Its not being a eugenicist, we just don't need to have 10 kids to work on the farm and feed the pigs before they die at 32 from yellow fever or cholera or in childbirth.

I hear what you're saying but even if you're a billionaire you don't really have time to raise that many different kids effectively. At some point you become like a small amount of butter spread over too much toast.

If you desire to have 10+ kids being rich isn't the only factor that should be under consideration (though it's one of the more important ones). Some people don't have the patience for parenting (i.e.: easily gets distressed when a baby cries or when a kid refuses to eat something). Some people don't have the personality for it (i.e.: too much of a narcissist to care for others). Some people don't have the life style for it (i.e.: always working not enough free time).

So it depends on other factors as well. If I were a rich person living off my investments (and not working a 9 to 5) and had alot of free time I'd have no problems raising 10+ kids. But if you're a rich person who's always working then no way you can do it.

Thing is rich people are smart enough to not have so many children

I don't like this sort of thinking. Seems like you're implying having many children is a stupid thing. It is if your life isn't in order and you aren't fit for parenting. I think a large family can work if you have the patience, wealth, and time for it. The concept itself isn't inherently stupid/wrong.

 

[cyndaquil]

This nikka never heard of a condom lol

 

[Liquid]

If you desire to have 10+ kids being rich isn't the only factor that should be under consideration (though it's one of the more important ones). Some people don't have the patience for parenting (i.e.: easily gets distressed when a baby cries or when a kid refuses to eat something). Some people don't have the personality for it (i.e.: too much of a narcissist to care for others). Some people don't have the life style for it (i.e.: always working not enough free time).

So it depends on other factors as well. If I were a rich person living off my investments (and not working a 9 to 5) and had alot of free time I'd have no problems raising 10+ kids. But if you're a rich person who's always working then no way you can do it.



I don't like this sort of thinking. Seems like you're implying having many children is a stupid thing. It it if your life isn't in order and you aren't fit for parenting. I think a large family can work if you have the patience, wealth, and time for it. The concept itself isn't inherently stupid/wrong.

Yeah, problem is the larger the litter the less time you have for each kid individually. That in itself can be extremely harmful to the development of a child.

 

[DemureNatural]

I hear what you're saying but even if you're a billionaire you don't really have time to raise that many different kids effectively. At some point you become like a small amount of butter spread over too much toast.

No one has enough money, time, or love to procreate as recklessly as this man has.

I've always thought birth control was a more wise decision for men then women...a woman can only be pregnant once every 9 months...and man can get a woman pregnant as many times as he can ejaculate (assuming he's healthy). I don't understand why more men don't advocate to protect their seeds. Having many children is the easiest way for a man to end up on the poor house.

 

[Yup]

he's already been on another show. we know the story. he came from some raggedy single parent home, and he feels the need to stick his dikk in everything that moves because of it.

now when are we going to have a real discussion on the women and why they CHOOSE to sign up for that. i'm interesting in the psyche of the a woman who sees a man with 30 kids, and decides "ohh, i'd like some of that"

I agree but are we assuming that all these women know of these other kids?

 

[Yup]

Any woman who decides to lay down and open her legs for a man who has 4 or 5 kids let alone 34 is a damn idiot and deserves the worst life has to offer. You won't get any sympathy from me. People with kids by multiple partners should be avoided like the plague when looking for a partner.

No woman deserves the worse life...but they do need to be accountable. However the man is a traveling video producer do all the women live in the same vicinity and we are going to act like man cannot live as a single man even if he has bunch of kids?

 

[NobodyReally]

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/...williams-father-of-34-children_n_5768680.html


Jay Williams is a successful video producer in Atlanta who has worked with some of the music industry's top talents. He has certainly excelled professionally, but his personal life is a different story.

In a revealing letter written to spiritual and relationship expert Iyanla Vanzant, Williams said he has fathered 34 biological children with 17 different women. His oldest daughter is 26 and his youngest is 3; Williams says his relationships with his children range from excellent to non-existent. To help him fulfill his role as a father and begin to put the pieces of his personal life back together, Iyanla travels to Atlanta for a no-holds-barred conversation on "Iyanla: Fix My Life."

The first thing Iyanla does is confront Williams with a physical representation of his responsibility by bringing him 34 dolls. She asks Williams to hold as many dolls as he can, to feel the weight of what he's created. He can only hold 14.


"Let me ask you this question, Jay. Thirty-four children. At any point, did it dawn on you [that] this is too much?" Iyanla asks.

"No," Williams answers evenly.

When Iyanla asks Williams about using protection during sex, he insists that he did. "I probably would have 200 kids if I didn't use condoms," he says.

Williams says he never considered getting a vasectomy, either. "I don't want one," he explains, still holding the 14 dolls. "I don't have a problem with what I created."

As Iyanla continues to question him about his choices, Williams appears frustrated and decides to place each one on the dolls on the chair next to him. "I'm tired of holding the dolls," he tells Iyanla.

One by one, she hands each doll right back to him.

"I'm sorry, as a mom, I don't get not to take care of my children, no matter what I'm thinking or feeling," Iyanla says to Williams. "I didn't get to just put them down because it was inconvenient."

Iyanla's work with Jay Williams begins in the first of a three-part "Iyanla: Fix My Life," Saturday, Sept. 6, at 9 p.m. ET on OWN.



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A buddy of mine has 13 or 14. He lives with 10 of them.

 

[Yup]

No one has enough money, time, or love to procreate as recklessly as this man has.

I've always thought birth control was a more wise decision for men then women...a woman can only be pregnant once every 9 months...and man can get a woman pregnant as many times as he can ejaculate (assuming he's healthy). I don't understand why more men don't advocate to protect their seeds. Having many children is the easiest way for a man to end up on the poor house.

Because some men prefer blaming women instead of taking responsibility for their actions.

 

[mamba]

I agree but are we assuming that all these women know of these other kids?

Why are those women bringing children into this world with a man they're not married to, brehette? Why are they having unprotected sex with a man they're not married to, brehette?

He could have given all of them HIV, Herpes, etc. This dude is bottom-of-my-shoe scum, but these women have to be retarded.

 

[Yup]

Why are those women bringing children into this world with a man they're not married to, brehette?

Could be for the same reason men don't believe in marriage. They don't believe in a piece of paper to define their relationship.
All we know is this men has 34 kids...we know nothing of the relationships he has had with all these women.