Have You Been In Love More Than Once?

[Paradise]

I always used to talk shyt about females who give their all to a no-good nikka, until I was a nikka who gave my all to a girl who didn't want me or love me... So I know that feel.

But don't give up on love, cause it's some good loyal men out here... I'm defntely one of them so I know we exist.

Basically the first cute female who keep it 100 with me, and isn't a hoe got herself a long-term partner... perhaps husband.
I have no aspirations to sleep around with multiple women... I really just want one female.
i don't know where the hell these loyal loving females are at, and how these sleezeball nikkas keep getting them.. where the fukk is mine at?

I hope one day we will all find the one we are looking for....

 

[VegasCAC]

Bruh so you never cheated on her or done her wrong and she just did that to you? That's cruel..... I'm curious if you got a thread about this..

Nah. I don't have a thread about it. Long story short she was poor and from a broken home and I basically treated her like no one had before and showed her a new life, encouraged her to do well in school, and simped hard for a long time, while dealing with her daddy issues, anger problems, and emotional abuse for 2 years. I stayed when anyone (everyone) else would've left her ass. She even told me how lucky she was to have me all the time.

I didn't see her flaws because I was super young (read:stupid) and put her on a pedastal. Problem was, like every long term relationship shyt gets dry after awhile. She just lost all feeling for me and ended it.

I remember thinking...

How could she have been there at the same place I was during those memorable moments in a relationship, and felt the same thing I felt, and just lose all feeling? We both promised that this woul last forever. I loved her despite everything. How could she? How could she do this to me?


I learned a lot from it though. Turned me but honestly I wish her the best.




JK I hope that bytch dies of AIDS. fukking whore

 

[Paradise]

Nah. I don't have a thread about it. Long story short she was poor and from a broken home and I basically treated her like no one had before and showed her a new life, encouraged her to do well in school, and simped hard for a long time, while dealing with her daddy issues, anger problems, and emotional abuse for 2 years. I stayed when anyone (everyone) else would've left her ass. She even told me how lucky she was to have me all the time.

I didn't see her flaws because I was super young (read:stupid) and put her on a pedastal. Problem was, like every long term relationship shyt gets dry after awhile. She just lost all feeling for me and ended it.

I remember thinking...

How could she have been there at the same place I was during those memorable moments in a relationship, and felt the same thing I felt, and just lose all feeling? We both promised that this woul last forever. I loved her despite everything. How could she? How could she do this to me?


I learned a lot from it though. Turned me but honestly I wish her the best.




JK I hope that bytch dies of AIDS. fukking whore

I was about to be like aweeeeeee.... The ending killed it. But I feel you though.

 

[jbrad]

I've been in love once. I gave that man everything I had to give and then some only to get an half ass effort. I waited on him hand and foot.... Even helped him when he was down and out. He stayed cheating on me. That man didn't break my heart, he hurt my soul! I don't know if I want to fall in love anymore.

I won't cheat on you! *please send me PayPal money, need Newports*

 

[Paradise]

I won't cheat on you! *please send me PayPal money, need Newports*

Lol....

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Once.

It takes a long time for me to love someone. I can see it happening again tho. For me love is more about actions than a feeling. I've loved someone to the point where I would take a bullet for them no questions asked. I don't even feel that way about my family.

We'll see what happens in the future tho. I've had some deep connections with girls since then, but getting my heart broke forced me to never let them into my heart. shyts kinda sad when I think about it. The vicious cycle... hurt people hurt people.

 

[Bunchy Carter]

Did they ever ask you why you don't tell them, "I love you"?

I had one of my old girls ask me and I told her you sound insecure. Then I told her love is expressed through actions; not verbal, if I say I love you and beat on you is that love, she was like no. If I say I love you and curse you and and talk down to you is that love; she was like no. Then I said; I pick you up, I help you, hold you hand, help you with things, go places I don't want to go to, I take you out, we celebrate all your birthdays and other accomplishments; I show my love, I just don't say it. She was fine with what I said; but she said I was emotionless and I was not compassionate. I told her I'm not mother goose.

Then she told me why she asked and it was because her friend (I did not like her) asked her have I ever said I love you and she said no and she asked why you need to know if he loves you and him not saying it means he does not. I broke up with her a couple of months after that; were still coo, but she's not friends with that chick.

On the real my pops said I love you to my mom and he used try to beat on my mom when I was young and even at my young age I was not having that and I would defend my mom.

 

[agnosticlady]

I had one of my old girls ask me and I told her you sound insecure. Then I told her love is expressed through actions; not verbal, if I say I love you and beat on you is that love, she was like no. If I say I love you and curse you and and talk down to you is that love; she was like no. Then I said; I pick you up, I help you, hold you hand, help you with things, go places I don't want to go to, I take you out, we celebrate all your birthdays and other accomplishments; I show my love, I just don't say it. She was fine with what I said; but she said I was emotionless and I was not compassionate. I told her I'm not mother goose.

Then she told me why she asked and it was because her friend (I did not like her) asked her have I ever said I love you and she said no and she asked why you need to know if he loves you and him not saying it means he does not. I broke up with her a couple of months after that; were still coo, but she's not friends with that chick.

On the real my pops said I love you to my mom and he used try to beat on my mom when I was young and even at my young age I was not having that and I would defend my mom.

I get where you are coming from. No actions with kind words keep people in abusive relationships. I definitely agree with the idea that love is an action. Too many times people toss around the word without proving it. Personally for me I have to be with an affectionate person. I take relationships seriously and if the person can't be affectionate then I'm out. Some people enter relationships to stay in them. For me the end goal of a relationship is marriage. So my thinking is if he can not be affectionate then marriage would be a terrible idea. Out of curiosity do you think that you would have eventually told them that you love them? "Or were they requesting I love you's", Early on in the relationship? Lastly do you think seeing what your father did made you very particular about who you tell, "I love you"? Just curious, you don't have to answer if it's too personal

 

[Music Fiend]

Once, lost myself hard over those years, became a bytch made nikka. Talaked about her endlesssly slandering her name to my friends and my bro for at least 2 years after. It's been even longer now and I'm not quite sure I'll ever be over her, but I find myself not thinking baout her much, and I find myself thinking of her as more of an object I once had than a human being since we dont talk.

Nowadays, I'm ruthless, I can't take that pain again as a man first or as a human. If I ever have to go through that again, I just might off myself. So to keep myself from getting too deep and losing myself with current ladies, I tend to be critical and push em away until they run lol.

That way I can be alone... which is better than anticipating an end that's blindsided. But I've grown alot since those young years and doubt if I ever do let someone in my head and life that far again ( which I wont since it wasnt healthy), I'd prolly bounce back after the all the minor disappointments.

I can't keep a girl now, but I've gotten A1 with keeping it pushing.

 

[Bunchy Carter]

I get where you are coming from. No actions with kind words keep people in abusive relationships. I definitely agree with the idea that love is an action. Too many times people toss around the word without proving it. Personally for me I have to be with an affectionate person. I take relationships seriously and if the person can't be affectionate then I'm out. Some people enter relationships to stay in them. For me the end goal of a relationship is marriage. So my thinking is if he can not be affectionate then marriage would be a terrible idea. Out of curiosity do you think that you would have eventually told them that you love them? "Or were they requesting I love you's", Early on in the relationship? Lastly do you think seeing what your father did made you very particular about who you tell, "I love you"? Just curious, you don't have to answer if it's too personal

Naw it ain't personal; seeing my father did not affect me with relationships. The ladies wanted the I love you's not the I love you, the everytime you see them, talk, text, when were out with her friends and etc, I have to say I love you. It's almost a comparison to when ladies call each other 'that's my bff all the time,' everybody knows that is fake. If I have to say I love you 10 times a day; that's a sign you need reassurance for our relationship. Would I have eventually said I love you; maybe not becuase If and when I find a woman that I want to marry; then I will say I love your forever. Not I love you and 5 years later were divorced and half of my stuff is gone.

I'm affectionate; I buy flowers, the cuddle stuff and other stuff (for my gf not some random girl) but far as me crying and showing emotions I just don't do that. My mom even said I was like that as a baby; I would hurt myself but I would not cry, but I laugh a lot, which I do right now and I crack jokes. I laugh at everything, but I can keep a straight face for a long time. I'm just a serious person and some people don't like that and I really don't care.

 

[agnosticlady]

Naw it ain't personal; seeing my father did not affect me with relationships. The ladies wanted the I love you's not the I love you, the everytime you see them, talk, text, when were out with her friends and etc, I have to say I love you. It's almost a comparison to when ladies call each other 'that's my bff all the time,' everybody knows that is fake. If I have to say I love you 10 times a day; that's a sign you need reassurance for our relationship. Would I have eventually said I love you; maybe not becuase If and when I find a woman that I want to marry; then I will say I love your forever. Not I love you and 5 years later were divorced and half of my stuff is gone.

I'm affectionate; I buy flowers, the cuddle stuff and other stuff (for my gf not some random girl) but far as me crying and showing emotions I just don't do that. My mom even said I was like that as a baby; I would hurt myself but I would not cry, but I laugh a lot, which I do right now and I crack jokes. I laugh at everything, but I can keep a straight face for a long time. I'm just a serious person and some people don't like that and I really don't care.

Ok, I definitely understand where you are coming from now. Doing things like cuddling, flowers, and etc is affectionate. I don't agree with always having to say I love you in public for the world to see. People who do that are insecure and are more interested in pleasing the outside instead of the person they are in a relationship with. I am a very affectionate and loving person, but I value affection in private more than public. I am not interested in the public's opinion, especially when we are happy together. It is a good thing that you only want to tell a woman that you will marry that you love her. The fact that the word is always thrown around makes it less valuable.

 

[Gully Bull]

Nah.. I'll only be in love once

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Twice

 

[Bless't]

thrice.