Have You Been In Love More Than Once?

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If so, how was it the 2nd time around. Was it as strong as the first?

(I'm talking about with a different person just to be clear)

How long did it take you to get over the first person? Were you over your first love before you met your second or after?

Do you ever compare them to eachother?
 

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If so, how was it the 2nd time around. Was it as strong as the first?

(I'm talking about with a different person just to be clear)

How long did it take you to get over the first person? Were you over your first love before you met your second or after?

Do you ever compare them to eachother?

Yup twice

Nothing compares to your first :manny: your innocent and open and bla bla.

First person? Like 8 months

Nah she was still on my mind but time and a hotter chick kills the old

Yep compared all the time
 
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No:to:The first and only love was strong. A suffocating sort of love. I pined for this chick, going to the park after midnight
sitting on a park bench and staring at the sky on some sleepless shyt. I always imagined a hundred different scenarios, staying, leaving the city,
whatever, and they all included her. I figured it was going to happen some time because my feelings were so strong that I could hang in and win
in the end.

When she gave me that final wakeup call, everything that had ever been important to me became even moreso. Unfortunately, it came at the cost
of my desire for human interaction. I withdrew the hardest I possibly could, and haven't felt that "special" feeling for any women since. I curved a lot
of chicks in pretty callous fashion since. I can't imagine the strength of desire to be with and around someone to be as strong as it was.

I may have to pretend in the future, cause being lonely sucks. I just hope I don't kill the "fire" for some other lady on account of what happened to me.
 

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Falling in Love feels great :banderas::ahh::blessed::wow: but when its over them withdrawals are :what::aicmon::FBGTFOH::francis::mjcry:
Took me about three months to get over my first love, then almost six months to get past the second :flabbynsick:
After that I was on my fukk love, get money steez. I got older, more mature and realized to treat love like everything else that makes you feel good; do it in moderation & responsibly :win:

We should all listen to Rick when it comes to love tho. One of the top two realest things I ever heard

It hits hard, then it slowly fades :ohlawd:
 

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Humans only really fall in love twice science says thats why yallsingle flabby n sick nikkas in yall thirties are in for some bullshyt.

I was just talking to this married woman who was in her forties shawty still crying over her ex she had in her twenties

My mom is in her sixties and still talks about her husband who she got married to at 24

Im just seeing my ex who was goingcrazy over me we both light and she was a hhighkey racist shorty used to call dark black people roaches n shyt she been single over some months bytch always say her ideal man was a mixed nikka she chased me tbh now she gonna settle down with some dark black nikka I know it killin her inside but people settle later in life nobody gonlove completely after AGAIN
Ever
relationships after a point is just to fulfill companionship needs real sadto see people faking happiness I could take my ex back anytime cause she still love me but not now
 

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i've been in love twice.

Second time was better.

First time was kinda shytty. i was naive and i put the girl on a pedestal. i expected too much from her. And i just expected things to be all storybook like. Took me about a month after the breakup to realize i was never getting back with my first love. Took me like 3 months to stop being upset over her.

Second time has been better overall. i'm more realistic with my expectations. And i'm just more realistic about the whole idea of love. And because i know we'll probably outgrow each other i'm more appreciative of the time we are spending together.

i compare all the girls i fukk to one another.
 

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I remember when I was 20 an old bytch I used to date moved in with some rich 30 something year old shorty used to be begging me to wife her when she come back to my country(she moved away) she used to tell me she wanna see me n shyt.
Shorty made her man pay for a holiday to come back home just so she could see me on the low. Dude would be smiling in all the pics with her n shyt he dont know he in a foreign country cuz of me

What was crazy was how vividly she remembered shyt from the past she used to describe shyt we used to do like it happened yesterday. Crazy mane
 

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Not more then once dont wanna be in the emotional rollercoaster again. :damn:
 

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Yes,but it was only a physicaly attraction. This womans ass was so big, it pulled me towards her. Other than that no, i hate my wife.:ld:
 

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I've experienced different types of love. It's all about growing older and changing as a person.

First love was for a year at age 15 thought we were going to get married.

Second was for two years good chick treated her bad. She gave everything she had for me.

Third was a year finally felt comfortable opening my self up to another person. Letting her know shyt I barely even thought of in my own conscience state. But I treated her bad too. That one hurt

Fourth I realized I got to stop treating women like shyt so now I treat her good but I personally feel boring, my life is boring and predictable. We'll see how this goes :manny:



Then countless side bytches that loved me but I had no feelings for them.





fukked up thing is, is that girls 1-3 all got married and all hmu to fukk 2-4 months before their marriage date.:francis:

It may be a blessing in disguise bc I knew them as a person that's why I didn't commit. But in my mind I think pretty much all women are this way. I'm probably 1-3 dudes they fukked before they walked down the aisle.


I know Im going to give a girl my all and she'lol eventually fukk me over. I just gotta get it out of the way :mjcry:
 
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