Have u ever been married

NoMoreWhiteWoman2020

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32 and nah, it's time to let this thing go.
I got married when I was 20 and I’m done with it too. Just find a rich jump off and vacation with her, fukk all that get half of my property shyt and prenups. I wouldn’t mind having more children but I don’t want to get married again until I’m older and done beenin a relationship for 15-20 years
 

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I wouldn't be a good husband. I got things in my life that prevents me from being a decent human being and until I find that peace I am not dragging no one into my shyt. I don't plan on having kids with randoms and even if I do find a woman who I may love and fits the profile, if my shyt isn't in order I would rather have her walk than drag her into my shyt, I'm perfectly fine with that. I don't believe in divorce nor do I want to play those games accompanied with that. nikkas get married just to divorce in 5-7 years, I'm way too young to have that type of disruption in my life in my 30s. When I hit my 50s then we talking a different perspective. Kids aren't my priority so lines are drawn in the sand very clear so women who I date in their late 20s and 30s know what time it is.
 

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I’m married now. I married him cos I wanted to hump him :mjgrin:

Seriously though, we get along really well. Like it seems like I’m nevern mad at him and he’s never mad at me, the last time we argued was like the end of last year because I didn’t want an epidural and he thought I should get one. I ended up getting one lol.

We’re going on 4 years and have one child and another on the way and he’s such a good dad like it came naturally to him. He’s very hands on, he always gets up in the middle of the night to feed him if he cries. He’s always holding him. I think seeing how good he is with our son makes me love him so much more if that was even possible.

We went through premarital counseling before we got married and one thing our counselor told us was that we both have to give 100% at least 90% of the time, not the 50/50 that everyone thinks they should give. He said that of course we’ll go through times where we don’t feel like it or we just can’t but we should make it our daily goal to give the marriage all we can if we want it to last.

I think what makes it easy to give him 100% (outside of him being bad af :wow:) is I love his personality/character. He’s always so sweet to people, always does the right thing, he’s always concerned with how things will make me feel, if I’m upset about something he won’t leave me alone until I tell him. Etc so it’s just easy for me to always want to make him happy because he does the same for me.

Sounds good, props to yall :salute:

@topic: no, Im not the type for serious relationships, And I also just turned 21 :russ:
 

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I’m married now. I married him cos I wanted to hump him :mjgrin:

Seriously though, we get along really well. Like it seems like I’m nevern mad at him and he’s never mad at me, the last time we argued was like the end of last year because I didn’t want an epidural and he thought I should get one. I ended up getting one lol.

We’re going on 4 years and have one child and another on the way and he’s such a good dad like it came naturally to him. He’s very hands on, he always gets up in the middle of the night to feed him if he cries. He’s always holding him. I think seeing how good he is with our son makes me love him so much more if that was even possible.

We went through premarital counseling before we got married and one thing our counselor told us was that we both have to give 100% at least 90% of the time, not the 50/50 that everyone thinks they should give. He said that of course we’ll go through times where we don’t feel like it or we just can’t but we should make it our daily goal to give the marriage all we can if we want it to last.

I think what makes it easy to give him 100% (outside of him being bad af :wow:) is I love his personality/character. He’s always so sweet to people, always does the right thing, he’s always concerned with how things will make me feel, if I’m upset about something he won’t leave me alone until I tell him. Etc so it’s just easy for me to always want to make him happy because he does the same for me.

You annoying as shyt on these boards

But dude is lucky.
 

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You annoying as shyt on these boards

But dude is lucky.

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:francis: @ people getting married and ending the relationship because they fell out of love or got bored after over a decade

I'm open to spending the rest of my life with one woman and it sounds amazing but knowing fukkery like that can happen is what cause me to feel like I'm not completely missing out.
 
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