Have you ever cheated or had an affair?

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

Just a few questions..

So if the sex was better - and he made you feel more comfortable than your own husband is this an indication that something may be wrong in your marriage? you said you did things you thought you never would etc...

Why does it sound like you have an ego - Your side dude looked sad - you husband knows what he got etc.. it almost seems like you see yourself above your husband.

If your husband cheated now what would be the outcome?

I respect the honesty to an extent though..

Yes technically the sex was better with the other guy but only because it felt like an adventure where as me and my man had been together so long that it was kind of routine. No I don't think there is a problem because although sex is very important, its not the most important thing.

I don't feel I have an ego its just that I know what I bring to the table. Besides this one blemish I am in reality a good ass woman. I've stood with him in situations where most would have dipped. I'm confident in that.

Do you think you'll cheat again?

No. Before I feel the need to cheat I'll just leave. I learned my lesson.

 

[Aphrodite]

You mean the type of pull that makes you a "side bytch"?

The become the main and dump the nikkas? Yeah.

 

[Aphrodite]

nikka u gay

I didn't see this but he had no idea I was trans for like a year after following me on IG. He thought I was cis. He found out on here after already seeing me and talking to me and whatever.

 

[1thouwow]

I didn't see this but he had no idea I was trans for like a year after following me on IG. He thought I was cis. He found out on here after already seeing me and talking to me and whatever.

what the hell are you nikka?

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

I didn't see this but he had no idea I was trans for like a year after following me on IG. He thought I was cis. He found out on here after already seeing me and talking to me and whatever.

It's not an issue, I explained that to him so opinions

 

[Aphrodite]

what the hell are you nikka?

human.

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

Nope. I know how it feels to get cheated on, but even if I didn't, I'll never do that to someone.

I would just remain single and be with who I wanted.

 

[Mike Ock]

I did...this was almost 3 years ago. Right when we first decided to become official it happened to be around the time my solo trip to Europe was scheduled. I was out here solo for 10 days, 3 different countries. I hooked up with my hostel mate in London, she was from Japan. I hooked up with this chik from america in Amsterdam, thats cause we were the only Americans we knew. I didn't smash though. Paris I hooked up with this chik who was a tour leader for a pub-crawl I did out there. London chik was the only one that I piped. I came back from my trip and kept in contact with the London hostel-mate. About 4 months later she ended up coming out here to meet a friend who went to Colombia University. We hooked up twice while she was here then I totally got rid of any way for us to contact each other. I blocked her phone number, email...anyway for her to contact me. I felt like a dirtbag after that. I felt even more pathetic because about 6 months after this, me and my girl end up going to Japan. I found myself a little nervous because asians look alike and I thought a few girls we randomly saw in the street could have been the hostel roommate. I said to myself "Look at you man. That dirt got you nervous on a vacation on the other side of the damn planet". That's when it kicked in. That 5-10mins of fuking is def not worth losing my girl, and adding extra stress on myself. Since then I don't even think about it.

 

[The Mad Titan]

@Out2TheOld you and your husband on the up and up now? Or is it the same ole stuff?

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

@Out2TheOld you and your husband on the up and up now? Or is it the same ole stuff?

Nah...since we reconnected in mid 2013 we've been doing very well.

 

[Archangel]

A lot of dark memories within this thread. Even I have such a past that wouldst maketh one hang thy head in shame. Thank God for redemption and mercy.

 

[Solano707]

Do I think I would be with the guy NOW honestly, no. Would I probably have left my man for him if he wouldn't have showed his colors....sadly...yes.

That's why I said in an earlier post that he did me a HUGE favor by breaking my heart... It would have been a huge mistake.

...is that you in your avi?

 

[Solano707]

A lot of dark memories within this thread. Even I have such a past that wouldst maketh one hang thy head in shame. Thank God for redemption and mercy.

I'm saying tho; for those that are going through it with their cheating partner, just remember this: the sooner you cut them loose, the sooner you let the healing process begin.

I will say, I've been divorced since this past March - and it's been absolutely wonderful. I sleep like the dead at night knowing that some hoe ain't tricking off on me. It DOES get better, a whole lot better. The only regret that I have from my marriage - is that I should have divorced her ass a long time ago.

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

...is that you in your avi?

Yes.

 

[RicanFury]

was once a side nikka who wanted her to leave him. was a daily hell. i would not recommend.