Have u ever cry in front of your s/o , what happened after that ?

[TEH]

This thread has some dumb ass responses. If you got someone you consider a S/O and you can't cry in front of them it's a BIG red flag. And before someone tries to twist this I do mean REASONABLY CRY, not you shedding tears cuz your team got eliminated from the playoffs.

"Research has found that in addition to being self-soothing, shedding emotional tears releases oxytocin and endorphins. These chemicals make people feel good and may also ease both physical and emotional pain. In this way, crying can help reduce pain and promote a sense of well-being."

It's lots of research on this, google it.

When faced with close family members passing or traumatic life experiences, of course my wife saw me cry and I see her cry. I look at her as the human she is and vice versa. If you can't cry in front of your S/O without feeling shame how can that person be "significant" in your life? And this is coming from a person who has had to learn over the years that shedding a tear around your folks can actually bring you all closer....assuming they are "significant". Yall need to get away from these emotionally immature people, especially if you trying to choose them as a life partner.

How many hoes does google have???

You listening to someone with no hoes????

 

[Dave24]

Every experience in this thread strengthens the case against marriage/relationships, if you can't cry in front of your woman and be emotional under any circumstance the whole thing is pointless imo outside of children. Only time I've seen heard of my day crying is when his mother passed but I was too young to have the visual memory saved but my I know he just carries things that bother him emotionally and works through them with being more stern then he needed to be snapping. shyt ain't healthy and in my adulthood he's better at verbally expressing sentiments but man, I can't live like that. I when overwhelmed quietly, eyes waters, a fluctuating stream on either eye, but never audible and never continuous. I guess I picked it up from my dad subconsciously that it's bad to do so in front of others. But if I'm ever moved to tears and cry in front of other person I'll beat them to near death with my bare hands if they got something smart to say about it. There's a reason I've tried to stay away from weapons/firearms. When I get in a deep enough anger I'm vindictive to point where death pulling up doesn't bother me. I don't love life anyway. I always say show respect and mind ya business, because you never know when you'll come across someone looking for any reason to inflict pain and destruction.

In short in the words of Black Rob: "Can I live? or do I gotta bring it to these kids? Can I live? If I don't live nobody live"

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[Jean Jacket]

There is a difference between shedding a tear of joy or intense pain...and sobbing like a bytch.

Never cry in a state of disarray in front of a woman that you are leading.

They are wired to lose confidence in you and take up the lead subconsciously.

In my opinion...it is disrespectful and weak to cry like a child in front of a woman that relies on you.

Talk to her. Express yourself.

Cry to a therapist. Handle your emotions. Don't let them handle you.

 

[Dave24]

There is a difference between shedding a tear of joy or intense pain...and sobbing like a bytch.

Never cry in a state of disarray in front of a woman that you are leading.

They are wired to lose confidence in you and take up the lead subconsciously.

In my opinion...it is disrespectful and weak to cry like a child in front of a woman that relies on you.

Talk to her. Express yourself.

Cry to a therapist. Handle your emotions. Don't let them handle you.

What if the woman "leads" the relationship, is it ok to cry in front of her?

 

[Realm-Breaker]

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so depressing!

 

[Jean Jacket]

What if the woman "leads" the relationship, is it ok to cry in front of her?

If you're that type of man... go for it.

 

[Dave24]

If you're that type of man... go for it.

Never been in a relationship thus far

 

[Jean Jacket]

Another thing...if you cry over some bullshyt in front if your woman...if she really loves you she'll try to push you in the right direction so you'll stop breaking down.

Take the L and fix it. Don't go crying again about the same shyt again. That's when she loses respect for you.

Men cry, its normal. Time and place.

 

[Jean Jacket]

 

[Realm-Breaker]

What if the woman "leads" the relationship, is it ok to cry in front of her?

no! don't do it! only do it if a close relative dies!

 

[Rembrandt]

A few times across a few girlfriends. It felt great actually. That type of comforting, understanding and thoughtfulness is rare outside of familial relationships. Knowing you don't have that natural intrinsic tie but one that has grown with what used to be a stranger hits very very differently

 

[Elim Garak]

Do not do this shyt. I know I sound toxic but do not do it lol.

 

[humminbird]

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sounds like depression babble you shouldn't be against relationships based on internet stories . you can only really learn from experience and family

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Do not do this shyt. I know I sound toxic but do not do it lol.

Sounds like you have a story, breh.

 

[Elim Garak]

Sounds like you have a story, breh.

Nope not a personal one but I've seen enough in my relationships and other to know not to do it.