Have any of yall moved to a new city without having a job?

[NotaPAWG]

Yup.

I actually moved down to Florida without even having a license at 25 (I was scared to drive for a really long time due to awful anxiety that developed after a bad car accident) and like 150 bucks to my name. But I had someone to live with.

I got a job pretty much the same week I moved down there close enough in walking distance, walked to work everyday. Then I found a new job because I needed more hoirs & would bike back and forth to work every single day, 3 1/2 miles there and back for a few months in the sweltering heat. Saved up enough money and bought a car. and dipped out that job when I got offered like 15 bucks an hour to dog walk for a customer, 4 hours a day split up in the morning & nights 7 days a week. Did that and worked at a Gym.

 

[FukYaFeelings]

I got home sick for no reason.
shyt happens for a reason though because when I came back I got serious with what is now my wife, we have a son,and we're doing good. Had I stayed in Dallas I would probably be better off financially because people in Dallas move a little more solid than people in Atlanta but I wouldn't have my family so I'm happy with the decision.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Both too young
She was clingy
She lied about her last relationship( still in love with ole boy)
Reality of being with a black guy( she was Taiwanese) set in
She helped me a lot and I'll never talk bad about her but maybe next life time..

You met her online? How old were you? My girl is 33 and shes italian. Shes part of my motivation to move there but what you say makes me nervous.

 

[MWinn]

Moved from Houston back to The City for love
shyt blew up in my face, had to get out of there before I caught a case
Never move for love...
Just grind and make connections(play your part and become friendly with people) that truly will open doors for you.
Looking to move back to Cali within a year or two...

What did she do to you?

 

[Warren Moon]

Yep cam to Atlanta with no money and no idea what I was doing. Hussled my ass off

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

You met her online? How old were you? My girl is 33 and shes italian. Shes part of my motivation to move there but what you say makes me nervous.

Yeah(when meeting people online was taboo
She was a good person but I think reality hit her once I moved there.
My mom told me what's up but I didn't listen.
It's a case by case thing but if you do it, make sure you are on your grind and making your own moves.
I will never put myself in the position I did with her.
What I mean by that is a woman will hold you down for a certain amount of time(as far as money) but that will shortly expire especially if she is the type to tell her girlfriends everything.
That's the only problem I have with my girl now. I over compensate and im a workaholic because I will never depend on a woman for my existence.
I'm trying to change but that demon hunts me

 

[2CT]

i did once to San Diego and the struggle was real but that was a top 3 city to move to if you gonna do something like that

i'd recommend to not even do it unless you have some funds in the bank and a support system in case shyt goes haywire

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

I'd be way too scared to do sumthin like that I'd have to have no other options

 

[YaFingerDealMe]

I think about it everyday, came close to just driving off earlier this year, I just don't know where to go

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Yeah(when meeting people online was taboo
She was a good person but I think reality hit her once I moved there.
My mom told me what's up but I didn't listen.
It's a case by case thing but if you do it, make sure you are on your grind and making your own moves.
I will never put myself in the position I did with her.
What I mean by that is a woman will hold you down for a certain amount of time(as far as money) but that will shortly expire especially if she is the type to tell her girlfriends everything.
That's the only problem I have with my girl now. I over compensate and im a workaholic because I will never depend on a woman for my existence.
I'm trying to change but that demon hunts me

Oh no see my girl now will not be paying for shyt for me. Incan understand why u feel that way. When i move there i will be getting my own place right away...like moving into my own place, not sharing with her before inget my own. I think ill have to save up around 6 grand to cover me for at least 4 months.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Oh no see my girl now will not be paying for shyt for me. Incan understand why u feel that way. When i move there i will be getting my own place right away...like moving into my own place, not sharing with her before inget my own. I think ill have to save up around 6 grand to cover me for at least 4 months.

If I could do it again, that would be the way I would do it.
The girl im with now, if I move, it would be different this time.
As long as you have a plan.
Also don't give up if it gets too tough.
That's the only regret I have.
Proving I could do it on my own.

 

[audemarzz]

I'm planning to move to Texas I got no money no fam just me . . I'm nervous about it but I can't stay were I'm at any longer

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

If I could do it again, that would be the way I would do it.
The girl im with now, if I move, it would be different this time.
As long as you have a plan.
Also don't give up if it gets too tough.
That's the only regret I have.
Proving I could do it on my own.

You regret giving up on her?

 

[TRY GOD]

Just moved to ATL a couple months ago...

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

You regret giving up on her?

When I'm alone, I think we just needed a fresh start.
Sometimes I think if I told her to move out back with her parents and I took over the rent and we just dated and got to know each other better
But the girl im with now is very special and rare.
And instantly those thoughts disappear.
As cliche as it may sound
"People are seasons/lessons"