You're not a fool at all, breh.
We are brehs who didn't have the type of people who could provide us that type of knowledge and resources. Just take your experience and have that money saved up for the day a situation like that may pop up again.
I'm optimistic that we can be apart of the future waves of opportunity. Even considering how dysfunctional our society is, I can't ignore the fact that we are open to opportunities previously closed to our older relatives.
Regardless, though, respect.

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I'm not even trying to hate on brehs who come from the suburbs - I'm definitely not a corny nikka who assumes every suburban black man is a lame - I just see this vision of my children being City kids, knowing how to take the train w/o getting rattled, being able to go to the corner store and not being too timid to demand the correct change from the cashier even though a bunch of impatient people are behind them, and knowing how to take a damn dollar van type shyt!
I can't see myself as a Long Island dad...especially because I'm concerned as hell about my children being the only black children in the class. I'm just too scared of the worst case scenarios.
I need diversity or mostly black.