Have you ever been stood up on a date? Share please

[Wise]

A couple months back I was telling a group of my friends "yo I went to this town like 40 mins away to meet a chick off the internet for the first time and she stood me up"

Guy 1: You went that far and got stood up?

Guy 2: I been stood up once too, fukk her

Guy 3: Happened to me once a couple years ago too

Guy 1: Cant lie, I got stood up once too

Me: nikka you were just laughing at me for that

Honestly, that's light. Happened once just make sure it don't happen again.

 

[Wise]

She text me!

Panic over brehs. She had a family emergency

She's able to meet up now so I told her I'd pay for her cab so it's one less thing to worry about than driving

She was fukking a nikka who doesn't do anything for her but let her hop on the backwoods. After that she meets the other guys who wine and dine her

 

[International Playa]

"Family Emergency"

Homie offering to pay her cab

OP got simp bones all over his body. Homegirl probably was late coz her nikka was taking time to bust a nut.

Ask yourself why she didnt call you or text you she was gonna be late. Ask yourself when you called, how come she wasnt answering

 

[Dwolf]

Heh

 

[Silkk]

Cancel that bytch dawg

 

[SheWantTheD]

No. Usually I'll know way ahead of time, I've already gauged her interest. If I do think there's a possibility she might waste my time I counter. I'll act like maybe I can't show. If she starts getting riled up then I know she was gonna go. If it's not a big deal then I know she ain't that interested and I don't wanna waste my time.

Are you talking on the phone with them when you are gauging their interest? When a chick cancels or flakes I just say "Ight cool, maybe another time" but in reality I'm disappointed and pissed.

Now if it's a chick I don't really know and have talked with a bit here and there then ight it's whatever. If it's a chick I spent a considerable amount of time putting in work for then yeah it's gonna hit me.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Not on the spot, that would be brutal. But i did get a 2 day prior cancellation. After eventually going on the date a month later, should have kept it cancelled.

How did you get the date a month later? Did she hit you up a month later? I had something similar happen to me. Went on a date with a chick we had a great time (she asked for a second one towards the end), but I wasn't making any physical moves so she probably started losing interest and started flaking and shyt. Had to ignore her to get another one. I don't know what she was doing, but she told me we can go on a date in two weeks after finals. Told her nah, I'm good

 

[SheWantTheD]

Okay now I'm really worried about her

She's not answering her phone

Bro, how old are you?! I'm inexperienced as hell when it comes to women and even I ain't this clueless. Ain't nothing wrong with her B, she's not answering her phone cause she flaked breh.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

How did you get the date a month later? Did she hit you up a month later?

I hit her up on some completely just casual talk cause I was trying to get her input on something I was working on since she had experience with it. Then she brought up the date she cancelled on and asked if we could retry. I was reluctant cause I was def getting plan b nikka vibes, but went through with it.

shyt happens for a reason though, just not my type and dreaded the whole damn date. When I dropped her off, I don't remember if I stayed to make sure she got in, I was a bat outta hell pulling off.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Brooooooooooooo there's absolutely nothing that makes me madder than this. Hoes be hitting me back like 2 or 3 days letter talking bout " I was sleep " like thot you was sleep for 48 hours

Man.. I've had women that were feeling me hit me with shyt like that! Got a chick's number, she told me to text her later that day so I did. Thought she ain't get it cause the message went through as green, so I sent her another one a couple hours later she gon say she was asleep. And if they are young and put "lol" in their text messages, it means they are straight lying breh.

fukk texting, I'm only gonna call chicks now.

 

[Address_Unknown]

Was out a few months ago with a girl I'm supposed to be good friends with but she don't check for me at all. It been like that for a while, I accepted that shyt and kept it moving. We meet up and some how we get to talk about Straight out of Compton and I told her I done watched it twice and she says I should have taken her..(bytch.), so I go "Aight, This Friday?" She all like "OH MY GOD YES! I MISS GOING OUT WITH YOU!" and I'm like "But you stopped checking for a brother when you was out here chasing all these wack ass dudes you end up crying about less than a year down the road when you find out you on a roster.

Fast forward to the date night, I wasn't going to pick her ass up 'cause I'm already kinda pissed that I'm paying for her shyt and will more than likely have to pay for drinks and food, so I let her drive. Movie's at 9, I'm there at 8:30. Call, no answer. Buy the tickets, call, no answer. 8:50, no answer. Check my Whatsapp, no text.

Half way through the movie I decide to hit up Instagram and this bytch is at a Cocktail party posting flame Emjoiis talkin about "DIS shyt LIT!!!" And I'm like . "Never again. Never the fukk again."

Turns out she got hollered at by some dude and went out with her fukk ass friend who's supposed to be my friend too but she on the same trifling hoe tip, convinced her to chuck me to the bushes so she could go stepping with some gangly ass fukk boy. Now I'm not mad she decided to go out with dude, I've never really tried to knock it down since our relationship has been sorta up and down due to our attitudes and such, but she's supposed to be a good friend and all and in the past we was pretty much party buddies during college and well after that shyt. She coulda told a dude, though. But yeah.

That's the last time. I was more pissed that she didn't tell me 'cause if she did, I would have just gotten high and enjoyed Compton again on the Imax

Epilogue:- The dude she went out with that night, she ended up fukking a few times then got her feelings hurt when she found out dude was knocking down other chicks and lying to her about it. I wanted to laugh, but I just made up mind to keep away from these dippy broads the same way they stopped fukking with me.

 

[SheWantTheD]

I hit her up on some completely just casual talk cause I was trying to get her input on something I was working on since she had experience with it. Then she brought up the date she cancelled on and asked if we could retry. I was reluctant cause I was def getting plan b nikka vibes, but went through with it.

shyt happens for a reason though, just not my type and dreaded the whole damn date. When I dropped her off, I don't remember if I stayed to make sure she got in, I was a bat outta hell pulling off.

oh damn, what was off putting about her? Date probably ain't go well cause you weren't her first choice and she probably took you for granted.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Was out a few months ago with a girl I'm supposed to be good friends with but she don't check for me at all. It been like that for a while, I accepted that shyt and kept it moving. We meet up and some how we get to talk about Straight out of Compton and I told her I done watched it twice and she says I should have taken her..(bytch.), so I go "Aight, This Friday?" She all like "OH MY GOD YES! I MISS GOING OUT WITH YOU!" and I'm like "But you stopped checking for a brother when you was out here chasing all these wack ass dudes you end up crying about less than a year down the road when you find out you on a roster.

Fast forward to the date night, I wasn't going to pick her ass up 'cause I'm already kinda pissed that I'm paying for her shyt and will more than likely have to pay for drinks and food, so I let her drive. Movie's at 9, I'm there at 8:30. Call, no answer. Buy the tickets, call, no answer. 8:50, no answer. Check my Whatsapp, no text.

Half way through the movie I decide to hit up Instagram and this bytch is at a Cocktail party posting flame Emjoiis talkin about "DIS shyt LIT!!!" And I'm like . "Never again. Never the fukk again."

Turns out she got hollered at by some dude and went out with her fukk ass friend who's supposed to be my friend too but she on the same trifling hoe tip, convinced her to chuck me to the bushes so she could go stepping with some gangly ass fukk boy. Now I'm not mad she decided to go out with dude, I've never really tried to knock it down since our relationship has been sorta up and down due to our attitudes and such, but she's supposed to be a good friend and all and in the past we was pretty much party buddies during college and well after that shyt. She coulda told a dude, though. But yeah.

That's the last time. I was more pissed that she didn't tell me 'cause if she did, I would have just gotten high and enjoyed Compton again on the Imax

Epilogue:- The dude she went out with that night, she ended up fukking a few times then got her feelings hurt when she found out dude was knocking down other chicks and lying to her about it. I wanted to laugh, but I just made up mind to keep away from these dippy broads the same way they stopped fukking with me.

These the same type of women that will say men ain't shyt, there special flowers that deserve better, that there sick and tired of men using and treating them like crap, etc

 

[SheWantTheD]

"Family Emergency"

Homie offering to pay her cab

OP got simp bones all over his body. Homegirl probably was late coz her nikka was taking time to bust a nut.

Ask yourself why she didnt call you or text you she was gonna be late. Ask yourself when you called, how come she wasnt answering

He's digging his own grave breh. I bet she ain't even tell him what the "family emergency" was. Man, it's so easy to spot simping and getting played from the outside looking in. If a lot of us were this dude with our feelings getting in the way, we'd rationalize the shyt too or say we don't care cause we want p*ssy.

 

[Address_Unknown]

These the same type of women that will say men ain't shyt, there special flowers that deserve better, that there sick and tired of men using and treating them like crap, etc

Breh, I was in a group chat with that chick and the other one and that's the narrative. Whenever you meet 'em "Dudes ain't shyt". To be honest, I think the only way I'd actually get her to notice me if I were to be forward with my advances and try and hit. Nothing is wrong with her physically, but I know her personality and I can tell we'd have arguments over trivial shyt. Plus the last dude she was with, she wanted breh to change some shyt in his life and gave him an ultamatum and he left her ass.

Dude was a straight edge, videogame playing boyscout. A solid simp type dude, good job, moving up, all that. So imagine what she would have done to my carefree, easy going ass (pause)? Eh. We ain't that close no more and that bullshyt she pulled without telling a brother she cancelled let me further know that I ain't worth her respect either. She'll be all, the fukk, right, with that shyt.