Have u ever been married

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32 and nah, it's time to let this thing go.
Yeah just got out of a 7 year relationship for the same reason but the dating world is on some other shyt now. Are you not scared?

Luckily I never married her or had any kids. Did people not tell you at the time how dumb it was to get married at 19?
 

Ashley Banks

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I’m married now. I married him cos I wanted to hump him :mjgrin:

Seriously though, we get along really well. Like it seems like I’m nevern mad at him and he’s never mad at me, the last time we argued was like the end of last year because I didn’t want an epidural and he thought I should get one. I ended up getting one lol.

We’re going on 4 years and have one child and another on the way and he’s such a good dad like it came naturally to him. He’s very hands on, he always gets up in the middle of the night to feed him if he cries. He’s always holding him. I think seeing how good he is with our son makes me love him so much more if that was even possible.

We went through premarital counseling before we got married and one thing our counselor told us was that we both have to give 100% at least 90% of the time, not the 50/50 that everyone thinks they should give. He said that of course we’ll go through times where we don’t feel like it or we just can’t but we should make it our daily goal to give the marriage all we can if we want it to last.

I think what makes it easy to give him 100% (outside of him being bad af :wow:) is I love his personality/character. He’s always so sweet to people, always does the right thing, he’s always concerned with how things will make me feel, if I’m upset about something he won’t leave me alone until I tell him. Etc so it’s just easy for me to always want to make him happy because he does the same for me.
 
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