Have you ever been the first man to treat a woman right in a relationship?

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I think even

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Would agree this is a bad look for a man most times

She will not appreciate u cause she never been appreciated before.

After she lose u

She will end up appreciating u for the next guy
I tell people to leave damaged people alone. Point blank period. But some men and women seem to LOVE human projects.
And some men be on this nonsense. I don’t know what it is, but some dudes literally just have a hard on for damaged women. We always talk about chicks liking bad dudes, but a LOT of dudes waste their prime years dealing with trash chicks, bum chicks, users, legit demons, crazy chicks, just straight up TOXIC women…and
THEY MAKE BABIES BY THESE CHICKS.

Literally tether themselves to these types of chicks FO LIFE.

But then wanna be bitter and angry at the other women they were even checking for or don’t even interact with over the choices in women THEY made. I wish men made better choices in women they chose to pursue, court, nut in, date, marry. But some dudes chase chicks with issues thinking they’ll be easy to handle or manipulate. But a lot of dudes end up wasting their lives with these types.
 

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fukk just feeling me. I need a bytch to become my motherfukking avatar. That shyt always takes work and patience.
You not gone make a broken women your avatar by trying to treat her better. She don’t want that shyt (no matter how much she says)

You already hustling backwards.
 

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You not gone make a broken women your avatar by trying to treat her better. She don’t want that shyt (no matter how much she says)

You already hustling backwards.


I never said shyt about ‘treating her better’ in the twisted way that you’re thinking about it. What I said is I will show her what a real man is. How I do that is by living out my principles with integrity in front of her. She’s going to see that I’m not like any other man she’s ever been with.

The act of just living by my principles alone is gonna make me The most abused man in the world for the next couple of months.

She is going to be looking for me to lie and I don’t do that. She may be looking for me to kick her ass and I won’t do that shyt either.
 

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I never said shyt about ‘treating her better’ in the twisted way that you’re thinking about it. What I said is I will show her what a real man is. How I do that is by living out my principles with integrity in front of her. She’s going to see that I’m not like any other man she’s ever been with.

The act of just living by my principles alone is gonna make me The most abused man in the world for the next couple of months.

She is going to be looking for me to lie and I don’t do that. She may be looking for me to kick her ass and I won’t do that shyt either.
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several times

One chick who was a co worker, had nothing but bad relationships because she kept picking the same party 18 hours a day dude and when I came into her life it was peace, go to the lounge once every two weeks and have are own date night a couple days out the week and travel up and down the state on weekends..

That was boring for her, so we broke up and about 6 months later she harassing me, texting me, pleading to get back together because the next dude was abusive and had no job

I had to change my number ..


2.. the next chick was a mother of 1… all her dating/relationships prior to me was with a ex con who was married with 5 kids, another ex con who was a drug dealer, her baby daddy was a broke nikka living with his sister and some random other nikka..

I was the first nikka to even buy her a gift for Xmas:gucci: and I was like u 38 years old…next thing I know she started buying me clothes, shoes, watches, etc…

I come to realized when dealing with older women, 90% of their prior relationships been abusive rather physically or mentally..

It’s crazy how these women can pick and work good jobs but can’t figure out a good relationship
 

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Yea, the bare minimum amazes them. Very easy to be with in my experience and low maintenance.
 

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yeah

i got involved with an older woman who had been through some absolute shyt...so me doing things i consider bare minimum went a super long way with her

because of this she sent me a lot of mixed signals... then accused me of sending mixed signals...cause in her mind I had to be in love with her based on how I was treating her...but I wasnt....i was just being considerate

she went from telling me not to fall in love/acting like she had a roster to being super in love and possessive....then stalkerish...had to block her on everything and thankfully I moved a few weeks after I ended things...

sucks, because she was really cool before it went that way
 
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