Have You Been In Love More Than Once?

[Mr. Negative]

I been in love more times than Drake.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

No. Only once. Everything else was just infatuation, easy to move on from.

 

[lotteryplaya]

If so, how was it the 2nd time around. Was it as strong as the first?

(I'm talking about with a different person just to be clear)

How long did it take you to get over the first person? Were you over your first love before you met your second or after?

Do you ever compare them to eachother?

Yes I have been in love more than once. It felt as strong as the first but not as special. It took years to get over the first person. She cheated so anytime the good memories come back I remind myself she cheated so I go right back to hating her again. I was over the first before I moved on to another committed relationship. Yes I did compare them because I didn't want to make the same mistake twice. I try to keep my eyes open for any red flags now.

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

No. I was in love when I was 12.

 

[YouCherThatGirl]

I'm still waiting on my first love

 

[Nymbus]

y'all low key scaring me in here

 

[Tunez]

Love

 

[Rue]

No, just once and it was that first call when you wake up, they being the last person you talk to before you go to sleep, thinking about them before you sleep, getting butterflies (cue, Alicia Keys - Butterflies ), losing yourself in a person, losing your soul, taking forever to get your soul back. Wanting to talk about the person you love all day everyday, every thought is about that person, wanting to die for that person

 

[notPsychosiz]

You can keep throwing broads back tryna get better ones, but eventually you throw a 99 back cause you tryna get a 100. Then all the ones after her arent as good... and you come across a 91... but you throw her back cause you miss your 99... then you start coming accross 70s... and you are like fk these 70s and discard em cause you are looking for at least am 80... but you can't remember how many 80s you threw away before you hit that 99... then eventually an 83 comes along... and you think you can do better... but you don't knock whats left in the deck cause you burned through so many chicks you can't keep track. So you are dissatisfied instead of being grateful. And you go crazy.

Or maybe thats just me.

 

[BujuBoombastic]

fukk love! Fire fi dat no bloodclot.

Most women don't appreciate a good man. Even if that good man pours his heart out to her and made so many sacrifices in the relationship they still won't appreciate it. Once that good man "opens" up she turns around and shyts on his heart.

 

[Giselle]

Humans only really fall in love twice science says thats why yallsingle flabby n sick nikkas in yall thirties are in for some bullshyt.

I was just talking to this married woman who was in her forties shawty still crying over her ex she had in her twenties

My mom is in her sixties and still talks about her husband who she got married to at 24

Im just seeing my ex who was goingcrazy over me we both light and she was a hhighkey racist shorty used to call dark black people roaches n shyt she been single over some months bytch always say her ideal man was a mixed nikka she chased me tbh now she gonna settle down with some dark black nikka I know it killin her inside but people settle later in life nobody gonlove completely after AGAIN
Ever
relationships after a point is just to fulfill companionship needs real sadto see people faking happiness I could take my ex back anytime cause she still love me but not now

Can you link where you read that at? I couldn't find it.

i've been in love twice.

Second time was better.

First time was kinda shytty. i was naive and i put the girl on a pedestal. i expected too much from her. And i just expected things to be all storybook like. Took me about a month after the breakup to realize i was never getting back with my first love. Took me like 3 months to stop being upset over her.

Second time has been better overall. i'm more realistic with my expectations. And i'm just more realistic about the whole idea of love. And because i know we'll probably outgrow each other i'm more appreciative of the time we are spending together.

i compare all the girls i fukk to one another.

Why do you think you will outgrow each other? Are you young? How old are you two?

Why do you compare them all to eachother?

Yes,but it was only a physicaly attraction. This womans ass was so big, it pulled me towards her. Other than that no, i hate my wife.

Why do you hate her? & Why did you marry her if you hate her? Why won't you get a divorce?

I'm still waiting on my first love

Me too.

y'all low key scaring me in here

Which part is scaring you?

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Nah... It wasn't as strong and that's kinda a good thing.

I was willing to cut her off easier, when things got tough I remembered it wasn't as bad as the first one, I didn't have complete breakdowns and shyt..

Basically I grew up

But forget love.. Get money. People throw that word around too much these days anyway

 

[Nymbus]

Which part is scaring you?

Both

 

[Giselle]

Nah... It wasn't as strong and that's kinda a good thing.

I was willing to cut her off easier, when things got tough I remembered it wasn't as bad as the first one, I didn't have complete breakdowns and shyt..

Basically I grew up

But forget love.. Get money. People throw that word around too much these days anyway

What would happen during those breakdowns? What do you mean by tough? Like, cheating?

Both

Both of what?

 

[Nymbus]

What would happen during those breakdowns? What do you mean by tough? Like, cheating?



Both of what?

When you said "which part?" I assumed you meant falling in love and falling out of love
I seen all types of stories where brehs whole lives changed after heart break
but the first part sounds even more intense