I have, got out of it and thought it was one way, but it's the other way... 

Yup...didn't work out, but it made me a better person and future husband. Still not perfect but willing to work and give it all that I have.
I think this one is a MUCH better fit and style for me.
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What did you see in this chick to marry her?It's a crazy story...long story less long, chick was still in love with her ex. I fell back and separated and moved to Chicago. We tried to reconcile, but distance and time will ruin any relationship. Shorty started physically assaulting me when we met up. I gripped her up on one of these occasions. She called the police on me and had me arrested. She dropped the charges ultimately. I divorced her shortly afterwards.
Been a relationship for 3 years , taking it slow , marriage isn’t even on the radar yet
What did you see in this chick to marry her?
We’re are serious I’m saying saying taking it slow as far as marriage goesI couldn’t imagine being with a guy for 3 years and he still refers to our relationship as taking it slowpoor girl maybe after 6 years you guys will finally be serious.
When the time is right, go on back home to the SC and GA low country and get you a woman. I remember you said you had fam in the areaI wouldn't be a good husband. I got things in my life that prevents me from being a decent human being and until I find that peace I am not dragging no one into my shyt. I don't plan on having kids with randoms and even if I do find a woman who I may love and fits the profile, if my shyt isn't in order I would rather have her walk than drag her into my shyt, I'm perfectly fine with that. I don't believe in divorce nor do I want to play those games accompanied with that. nikkas get married just to divorce in 5-7 years, I'm way too young to have that type of disruption in my life in my 30s. When I hit my 50s then we talking a different perspective. Kids aren't my priority so lines are drawn in the sand very clear so women who I date in their late 20s and 30s know what time it is.